Topic : 07/06 Baby Wars

When two people have the kind of sex that can result in conception, they are responsible for the result.  If one of them lies, just remember..."let the buyer beware"..  If one person absolutely does not want a child, then it's the responsibility of that person to protect against conception as best they can.  If that's still a gamble then they are still responsible.  I raised my two kids without any help whatsoever from either their father or the government ( I didn't have the bribe money. and at that time you needed it.  A good thing it's mostly changed now.) I can tell you it ain't easy. 

If you're driving down the road with as safe a vehicle as you can have and with quality driving instruction and experience behind you and as sober and awake as you can be, it's still a gamble because someone could still hit you and injure you or a tree could fall on you or rocks could slide down a hill or etc.  You can't say this injury is not mine, because you took that chance when you drove down that road. 

Don't even get me started on abortion.  In my opinion abortion is not a legal issue because if you make it illegal the alternative is unthinkable.  Education is the answer and responsibility.  Abortion and abandonment are not birth control folks! 

I do hypnotherapy and I can assure you that as least some people can recount their time in the womb from very early on.  They can even tell you the emotions and language of their parents.  I think people need to be educated and responsible.  I can't believe half the stuff I hear coming out of their mouths on the Dr.Phil show. 

To treat reproduction like a warranty product from a company covered by the BETTER BUSINESS BUREAU is something which is inherently wrong for both men and women.  To deny the procreative nature of sex and pretend it carries no intrinsic obligation is no different then denying the consensual nature of sex and endorsing the right to rape.  The father agrees that no protection is 100% so he shows comprehension that this was a possibility.  As human beings, we cannot choose this part of our biology.  Even if he got his wish, the playing field is never leveled.  He does not have to give birth, he does not have to deal with the emotional scar as a result of an abortion, and he does not have to separate via adoption after giving birth.   We damage and deny our dignity whether it is a woman destroying her pregnancy or this man refusing responsibility because he didn’t choose it.  LET’S GET REAL.  THE ONLY PERSON THAT DIDN’T CHOOSE ANYTHING HERE IS THE BABY.     

You're right...you can't put a price tag on the time SHE will have to put in...24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 50 to 60 years...500$ a month for some irresponsible behaviour...I think he got off pretty lucky. 

It took two to tango and now look? A baby is added to the mix. Hmmm, last time I checked, thats what happens to two consenting adults...Yes, he consented to sex! He was not the only one under the impression she could not have children.  

Although there are people that behave in this manner and we do not have the other side to this story, I can only determine what I feel by what has been said. Quite frankly, any man that can indicate its not his child when literally he knows it is and have no want to be a good father simply because he didn't make the decision tells me he is on a power trip to have full control. Unfortunately, sex without a condom is not well thought out or in control.  

It was based on what she truly believed but who ever said a Doctor has never been wrong??? Unfortunately, the only one suffering will be this innocent child. 

finally a letter with thought not emotions.... 

well spoken....  

choose wisely who you lay down with. was a good motto for my mom  and its worked for me so far 

I have five children myself  my choice? YES! but thats the man not the sperm donor talking