Topic : 07/06 Baby Wars

If  you are a woman having unprotected sex, you are subconsciously looking for trouble.  Women, you can't trapp men, period!   If you are choosing to have sex, and you get pregnant, you can't expect "the man" just to take care of you.    Women, we have the choice to abort a pregnancy, deliver a pregnancy, and give up a pregnancy.  Which means you also have the choice to tell our partner to use a condom for crying out loud.  ( especially if it's a one night stand, or a random hook up!)  And if you happen to get pregnant when you are not in a committed relationship, you can ask for support from the father, but you can't force him to choose YOUR CHOICE. 

Us woman need to take responsibility too.    This woman told this guy she couldn't have children.  sounds like a trapp to me.  Yes, the guy should know better too, but all in all , women are the gate keepers.  She should have known that if she got pregnant he wouldn't be involved.  The baby is probably better without him anyway, cuz who wants a father who doesn't love you trying to raise you? 

She needs to get over it, and figure out another way. 

This is a topic I need to enter my two cents on, I feel very strongly that the issues this gentleman is addressing with his court battle are ones that should have been addressed years ago.  Sex without marriage is simple a way of life this day and age.  So to say if you do not want to be a parent then you shouldn’t have sex is ridiculous, and it is not irresponsible, accidents happen all the time, also a reality.  The part that disturbs me and always has is the fact that women are made out to be victims in this situation.  I am sorry, but there are plenty of women out there willing to trap a man with a child.  There is so much debate in North America over abortion and choice, I think it is alarming that in the US and Canada two countries based on choice and human rights, they have been completely removed for men and nothing has been done about this for so long.  When there is an unplanned pregnancy the woman decides if she wants the child, if she should have it, if she should keep it, even if she should tell the father or not, but the moment the bills start to come in she files for support and the man is paying for that child the rest of his life.  I am sorry if this sounds cold,  this issue is more than responsibility of an unwanted child, it is about rights, it is about being held responsible, accountable and financially obligated to something you have NO say in.  I am sorry, but in any situation that is wrong.   

I agree with everyone who has a problem with the decisions made about having sex and the possibility of pregnancy, but we're not talking about PRE-conception rights here, only POST-conception rights.   

So let's lay the FACTS out and look at it logically:   

Pre-conception:   

Women - birth control or abstinence   

Men - condoms or abstinence   

Looks to me like the choices are pretty equal.......take responsibility or either keep your pants zipped or your legs together.   

Post-conception:   

Women - deliver and keep, deliver and put up for adoption, abortion, or abandon at a 'Safe Place'.   

Men - NONE   

When the feminists holler for equal rights, they better be willing to put their money where their mouth is.  Matt and his lawyers are absolutely right........there are NO choices for men with post-conception rights.  Often the ones who WANT to be fathers have that privelege taken away when a mother opts to abort, and others (like Matt) are forced to be fathers because they have no say in what happens after conception.   

This argument is ONLY about post-conception rights and it's obvious by the facts that men have NO rights whatsoever.  Which is exactly what I am teaching my boys.  My 17 y. o. is having a hard time understanding that, especially since he also understands that if a girl wants an abortion, she doesn't even have to tell him if she doesn't want to.  Out of the mouths of babes:  his biggest question is 'Why do they have all the say on what happens to the baby and I have none?'   

I hope and pray that Roe v. Wade for Men answers it for him.........   

And one more food for thought:   

If a mother can abandon her newborn at a 'Safe Places', why can't a father?  Concidering he is as much a parent to that child as the mother is, why not??   

I can’t stand the thought that men should have the right to abort or financially abandon their child. ALSO KNOW THAT ROE VS. WADE SHOULD BE OVERTURNED because women should not have the right either to KILL - MURDER their baby. There’s one sure way to have 100% birth control and that is abstinence instead of premarital slumming around on both genders’ parts. (Which I’m guilty of but at 44 yrs. old honestly only fell from grace less than 50 times)  

Since MURDERING OUR FUTURE is humanly legal, MEN SHOULD HAVE EQUAL RIGHTS FOR LIFE! I gave up my baby in 1997 to a wonderful couple with a very strong marriage behind them because that was in my daughter’s best interest since I felt her father (who was going to marry me) would someday regret myself and our child and every child deserves a happy home plus a mother in a lot better medical health than myself. What I’m getting to is that my child’s father had to consent to the adoption which I feel is absolutely just however, WITCHES every day killed over 43 million children in the past thirty - something years without any consent from the biological father!  

EQUAL RIGHTS FOR MEN WHO WOULD LOVE TO BE FATHERS AND I SALUTE YOU EVERY FATHERS’ DAY!