Topic : 07/06 Baby Wars

I think the main topic here is men's rights vs. women's rights WHEN UNPLANNED PREGNANCY HAS HAPPENED. 

I've heard of birth control failure with pills, condoms, vasectomies and even sealed fallopian tubes, as incredible as that sounds. When it happens to you, the birth control failure rate is 100%. (It happened to me). Imagine 100% failure rate for the sake of the discussion. 

From that perspective, women can abort, abandon, etc. etc. Men are screwed, best case, financially. Man:  a ring around the finger of Woman's decision in this case. 

My daughter is 3 yrs old, incredibly beautiful, and I love her so much. 

But I think about this:  my ex-partner said birth control failed. I believe she tricked me. After unprotected sex and my repeated request to see a doctor for birth control guidance, she said "C'mon, don't you want to have more kids?" 

How many men have to go through this? 

Or, should we have sex within marriage, only once before each kid, because we want to make one? When y'all refashion society in this way, give me a ring! 

I think this is a sad subject, I am a woman with two children and I feel that women have all the rights when it comes to deciding to keep a baby, we rule when it comes to this decision.  I am appalled that this man has no rights.  I have seen too many woman tell their men that they cannot get pregnant and then end up having a baby within years giving  no option to the man,  they are trapped to pay for the rest of their lives for something that they never wanted. They pay half of their paycheck every week to provide for a baby they see when the mother or courts deside it's ok for them to see them. I hope that they win their case, I'm sick of women deceiving men when it comes to pro choice.  I am pro choice but this is rediculous if you are a woman, unless you've had a complete hysterectomy then there is a always a risk in getting pregnant.  

This baby will apparently not be loved by her father, and so it is up to the woman to provide a happy life for that baby and move on, maybe she can find another man to have another baby with and get the support she needs wether it be through the government or through child support.   

This case that Matt Duboy is trying to pursue the "roe vs. wade for men" is absolutely horrible! yes men should have a choice but not after the consequences have  occurred. it is his fault for not wearing protection! If he doesnt want to have children: wear a condom or go get a vasectomy. Is he even thinking about when this little girl is older how detrimental it will be on her, knowing her father has displayed this to the world and wants to disown her, saying he shouldnt have responsibility. Grow up is what i have to say! Step up to the plate. There is way too many deadbeat dads out there unfortunately.. i absolutely praise the men out there who are great dads!!! good job and keep up the good work!!!  i was in a similar situation although my twin daughters father has stepped up to the plate with paying child support and isn't trying to disown them. He knows it was his responsibility too! In no way was i trying to get pregnant, i was in the military and 20 years old. i wanted to be married, in love, and financially stable. But it happened and abortion or adoption didnt even cross my mind. My body!!! and ultimately my choice. I am a great mother and my twin girls are my life! Although there father isn't trying to pursue being in their life after all the countless efforts i tried, i see it as his loss and as long as he is help paying for his children then he is SOMEWHAT doing his part!   

I also agree with Dr. Phil and appreciate his responses.  My ex- tried to take me to court about a PRE-PLANNED baby he didn't want to pay for after he ran off with my best friend while I was pregnant.  He told the judge $180 was way too much, so the judge laughed and raised it to $250.  And after 18 years, he stopped doing anything... yet I am blind and trying to put her though college (she wants to be a surgeon).   To think that this guy is fighting against doing the right thing, AND wants to change the laws so he can make OUR difficult decisions for us.  THANK YOU TO ALL THE RESPONSIBLE, CARING MEN OF THE WORLD... YOU DON'T KNOW HOW RARE YOU ARE!!!!!!!! 

you have this almost to a T... unfortunately thats  the term that is used alot today "sperm donor" it is so right!!!!. unfortunately men dont want to take responsibility and be a part of thier childrens lives...  

and yes good point at the end!!!!!  

Karma is a bitch. but im glad its there 

or another word 

Poetic Justice