Topic : 07/06 Baby Wars

The young man who wants to sue his "girlfriend," because she told him she couldn't get pregnant, is obviously immature.  Whenever anyone engages in sexual intgercourse there is always a possibility that it may result in a pregnancy.   He is just as responsible for the pregnancy as she is.  Even if he didn't want a baby, he needs to consider feelings;  the feelings of the baby as well as the feelings of the mother and his own feelings.     He cannot now change the fact lof the pregnancy and the new human life that he has helped to bring into the world.   The best thing he can  do is to try to fully realize that this new baby IS a part of him, and give his natural fatherly instincts a chance to develop.   He can become a good father to his child by giving his love to the child.   This can overcome most of the negative aspects that he so intensely expresses.  I sincerely hopes he wakes up and develops the maturity that he seems to lack at this time. 

wow there are good men out there like you!!!!!!! 

thank god!!!!! theres hope for us millions of women yet!!! 

I don't believe that Elizabeth is trying to act like a victim.  Unfortunatley, she is only one of the many many single mothers out there who is faced with the possibility that she may have chosen a man who turned out to be a "dead beat dad"!  Let's face it, that's all Matt is!  A "man" trying to shirk his responsiblities!  No Surprise!  The only difference between him and all the other bad fathers in this country is that he seems to think that he has found some sort of legal loophole to get him out of having to pay for his child.   

I think that it is absolutley amazing  that Elizabeth is handling this as well as she is.  She is so far above Matt that she does not even feel that his lawsuit deserves her time and energy.  Instead, she has chosen to devote that time and energy to raising the beautiful child that she has.   

And as for Matt saying that he may have wanted to give the child up for adoption or would have wanted his girlfriend to have an abortion,  just because that was what HE wanted to do, still doesn't mean that that was what SHE would have wanted!  He doesn't get to make the decision for both of them either! 

I'm so happy that mr. matt is fighting his case.To many woman are getting away with not taking responsibility for themselfs. If the man does not want a baby & the girl does, & they are going to be intimate,  then she should be held responsible if she wants the baby, same goes for him, if she did not want the baby & he did. She already Knew he did not want a baby, or find a mate who is willing to abide the same as you..She's at fault for satisfying her own needs when she  knew mr. matt did not want a baby.I'm am %100 percent behind him!!!   

 I am a young mother.  I will soon be 21 and I have a 4 year old.  I really feel for this girl.  My boyfriend didn't take allot of responsibility at first and it really hurt. I can't imagine what I would have done if he would have done what this young man is doing.  A mans control is by not having sex or wearing a condom.  I think we have the right to abortion and adoption.  Our bodies change and our lives change dramatically (especially for young girls).   We get to feel this life growing inside of us.  But when it comes to the young men stepping up to plate it's allot different.  Usually they can go and do as they please.  But this young man is a shock.  To totally deny that you don't have to support your baby in anyway just because your not ready is wrong.  There are allot of people that go through unplanned pregnancy and none of them go quite this far.  All my hopes go out to this girl  and her beautiful baby.  I pray that she wins because if she doesn't this will be the card that all young  men play in the future to come. 

This is one of Matt's statements: 

"Forcing me to be a father financially, mentally, and physically is definitely not something that I feel is fair," Matt says. 

 Was he raped?  He says that he was forced!!  So Lauren made him have sex with her? LOL  This kid got caught and is throwing a temper tantrum.  Poor Matt.  

Hate to tell you but in order for a man or woman to dissolve their rights as a parent then BOTH parents must be willing to either put the child up for adoption or a step-parent is in place ready to step in and adopt that child but most importantly... 

Why is it that a man is allowed to have his fun, let his eyes roll in the back of his head from ejaculation pleasure due to unprotected sex because they want the au' natural feeling of intimacy and then when a child is produced they want to yell "I never wanted kids, I never wanted to be a father".   

That's bullcrap!!!  A man can get a vasectomy but so many of them don't because they're stupid enough to think that it will affect their ability to perform as well as affect their manhood.  It's easy for society (BOTH) men and women (those who get involved with the man crying the baby blues and they want to stick by their man, until he does the same to them of course) that the woman is held totally responsible and if she doesn't have the same belief or choice as the man then she's in the wrong. 

This world has crippled men and that is why they are not men anymore they are leaches, donors, fly-by-nights but they are not MEN!  Men with true manhood existed 50 years ago, they are extinct to date and that is why more and more you see men with men for intimacy and women with women for intimacy because the value and respect for family and relationships has DIED and will never exist again!