Topic : 06/09 Loving Dumb

  

How about the person 'Candy' on the show? I will take that one! :-) or maybe I should hang myself and try again in the next life? I am tired of being lonely :-( 

I wonder also Dr. Phil.  I know you keep saying over and over that  many people are not happy if they are overweight.  But I agree with this person as why is it when you do the Dating Islands and help with dating tips your ladies are always on the thin side and so are the men.  Please explain why this is?  I was taught that it's what is on the inside that counts not what the outside is all about.  I would like to find a man who sees me for the real me on the inside and not only what is on the outside.

1. If he would have called right away I wouldn't have considered him clingy nor any other guy. 

2. Confessing your feeling right away might scare some but not all so take a chance. 

3. Of course we want you if you pretend we don't exsist, heck if a women does it to a man he is usually after her panting cause it's something he isn't allowed. 

I saw the show today and I felt bad for the women on the show.   They seem like nice women and have alot to offer a guy.   I hope all the others out there who are allowing booty calls and are generally being walked all over see this show and HAVE THEIR OWN WAKE UP CALL.    I get so frustrated at my single friends that are so dumb& shallow, thinking that looks are the most important thing in a guy.   To the point of letting nice guys with good potential go and allowing these players to have a Lil fun and walk all over them.    I makes me a little mad.   My hubby is a great father and wonderful husband.  When  I was 22 I met him and almost let him go because I thought HE WAS TOO NICE.    That is crazy to me now at 32 but I did learn my lesson and 7 yrs married 2 kids and a home sweet (messy) home later.  I am so glad I looked at him more then twice and gave a nice guy a chance.     If you just kiss a few frogs your prince will come BUT watch out for warts hidden and unhidden.     :)

I am always told that I am far too kind for my own good.  I am not fat, I wear a size six.  I am not ugly, not mean, not a cheater, or a flirt, or a bimbo.   I would enjoy having a conversation and coffee with any of you.  Even you Jim, because you must have been through some terrible things for you to feel the way you do.  I bet none of you will write back because, since I came on to you, you will think that I am psycho or desperate!   

Smile! 

~Sunshine~ 

  

Please give me a chance, I will reply to anyone.....being alone has even affected my health. I am on medicaiton to correct mental health problems....so being lonely IS bad.....at least I have stopped 'hearing voices'.  

  

I dont know what else to do. :-( 

T, 

  

Thanks for your comment.  A lot got cut out of the show on how and what I did to make my ex fiance feel safe in our relationship.  To this day I am still puzzled on how it was not validated by her.  I kept telling her that all my guy friends wouldn't do half of what I have done to work on this relationship.  Maybe she is out there now somewhere learning this.  Someday the right girl will discover this and not want to let it go. 

  

Good luck to you and your relationships. 

  

Todd 

I know what you mean. robert is very typical of so many guy's attitudes towards dating and relationships!