Topic : 07/06 Baby Wars

If this guy doesn't or didn't want a child . Then He better and should have kept it covered.   

This way he has control. He cann't blame his girlfriend, he should have kept the condom on.  

I don't feel sorry for him,I feel sorry for his daughter.  

Regarding this matter... 

I believe that this man needs to stop his crying about not wanting to be a father and take responiblility for his daughter.  I could give a crap if he wants to be a father or not.  It takes two people to make a baby and two people to raise one.  If he didn't want to be a father he souldn't of been having SEX without protection, it only takes one time to make a baby, something this so called man doesn't understand.  He makes me sick and he is just like every other little twirp that can't keep it in his pants. When a baby is made he runs screaming for the hills. He needs to get off his rear end and take care of his daughter like a real man. 

I think what bothers me the most is that men (not all) want to have the fun, but they do not want to take responsibility for their actions. I agree with Dr. Phil when he said that this young man should have taken responsibility and have used a condom. I know that they are not 100% reliable, but neither is the pill. "It takes two to tango." So the young man should either suck it up and be responsible for the child, or just sign away his parental rights. Actually, I feel the child will be better off without this young man.  

 As a woman, who found myself pregnant and the biological father took no responsiblity whatsoever, I know exactly what this young woman is going through. I never asked the biological father for any form of support and he never offered. My son is now a young man, who has a very bright future ahead of him. He served his country for six years and is now getting ready to go to college to be a lawyer and maybe, eventually, serve our country as a politician.   

Quite frankly, if the biological father is acting this way now he is no use to that child and I feel the child would be better off without him in his life. I did not hear what this young man's parents thought, but if it were me I would want to know my grandchild and would want to be a full time grandma.  

the way i see it there really is no choice once there is a child involed he should be able to say that he does or dosent want to be a father before him and her had sexual intercourse.  cause now he has a ex whos beautiful and he has a baby and needs to be a man and stand up and take action he might have said that a long time ago bout not wanting to be a father but it doesnt matter it a mans responsability to take care for any actions they do.  even if i had an ex that i had a baby and she me her didnt get along i would make sure that baby had everything the he or she will need because it would be my responsibility because i would have taken the step to create them and i would be there for them.  i belive he needs to wake up from the dream world hes living in stop fuseing bout not wanting to be a dad.  and be a dad cause no matter what he the dad will always be i just dont see how he thinks that his baby will understand that he was being forced to be a father, because latter in life when he wants to know where his farther figure is at so he has someone to look up to and he sees how sorry his dad is i couldnt let that happen i would do everything to be that shinning light in my sons and daughters eyes so my advice to him is he needs to grow up and be a man and stop be a sorry excuse for one. i have more comments but ill wait to get them out let me know if yaw agree  

shane 

I am so tired of women jerking men around by their ******, using an innocent child as leveridge and using the bleeding heart courts as whipping posts.   

If a women wants to be a parent she needs to be able to support that child or children on her own.   

Who is she going to get child support from if he dies with no life insurance?   

I am a woman, a mother of 2 grown, successful children.  I was married when they were born but divorced soon after.   

AND I NEVER ASK FOR SUPPORT.  

 I did not want to answer to any one for the way I raised my children. I think one secure, confident, at peace with their place in the world parent, is better than two immature, spitful, vendictive people.   

Women have wanted equal rights for years,they have burned bras and everything else in between demanding to be equal to men.When a man and woman lie down together,they both know what the consequences could be,so i say why should the man have to pay when they are equally responsible?women today ,not all but a lot want to have babies because they want to use the welfare system to make a living for themselves,i know personally some women from my town have made it a point to live off the system.where this comes in at is the system will get a girl who is pregnant and sign her up for food stamps afdc and medicaid before she's a month gone.then they stress to her ,you can't get this any more after 5 yrs. unless,unless you get pregnant again.the girls go get pregnant again and thus they live off the system as long as they can have children.i think that we should help at least the first yr.of a chils life and then let the woman know that after that she will have to get a job and go to work to help take care of that child.she should be as responsible as the man in having to work and care for it.there is no such thing as it being the mans fault.Nobody told her to spread her legs,that was her choice.I say this because i am a mother of 2 sons that have to pay child support.one of them had a girlfriend that was 22 abnd he was 16,she got pregnant and for 5 yrs.told him the child was not his because she was afraid of going to jail,the minute he turned 21 she slapped child support on him and he was treated like a common criminal because the child support was behind,get these women off welfare and to work and there'll be less babies for the government to take care of.if you take away the food stamps,afdc,and medicaid,they won't want the babies,the babies are just a means for them to use to not work.