Topic : 02/21 More Wifestyles

I was reminded greatly of my cousin who is a high functioning autistic. Grant would be very high functioning so maybe it's not exactly that but some basic disconnection in his brain. He does appear to want to learn and he is highly intelligent so I trust that he can.  

I think his wife is wonderful and that he's a lucky man and hope that he grows to appreciate that. 

What a shame this attractive young lady with so much potential is 

spoken down to like a mistreated animal. She's young, for pity's sake, 

just because we're born female doesn't mean we have Betty Crocker 

within. 

She has much to learn, life to experience. How will she ever be able to 

do the things a woman learns to enjoy with a man peering over her shoulder? 

The guest woman who thought the wife should bow and please, good grief, woman, 

you're brainwashed! Do you have a life outside of licking the dirt from your husband's shoes? 

"Honey, let's cook dinner together" would travel much further than his 

silly rating system. 

How old are these two, and at what age did they marry? 

This poor girl is trying everything she can to be what she will never be in his eyes. 

Dear lady, please work on yourself, not your husband's wish list. Ten years from now 

you will develop a bitter taste in your mouth for having wasted all these years of your life 

trying to be June Cleaver.  

When you find a man who loves you and accepts you, burnt toast and all, then you will 

truly know what a happy marriage is. 

Grant, I am confussed about something? 

When you married your wife, did you fall in love with her or what she could do for you and how much of a trophy she could look like in front of others. If my husband took off his wedding band, I would think that he did so because he wanted other women to know that he was available. You have a beautiful wife and I am afraid that one day she will get fed up with listening to the critisism and realize that there is a man out there for her that will truly appreciate and accept her. If she takes off her wedding band and engagement ring until you put yours back on, men will start to hit on her and one of them may accept her as she is and she will fall in love with the idea of being loved for who she is. Just a little advice, when you get frustrated and start to  "white knuckle it"  look for little things that you like and appreciate about your wife and tell her. When you are truly frustrated with something, don't complain, explain. For example: instead of telling her she's not loading the dishwasher properly, thank her for doing the dishes, then explain that if you put all the cups in a row on the top shelf  and lean the bowls up against them, that more dishes will fit and you would save on the water bill and can then use the extra money for a nice dinner out together. While telling her this you should be helping though, not standing over her and demanding compliance. Many times, men will say what they what but not be specific. Women need details not demands. The more you compliment her the happier she will be and the happier she is the more she will want to please you. Make her fall back in love with you Grant before you lose her.  And finaly, a rule of thumb holding things in is not good, but if you must complain or express your dissatisfaction with something you should:  1. compliment 2. explain what your upset about and help 3. compliment 4. compliment            For every disatisfaction you should give at least 3 compliments   

If everytime you were with someone they complained about your inabilities, sooner or later you would just give up or you would just choose to not be around the person. If you had 2 friends, 1 who was always complaining about you and another who laughed alot and loved and accepted you with your faults, which one would you remain friends with????? 

But, what does it teach a kid about grooming and personal cleanliness when he or she grows up in a house kept in disarray. Children benefit from routines in their lives - go look it up in a book. 

OMG, what does it teach a child to hear one parent berate the other? This is not only such very poor parenting, it is a pitiful excuse for being a bully.  

I don't know another woman anywhere who would or should be treated this way by anybody. When is Kelly going to turn the tables? When is Kelly going to grade Grant? Wealth -- C, Consideration -- D, Companionship -- D,   Lovemaking -- D, Parenting -- D...  How does Grant stack up on the Husband scale? Kelly should get lots of extra points for even trying to co-operate with him. Poor Kelly -- she is so poised and articulate, which leaves me completely stumped why she is silent or accepting when he is judging her and grading her.   

Life is too too too short. And when Kelly looks back on this marriage I can't imagine she will ever think of these years fondly. If Grant got hit by a bus tomorrow I wonder if Kelly would feel sorrow or relief?  

WHO  SAID THAT WHEN YOU GET MARRIED YOU AUTOMATICALLY ARE GETTING A MAID, WHY DOESN'T HE DOES SOME WORK AROUND THE HOUSE INSTEAD OF MESSING UP WITH HIS WIFE, AND  THE LADY IN THE AUDDIENCE ALSO SAYING THAT SHE SHOULD DO IT, WHAT THE HELL. 

HOW WOULD SHE FEEL LIVING WITH A BOSS OR A SERGENT LIKE MAN NOT A HUSBAND, DO THIS, DO THAT, NOW COMON AND GIVE ME SEX, GO DO THINGS RIGHT NOW? WHAT? 

I AM SOOOOOOOOOO ANGRY I WISH I WAS ON THIS SHOW RIGHT NOW. 

PLEASE DR.PHILL TELL THEM TO GET A DIVORCE!!!! HE IS A JERK 

I think the perfect husband is what makes a perfect wife!