Topic : 03/09 Family Chaos

  That lady needs stop blaming everyone for being who she is.  The husband needs to pack his bags and go.  This lady is out spending 2000.00 on a purse.  My Goodness there are parents sitting by their kids bed side praying that the kid will live through the night that have not eaten in days because they don't have the money to eat in the hospital.  They don't have the gas to take their kids to the Dr.  She is out blowing more money than my house hold has in 3 months on one item that she has never uses.  She needs to ashamed of herself.  . They  are  sitting there saying she isn't spending so much any more but blowing 2400.00 on a dog and buying it clothes.  Go to the humane society, make the clothes for the dog yourself, get some pride in yourself.  Quit making excuses you are sickening.  Donate money to children's hospitals or go to a nursing home and make crafts with the elderly that nobody visits.  Get up off the couch and move lady there are a lot of people that wish they could.  Stop drowning  in self pity and making excuses all the time for your own mistakes.  You are a drama queen and you love all the attention you are getting because if you didn't why did you show the wig you wear in public on TV.  I can tell you that the next time you are on Dr Phil I will turn the channel because you give women a bad name.  

  He is a Dr.  With all drama at home I sure wouldn't let you touch me or my kids.  Cut up the credit cards.  Close down the checking accounts take control of what you earn and put it to good use.  GET a Divorce.  Even if she get half you will find happiness out there.  Take what you can, drive to a small town that needs help and start putting the talents that God gave you to good use.  Do something.. stop being a victim to this lady.  You may always love her but believe me there is more to life than living with a woman that enrages you to that point. You can't feel good about yourself right now. Life is to short to be that unhappy.  You can control that part of your life.  Choose to be happy.  Don't stay with that woman who is hell bent on making you pay the price for her misery.  Life is a gift and I see my son struggle for life ever day.  I don't think I have ever been so outraged in my life.  Get her out of your life and you will see how fast you will be a happy person again.   

This family has no boundaries at all. Watching them makes me feel very thankful for my family. Bridgette was talking about that they aren't really a family and how she would like to be like her neighbors. Does she do anything to promote being a family?  I find it totally incomprehensible that the children are living on food stamps. Come on! Mom should be fixing meals and having them over for dinner. The lifestyle that they have is opulent. I know he works hard, but so do most Americans. I have three supposed adults living in my house. I would no more allow them to collect food stamps if we could possibly assist them financially. The problem with these kids is they are totally spoiled and have no idea about taking pride in a job well done and earning your own way. Dad has worked himself to death and made them completely dsyfunctional. Mom models completely selfish and indulgent behavior and now society gets to pay for these kids. Thanks. 

About the pornography. I know that Dr. Phil blasted them. I just feel he didn't go far enough. I think that everybody in this family has a problem with pornography. It is very addictive and that alone is enough to destroy their lives. Dr. Phil needs to make it very clear that no one ever has a good sex life or intimate relationship when involve with pornography. People just think it is harmless and it is not. Women everywhere wonder what is wrong with them. Their husbands just aren't the same. It's because they are involved with pornography. No woman can compete with that stuff. This family needs to stop it.  Completely. They need to get the focus off of their petty desires,  and shallow lives. Quit wallowing in misery inside the completely decadent lifestyle they lead and do something for somebody who has real problems 

People who only focus on themselves will never be happy.  These two haven't figured that out yet.  He needs to spend 6 months with Doctors Without Borders and she needs to be forced to volunteer for 6 months at a women's shelter.  I guarantee you they would be different people afterwards.   

Four shows is too many to take up our time and Dr. Phil's talking it out with these two.  Talk is cheap. Now is the time for action.  I keep thinking that there could have been three shows that could have benefited other people with serious problems who will never have the chance to be helped by Dr. Phil. 

Why are these "children " on government assistance?  Our tax dollars pay for this, and if they file bankruptcy we also will pay for it (it affects our credit card APR etc.)  I agree with almost everyone who is tired of this family.  They had such a chance at a golden life,  and between self pity, very poor choices, and martyrdom they have wasted their marriage, their children's direction, and their sad and so pathetic lives as a family.  I think I am more upset that children are living off food stamps, when their mother is driving a car that cost more than my house, and bought a dog that cost more than al ot of people make in a month.  

I am absolutely sick of listening to that woman speak about herself when her children, because of her, are struggling so much.  Those kids have learned to be the way they are from her and her husband, yet they both complain about how f+++ed up thier kids are. like they had nothing to do with it and all they can do now is wash thier hands of the entire mess? My gosh, get a grip lady.  I grew up abused, was in a marriage where I was cheated on numerous times, beat up,  and more, but through it all, I put my kids first.   

Life is full of choices.  Roman numeral one is the big choice, and everything underneath, like an outline, are choices that support the main choice.  She needs to stop being selfish, whining, thinking about her poor poor self, with her poor rotten kids (who are the way they are mostly because of her), and start making some choices in support of thier well being.  She is all about herself, and I believe she is on Dr. Phil to get attention.  She cuts herself for attention.  I say, one day when she nearly dies because she hit an artery, or gets an infection, she'll stop and most likely find something else to fill that need for attention.   

Those kids of hers break my heart and if I hear her whine one more time about how terrible her kids are, who were taught to be this way by her, I  might just turn Dr. Phil off that day.  She's a rotten mother and instead of facing that fact and doing something about it, she complains about poor her.  Many people in this life have it much worse and are good mothers, good parents, and thats because they put their kids first and make choices that validates thier kids, not destroys them.  

One more thing, I believe she's the compulsive liar.  Her son has nothing to lose from being honest, he already does without.   She has plenty to lose and I don't believe a word she says.