Quote From: borido "Bullies do not make a person a pedophile"
How do you know that for sure?
"nor does it make a person lazy and not want to work for a living"
I suppose you mean me? I have OCD, and that's not lazyness. I rather
think that you judge so quickly that now I think you're (mentally)
lazy. And regardless if I have OCD or not, I really can't help that I
don't have much motivation. And btw, this morning I wanted to work, and
then I just see these imo irritatengly stupid replies, which upsets me
that much, that it is really hard for me to concentrate on the work
that I wanted to do in the first place.
"I read a few of you posts, and frankly some of your terminology was creepy"
(Did I also say some useful things? And btw, I think also Dr. Phil says some useful things)
(And why are the replies only about "pedophiles"? I also said some other things, right?)
If you don't give one or more examples than what you just said is just a vague thing.
"As for being open minded or closed minded, it matters not to me what you may think of me or others"
Well, for being closed minded, I think it's a fair question to ask
somebody to be more open minded, otherways that "somebody" is
irritating others, and imo that's not a good way how people
should social intercourse. If it doesn't matter to you, than I'm glad
for you, but in this case I'm not glad for others, and imo you have to
respect the feelings of others. I also don't really believe you
that it doesn't matter to you. Say if I thougt you are a rapist you
really wouldn't matter? And what if the whole society seems to say that
you're a rapist, you also wouldn't matter? Well, it matters to me.
It baffles me how you can feel you have the right to judge and yes bully people by making coments like stupid replies, mental lazyness, making refrences to people patriotism, saying they are judgemental, ect, yet on the same hand you feel it is ok for you to do so?
In my opinion, and anything I write is my personal opinion mentaly lazy or not, in my opinion i think you are a pasive agressive, and youe motive is to antagonize people. Am i being judgemental? Yes I am makeing a judgement call, and that is it.
I do not believe you are open minded to hearing what people say, you are seeking a specific reaction, antagonized, and as soon as some one shares in what ever way that they are antagonized you jump on it and start throwing on more fuel.
what need are you fullfilling. personaly I do not care nor want to know, like I said you need to contact a good therapist.
As for having OCD, no that does not make people lazy, nor does it not make them try to earn a living.
I never said anything about that, I did say that bullies do not make some one a pedophile, you stated in one of your own posts that you were born this way, and could not help it, how in the world does that statement support your argument that a bully made you the weay you are? Never mind, I have no intrest in continuing a dialogue with you. I have stated what I think, and again I think you are a passive aggresive person, and you motive is soley to antagonize, not interested in playing that game with you.
Why the focus on phedophilia, honestly I would have to question why in the world you would share something like that on a public board, knowing how sensative an issue it is... well i think i already know so what ever.
As for what else you said, sure put in some issues that parents and concerned others can relate to, in order to point out that you posted some legitimate bully tactics, and throw dirt on people that respond to the most prevelant feelings that came up due to the other issue.. ok passive agresivness is bullying and in a forum like this the nice thing is I can walk away or stop responding to your tactics.
