Topic : 03/28 Money Hungry

Quote From: debrasatt

 I can spell.I just more often then not hit the wrong keys.Then I forget to use the spell check. As soon as I went through the bills and did a debt analysis.We went on a debt diet.We have no more credt cards.We got most of our rates down. We live on a budget.We our almost out of debt.As for my h he has come to the realization that his needs come last.The kids come first I come second.That is needs not the fun suff.We do fun stuff when we can aford it.Right now I am tring to figure out how to fit braces,college,a working car in to our budget.I am not a uneducated person although I did not go to collage.I did graduate from high school.I would sometime in the future like to go to a technical school.I have my hands full at this time getting my three kids through the maze of this school system. All fo them are on I.E.P.'s.I cannot at this time aford to go back to school.I am not stupid person I just made a mistake at a young age out of high school and married young and stupid. My friend likes to say at that time we all married stupid and young it was back in the late 1970's when evryone I knew was getting married right out of school.So I did to.Not to say I didn't love him.We both needed to grow up.I did I learned to stand up for myself and my kids.I found my voice.I use It alot now.We both have to agree on the big items or he gets into trouble with me.So he spends nothing that will cost alot or we have a chat and take it back.He know consults me on the spending of our money we set down and go over our bills.I am not uneducated just a bad speller on this thing.I was a very young bride to a very young stupid man.He now sees the light..I have advised my kids that they must be out of college traveled all over gotten what the want out of life.And have a good career and money.Before they get involved with a life partner.The older you are the more education you have .The better you will be at coping with what life has to offer.I am not saying toget married and have kids well into your 50's.But I think it is better to wait to get married in your mid to late 20's or even in your early 30's.I will go back to school at sometime.I am a good speller just a bad typer and spell checker.Not all of us can type with perfection