Topic : 02/27 Twisted Love: The Aftermath

Funny, you say you dont pay attention to the "venom" but you sure are here a lot, defending yourself and trying to sell us your supposed "reformation".   

I think you LOVE the attention, the notoriety.  People like you thrive on ATTENTION... ANY kind of attention is good to you.  It makes you feel important.. like a "powerhouse  and alpha-male" to use a couple of your ridiculous, self-serving descriptions of yourself.  

You are so transparent, it's pathetic.  You have no empathy, a huge sense of entitlement, grandiose ideas about your self and your omnipotence.   It's even more pathetic how you really truly believe these things about yourself and can't understand why we don't all just accept your superiority.   

One day maybe your wife will decide that her door-mat days are over and carry you and your alpha-male ass out to the curb with the rest of the trash. 

You're a sad excuse for a man. 

TO THE OTHER WOMAN. 9 YRS DOESNT MEAN YOU WON. YOU NEED TO LOOK AT HOW LONG HE WAS WITH HIS WIFE BEFORE HE CHEATED WITH YOU. 

Dr. Phil, how could  you sit and watch that man nod his head  the whole time you talked to him? I would have had to put a frigging neck brace on him. He is the most cockiest man i have ever seen on TV.  "HE IS NOT ALL THAT".  I swear to god the first time i see him on your show, i  knew he would be back, he loves the spot light.  After watching your show yesterday with Charlie and Tracy,  He made my stomach roll,  it made me curious what that other woman looked like "man drop to their feet when they see her"  (his quote) ya right!!  Men like Charlie drop to their feet because he can't keep his head steady enough to study the subject in front of him because he is too damn busy being wrapped up in himself.  I have to tell you Dr. Phil, after watching your show last night, I went to bed dreaming about Charlie, How could you do that to one of your dedicated viewers? A nightmare i don't envy Tracy to waking up to every morning...I hope you don't bring him back, he loves the fame.  He don't deserve it.   As for Tracy, that poor Gal would be better off dropping Charlie for a night at the movies with "Charlie and the Chocolate Factory"  she would get more satisfaction than what is sitting next to on on your stage... 

Thanks for listening to me 

Frustrated "thanks to Charlie" 

I PERSONALLY BELIEVE THAT IF YOU ARE MAKING ANY REAL CHANGE, THAT YOU WILL RETURN IN 6-9 MONTHS TO THE SHOW AND SHOW US ALL A DIFFERENT CHARLIE THAN WE SAW IN THE FIRST TWO SHOWS!!!!! 

  Charles,  

you said that you exhausted your relationship with your wife.  

You can   exhaust something only if you just use it without nurturing it. It is like the soil. You can take its fruit, vegetables etc, exhaust it, but if you don't take care of it, nurture it, the next year it will be barren.  

  Veronika 

Dear Charles & Tracy, 

   I must admit that i too made arrogance a part of my life...but those days are behind me...it first attracted me cause of it's superficial high but i was naive...it made me insecure to my true friends etc...i see this in you, Charles cause it's making u insecure with ur wife...which led 2 ur infidelity...this has nothing to do with ur wife/childern...it originates from Charles cause of his way of thinking...being the 'alpha male'...it's prideful, boastful, concieted etc...the spiritual part of you is not on the right path...that's the key, this is where ur going wrong...this is where i found my peace and let go of my wrongful/sinful ways...instead of focusing on being the 'alpha' male, concentrate/focus on (eg.Christian) Jesus.  He's the forgiver of your sins, the truth, and Divine Mercy, who will lead you to the Father(God), whose beyond your own imagination.  You will be humbled, your TRUE IDENITY will unfold, you will end your false idenity of being the alpha male (a mask).  You will see your true friends, no longer be insecure to Tracy and the weakness that arrogance led u to infidelity will be behind you...no longer to worry any1...your wife/children/urself...i'm reaching out  to you cause you are looking for help to save yourself and your marriage...i have people very close to me who are arrogant and i've tried to reach out to them but it failed...maybe they were not ready or they couldn't see it for themselves...or it's just not their time...to speak on behalf of myself, i overcame the arrogance miraclously...i met some1 and somehow for the 1st time did not want to subject them to it, so i ended it...it's not that i didn't love my family and so i never changed for them but it was i believe just my luck/time/?   Arrogant people shouldn't be hated on cause of their situation, though it's hard to handle, but inside they 2 are human and IT IS POSSIBLE TO CHANGE...maybe even pray for that change, miracles do happen... 

so here we go again, the women is a whore....WHAT is a man????????? 

My friend is very special to me and I to him.  We both have spouses that cannot make it without us.  they lean on us way way to much in life.  Sometimes you need to let go of all that stress and lean on someone else  for a few hours.   

I am treated with all respect by my friend....I feel no less, no shame. 

Actually we choose not to see the shows on air........  

The producers sent us a copy of the unedited version.......  

The first show was REALLY hard to watch. I was insane.......  

The second was OK...... but all of you need to understand that we have moved forward with our lives since the actual taping. 

Watching the shows (for us) is like watching a re-run of a news show ......it's old news......... 

We are recommitting our vows.....20 years.......... stay tuned.....