Topic : 07/06 Baby Wars

This Matt is unbelieveable!!  The bottom line is:  if you have sex, unprotected, then there are consequences.     

I cannot believe that this guy is taking such a stand.  In the first place, this is about logic, common sense and reality.  No matter what you are told, or think, or believe, or want to believe, unless you were right there in the operating room when the woman had a hysterectomy, and you know for sure there is nothing to carry a pregnancy, then there is ALWAYS a chance of conception.  It is a known fact that the pill is not 100% effective. Condoms can break.      

Anyone with any sense knows that.     

Matt,  you have to take responsibility for your actions.  To waste time in court about this sends a sad message.  We aren't talking about a business arrangement or a contract.  This is about responsibility as an adult and the welfare of another human being. If you didn't want this hassle, then you shouldn't have performed the act that creates a child.    

If you don't want to be her father, fine.  You still have to be responsible, and accountable for your actions.     

No amount of rhetoric about legality, or "he said she said" garbage is going to change the facts.  People say and do a lot of things in the heat of passion.  You both got what you wanted initially.  Now it's time to own up to the consequences. When you gamble, sometimes you lose.     

I hope for the best for that beautiful little baby.     

Oh I feel so sorry for that poor guy who doesn't want to be a dad so he's started a reverse Roe vs. Wade lawsuit.   I know that it's so very difficult to give up privileges that men have had since the beginning of mankind.  It must be so difficult not to be able to go off somewhere with your cronies and tell how you were able to blow off some woman who was stupid enough to have your baby.  It's so much more difficult now that the stigma of  "bas*ard" doesn't  tend to place all the blame on the mother and child.  What an inconvenience it is that you might even have to provide some kind of support for the child.  For centuries men had no obligation to do that.  Yes, it must be very hard to have given up such hard-won privileges.  You did so very much to get them in the first place.  After all you were the one who designed that extra musculature at puberty assuring physical superiority over most any woman who disagreed with you.  You also were one of the ones who made sure that laws and governments favored males for centuries.  Yes, you absolutely MUST battle your way in court to see that we return to the past that so favored your warlike, insensitive natures. It's just what the world needs as it grows smaller and therefore potentially more volatile.   Or maybe, just maybe,  what the world needs is for those who have not had to grow up because they have always had everything handed to them due to some small appendage,  to really grow up and develop that sensitivity and more peace-loving nature that actually is not only their potential but their destiny.  Try it, you just might like it.  

Dr. Phil- 

           I have watched many shows in the past and cannot ever remember being this pissed about a topic as this one. Matt, you are a "dead beat" dad and I feel so sorry for the baby and mother but, it may be the best thing for both of them that you are not around. for the fellow with the golden locks, do the world a favor and have them cut! your theory is an embarrasment to the real men in the world. Finally, for the lawyer, how can you defend such a pathetic way of thinking? Both of them had a choice and Matt failed to be responsible. The mother thought (and I say thought) she couldn't get pregnant it happens all the time. You three need to stand up and be men and except responsibility for what's real in life. It makes me sick to think this kind of trash breathes my air. 

Thanks for listening- Clint 

I am a woman with 2 children of my own. Great father was involved from the start. 

My son however was married and in the process of getting a seperation when his wife (who was on birth control) decided that a baby would keep the relationship together. Now after many years he is not seeing this little child (both parents moved to other locations). But the relationship lasted one year after the child was born and then broke up. My son is still paying child support and had no say as to having a baby when his marriage was in trouble and he was trying to get out of it. The child has been used for years to punish the father in more ways than child support payments.  

All women do not have a baby for the right reasons. Thanks for listening. 

Give it up Matt!  

You decided to make love to someone and if she got pregnant, you are responsible...this is not a miracle baby!  

IF you did wear a condum, and there was a small hole, to which the eye could not see, would you still be this ignorant and stupid and say "I am not ready to be a father"  

WELL...how about then NOT MAKING LOVE!!!   

IF YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH TO MAKE LOVE, THEN YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH FOR THE RESPONSIBILITIES THAT COME WITH IT...LIKE A BABY!  

If this guy wins, I will definitely feel like the government can be sucked up to more than I think already.  

Give it up...be a man and be responsible!  

As a mom to three beautiful children one of which has special needs.  It is sad to see dads going on strike.  That father really doesn't know how lucky he is to have a beautiful wife and two healthy children.  Having the kids in bedroom is not the end of the world !! if that is his biggest problem he does not know what real problems are!!!  My personal experience was that at 3 months my child was in an NICU... try cuddleing with your wife when that is the case.   

Or when my baby finally came home try having an oxygen tank and saturation monitor  in your bedroom on your baby and waking to ensure your baby is breathing and the alarm of the stat  monitor.  My husband and I would have love to had our little girl home at three months and biggest worry being having her sleep though the night.   I'm sorry but i have no pity for this man!!! GIVE ME A BREAK he should be ashamed of himself and learn to appreciate his family and start changing diapers and catering to his wife.   It sounds very selfish to me he should wake up appreciate what he has and how lucky he is.    

I was a single mother of my daughter for over 4 years.  Her father is in the military and that is the only reason I receive what little support I do.  I haven't seen him in 5 1/2 years and my daughter has never met him.  He wants it that way.  He has the same attitude as the selfish KID on TV.  He is so worried about his constitutional rights.  What about hers?  So since they disagree on having the child who wins?  The woman is stuck with being pregnant for 9 mos and now raising a child in a single parent household.  You don't often see a baby in a single father household.  Who is he to demand that she should suffer and risk an abortion or tear her heart apart and the struggle of having to give the baby up for adoption?  She has a voice too!  I agree with the other messages.  Everyone knows that the only 100% guarantee for birth control is NO SEX at all!  I know first hand that raising a child isn't easy.  He complains about the $500 a month that he has to pay.  It cost more that $500 a month to raise a child.  My child care alone is over $500.  Being a parent is priceless and I wouldn't trade it for the world.  My daughter and I were better off without her father in the picture.  She will be 5 next month and I'm still  battling to receive child support.    

I think this KID needs to grow up, grow some real kahunas and be a man.  He made a conscience decision to lay down with her then he needs to me man enough to take care of his ejaculation!  

 I don't think this is an issue of this guy not having rights. He obvisouly has the right to make excuses for doing what he did. He was excited, so he ingaged in sex. He did his "big boy" duty and told the girl, " I am not ready to be a father, so as long you can not get pregnant, and I need to release some stress, I guess we are good." COME ON!!! Are you serious?! Is this about rights or is it about finacial responsablities? That precious baby was concieved for a reason. My husband and I having been trying to have a baby for a couple years now and I must say, I am grateful with the old fashion way , love and God.To many people take for granted what they have when others pray with their heart and soul just have a some little person to love every minute, every second, of everyday. This is very sad for this little girl. Maybe she will be better off without this " MAN "