Topic : 07/03 "I Want My Ex Back"

He is making me pay.  He is worse off than he was before we went on the show. 

Thanks for the support. 

We have joint custody.  It got so ugly, I simply said I can't fight anymore.  It did not go through the courts, and no one decided he should have them more, I simply couldn't take anymore emotional abuse, and wanted to be done with him.  I regret signing those papers.  As soon as I can afford it, we will be going back to court. 

Erin, 

I was at the show in front row a couple seats down from Scott before you went on stage....No one deserves the emotional abuse you have taken.  I am sad that you felt the need to sign those papers, but I totally understand your doing so.  Emotional abuse is worse than physical...bruises go away...Scott was really mad...sitting there I could see he was seething with contempt at the whole situation.  I wish you the best and I know your future will be bright.  You are a good person and deserve happiness.  Don't let anyone tell you different.   

I am a 37 YO man going through a divorce I do not want.  My wife says all we do is argue.  Arguing gets to her.  Problem is we could never even have a disagreement.  We really never had any more arguments than anyone else.  She is a brutal communicator, and just wants to get by any issue as fast as possible. 

That said, I truly and totally love the woman.  I can get by all her faults (and everyone has them).  She is vibrant, fun and beautiful. 

She is very obviously not in love with me.  She has in fact stated that she HATES men at this point in her life. My mom and sister say she is going through the change of life. 

I have done everything I can to hold this together.  It's no longer any use to do so.  I have to let go, but it hurts bad!  She is the only woman I have ever been with, besides a few short term girlfriends before I met her. 

I know when I move out, I will never "see" her again.  We do have two kids, whom I love and will be with in some capacity forever, but I am in love with my wife. 

If I had to do it all over again, I'd have duct taped my mouth shut.   

I will miss her and will love her forever.  I will probably keep her picture on my bureau forever. 

I will never really totally understand women.  However, what I have learned is that women are very emtional and need those emotions met.  I learned too late.