Topic : 04/07 Social Taboos: Is This Normal?

This topic seems all too familiar to me (speaking of the 3-some with inappropriate sexual "expression").  Although my parents weren't quite as open as this "family", during my childhood I did experience some of the things these children are being exposed to.  My parents were divorced so I witnessed them going through multiple boyfriends and girlfriends.  I heard on almost a daily basis their LOUD sexual encounters.  I was accidentally exposed to their pornographic material and even witnessed some sexual acts.  I believe when a child is exposed like this they become sexually active so to speak at that age, much like Oprah speaks of when a child is molested or raped.  As a consequence of my exposure and parent's lack of education about sex, I had quite an odd, sex-filled childhood and early teenage years.  Looking back on my life I always feel like something isn't right.  I felt violated but I had never been physically molested.  I often wondered if I had been raped or molested as a child and I was repressing the memories.  One time my husband even asked me if I was.  Imagine how surprised I was to hear my husband ask if I was raped or molested as a child!  He based his question on my childhood stories that I had told him.  I used to think that my childhood was normal.  As the years went by I could tell that I had a very inappropriate childhood.   

I can almost guarantee that these children will grow up the same way.  They will grow up feeling sexually violated or molested even though there may have never been any physical acts.  I believe this sexual exposure is a form of molestation.   

Shame on this family.  Sexually and mentally scarring their children, not to mention the way they are are going to grow up viewing relationships.  Should I have 2 husbands, or should I have a husband and a girlfriend? 

I'm not even going to get started on the breastfeeding.  It is the best thing to do for your child and it encourages bonding, but I believe without a doubt that this family will incorporate this loving nurturing act into something sexual. The husband without a doubt will be getting enjoyment from owning 2 of his own cows!  These people disgust me!