Topic : 07/06 Baby Wars

Sounds to me like another excuse for a deadbeat to neglect their child. Whether or not this was a planned child or not the child is here. Another breathing human who had no choice in being here. What a beautiful little baby and its a shame her biological father wants nothing to do with her. He said that he's never held or been with her. I wonder if he could look at this child and actually hold her and feel the same way? 

I hope that this doesnt make it even more difficult for single moms to get support because he didnt want a child. Most times if its unplanned you dont expect to get pregnant. You try to take precautions to guard against pregnancy, not just have sex because one partner says "dont worry, i cant get(or get you) pregnant.  

I would like to know why does the men think he does not have the same choices. When don't they know how babies are made and if they do not want to make a baby then do not have sex or where protection themselves and themen are half way responsible for the outcome nomatter what us woman decide to do with our bodie's.  

There are ways to use not only rubbers but also foam. Even if the Girls say they can't get pregnant then you yourself as a male need to protect yourself if they are lying. The men should know better.The men should grow up and realize they are responsible halfway since it takes two to tangle and both should take there own responsibilities of there own. 

Christine 

I think they teach you in middle school the only 100% effective method is NOT HAVING SEX! My husband and I were done having kids after three and dilligently using birth control every time, but here I am pregnant with baby #4! That's life! Matt is just a loser who doesn't want to part with his money.  He didn't even show any concern about his own child.  His only concern is his mere $500 a month and to say that the mom isn't taking any responsibility is shameful, you can bet she is forking out a lot more than $500 a month to raise a child.  $500 a month isn't even a car payment!  Grow Up Matt!! 

I seen the story on Matt who feels he should not be a father and was forced into doing so. First of all, I don't see any foundation to his story if he didn't take any precautionary measures to prevent it from happening.  

Second, as he trusted her, I am sure she entrusted what the Doctors told her when they indicated she would never be able to have children. Although there are two sides to every story, I do not feel as if it was her intention to entrap him in any way, I simply believe that was an event that happened for a reason out of her control....and ultimately it looks as if it will be a strong one. 

Third, I believe she was probably just as shocked to find out she could even conceive a child and it is her body that will carry that child to term which should never be his choice to take away. She decided that since it occurred, it is her duty to care for what God has given her. 

There are too many influences in the world attempting to control what ultimatly happens to a womans body and it must stop.... Ultimately, I feel as if this man became upset because something he did not want to happen occurred within his control and he now must fall responsible. However, he is combatting not only his fatherly role but the monetary role that seems most frustrating for him and the only person suffering from this mess is the child. I also believe he is someone who is determined to have things his way and when things went the opposite way, he took it to extremes. 

For the guy who wants to put up a big dispute on the Roe V. Wade, come on now get real. You can't honestly sit there and say all the things you are saying. You did have a choice, WHERE A CONDOM/NOT HAVE SEX OR GO WITHOUT WITH THE RISK OF GETTING PREGNANT. Its plain common sence. You went with the possibility of getting her pregnant. And ya know what not just getting pregnant but maybe you should wear one all the time for the sake of others, do you know how many STDs and stuff are out there? No matter what she says ya know medically they say she cant get pregnant or whatever ya know she still is female still has ovaries and still is producing. And as far as choices go ya know we all can tell the big thing is that you dont want to pay child support thats fine ya know it just shows what kind of "man" you are. And trust me it doesnt show much. And if the money to you is that big a deal and you are that selfish then SIGN YOU DAMN RIGHTS OVER! Do you know what that means? You would rather pay all this money on lawyer fees and everything else then pay for an innocent child that did not ask to be here. I am sorry but regardless what anyone says to make that beautiful innocent child TAKES TWO! Im sure she didnt climb up on top herself and make it on her own. Wear something if your not man enough to take responsibility. Now think about it you have the choice to sign your rights over, but guess what she is doing it all on her own. She wasnt expecting to have a child but guess what it happened and now she is being grown and taking responsibility for her actions, maybe you should think of that instead of just thinking of yourself and being arrogant. Think about things next time. You did have a choice, but did not choose to use it. Your fault.