Topic : 04/07 Social Taboos: Is This Normal?

Sex is one small aspect of life. And it is just ONE PIECE of a puzzle in any relationship. Relationship are about love, friendship, support, respect for others, self respect, compromise, interdependence, compassion, God's teachings and many other things including sex.  

Concentrating on just the sex is no different than if a mother spent all her time each day saying how bad sex was, of a father spent all his time each day making his kids play soccer. Sex is one piece of a puzzle, and for young kids it is no piece of the puzzle.  

With sex comes emotional maturity to know when and where things can and should be discussed; these women don't have a clue! Their children are overexposed to something they are too young to fully comprehend. They are not learning about love, respect, boundaries or privacy. All they are learning is that sex is a game that their mother feels everyone should play (HER GAME) regardless of their emotional maturity.  

Children learn about sex thru watching their loving, committed, MATURE parents interact NON-SEXUALLY outside of the bedroom. our 5 and 11-yr-old know about sex (they've had the talk), but we don't have to show them how it's done. That will be the fun they have with their married, committed partner (or SHOULD have). For now, they are just kids who should be talking about playing, running, school, church, friends, televsion and movies, etc.  

What a selfish agenda this woman is pushing on everyone. She reminds me of some of the middle schoolers I used to teach....they were all about ME, ME, ME and all they could handle in their lives were one thing at a time...sex.  

Grow up, women, you are harming your chidren in ways you won't know until they're much older and have no clue about things such as respect, boundaries, intimacy, spirituality and commitment. May God protect those children from you!  

This pregnant "mother" (I hate giving her that undeserved honor) is so impressed with herself and her lifestyle that she behaves like a young, immature child who can't deal with all the other aspects of the human condition. 

I can't think of the movie, but the swear master guy reminded me of this scene: This police officer swears all the time and ends up with this partner that's real strict. He gets sick of hearing him swear, so he says "When you go to say F***, say "Fooorrrr heaven's sake!" instead.  So he's talking to his daughter and his phone rings. He goes to say F*** and he says "Fu-or heavens sake!" It's hilarous, but it really really works. So if you have trouble, try it! Swearing decreases your intelligence level anyway (makes you sound stupid!). 

While eating at a local restaurant, my husband and I were within viewing area of pay station. 

A man came up and paid his, bill and while waiting on a friend to pay his bill, he turned right around facing us, adjusted himself  on the outside of his pants.  When that didn't prove sufficient, he proceeded to put his hand inside his jeans and adjust himself.  I have never liked seeing a man do this anyway, but this was pretty gross. 

I am not sure where this women is from, but where I am from it is kinda a unspoken social rule that the person that comes in line after you is the one that puts the bar between orders. I always put a bar in front of my order but never behind. I feel that is not my place. I have never had a problem with this and thank goodness. If someone added something to my stuff all heck would break loose. How dare she do that. What if that family needed that extra $5 to pay for gas. How would she feel if it was her gas money to work that someone else made her spend. I can understand being mad about something(although I think it is a little crazy) but she doesn't have the right. 

 I too am absolutely appalled that Margaret exposes these poor innocent children to something that only an adult can truly understand. Never once did I hear her mention the word love and its meaning nor risks of STD and AIDS...what about teaching abstinence to her 14 year old until she finds a partner for life?  Children this age should be worried about school, friends and clothes not their mother causing school ridicule by  saying this child masturbates. And just for her information, there are numerous other ways to relieve stress. Here is a possibility...maybe they wouldn't be so stressed if they didn't have such unnecessary mature exposure.