Topic : 07/06 Baby Wars

"I don't know about the baby's mother but I sure as hell wouldn't want someone with his point of view near my baby.  So if I had to choose between the child support or having that jack ass out of my life, I would say Bonjour Bastard!! " 

If I were a parent , I wouldn't want you anywhere near my child.  There are many variations of abuse, neglect and responsibility when it comes to children.  One form of abuse is to expose them to inappropriate language.  A responsibility, when raising children, is to teach them how to communicate. 

A man has a right to bare a child or not is is justr like dr phil said USE PROTECTION come on if there was a rule or law that if a man wats to father a child then all men would choose not to a man is just as respsonsible as a woman is or the best way not to become a father if your not ready is NO SEX AT ALL    

My boyfriend is trying to be a father to his son like men ar suposed to be but the law or goverment won't let him now come on   

I give kudos to all women who are single mothers, whether by choice or not.    

You'd think this guy would think about the consequences before he had sex.  Just wear a freaking condom.  Even though it isn't 100 percent, at least he would have made that choice.  Until men are pregnant for 9 months with all the puking, aches, pains, and LABOR, I believe they shouldn't have a choice. This complete idiot (a condom costs like 25 cents and it could have saved him thousands in attorney fees!!) should have kept his johnson in his pants and thought about what one little swimmer (sperm) could do to his life.  Granted, she consented to have sex, but she accepted the responsibility to care and love that child.  Think he just needs to grow up and accept the responsibility to at least pay for what one moment of pleasure produced.  Who knows, it might not have been pleasure for her anyway.  

Grow up dude- and see what an amazing little girl you have made.  She will make you open your eyes in so many ways.  

I think that Matt is the ultimate deadbeat dad.  If he was a responsible man and didn't want to have children at this point in his life then he personally would have taken the necessary steps to prevent it.  He can't just rely on her word.  I'm not saying that she wasn't telling him the truth.  I just may have been the truth as she believed it, and unless he had her medical documentation how could he really know, so he wasn't being as responsible as he should have been.  Did he watcher her take her birth control pills daily?  If not then he wasn't being as responsible as should have been. 

He seems to have a very cavalier attitute toward life and fatherhood.  He sees the child as an IT instead of the gorgeous baby that she is.  That also seems very irresponsible.  He doesn't seem to have looked at the situation beyond himself.   

I don't understand his problem.......if they aren't married, and he has nothing to do with the baby, I'm sure he didn't sign the birth certificate, so if he doesn't want to pay, can't he give up his rights.   

Next time, keep it in your pants, then you won't have any problems. 

I AM REALLY DISCUSTED BY THESE MEN! I CANT BELIEVE THE NERVE THEY HAVE! I HOPE WHEN THAT GUY AND HIS EX GO TO COURT THEY LAUGH HIM OUT OF THE COURTROOM!!! HE IS A PIECE OF ****.  HE REMINDS ME OF MY DAUGHTERS DEAD BEAT DAD. HE WOULD LOVE THIS CRAP..."MENS RIGHTS BLAH BLAH...WE SHOULD BE ABLE TO HAVE SEX HOW WE WANT AND THEN ABORT OR GIVE UP THE BABY CUZ WE DONT WANT IT" WHATEVER!!! I THINK THIS LITTLE ORGANIZATION IS A DOORWAY FOR SORRY DADS. ITS RIDICULOUS! HE SHOULD HAVE KEPT ON THE CONDOM IF HE WAS GONNA BE SUCH AN A** ABOUT A BABY. HES JUST MADE A FOOL OF HIMSELF. HA! I FEEL FOR THE GIRL, BUT MORE POWER TO HER FOR RAISING THAT BABY AND BEING STRONG AGAINST THAT BOYS IGNORANCE!!!