Topic : 07/06 Baby Wars

$500 A MONTH DOES NOT CONSTITUTE BEING A FATHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Which is exactly WHY men need to protect themselves.

This gentleman's attorney said he would like there to be a more even playing ground when it comes to options for men & women when having a baby...the bottom line is that until men are given the god given ability to give birth to a child,it will never be an even playing nor should anyone expect it to be!

It's about time that some one some where stood up and started screaming about this. No one had any arguments when it was suggested that women were churning babies out to get welfare checks, but no one has ever thought about the fathers of those babies. 

 

 I've seen probably a dozen babies spit out in the last 5 years to couples in which the 'father' NEVER wanted to be one. Everyone and anyone who knew these men knew they didn't want children, yet everyone of them is now paying support for a child they don't even see let alone support emotionally. 

  

Dr. Phil gives women too much leeway because of hormonal changes that occur when a baby hijacks a womans body. Saying that after you find out your pregnant often women have a change of heart and want to keep the baby because of hormonal changes. THAT'S HER CHOICE. We all do things in our lives because of emotion or physical changes to our bodies that we wouldn't have done otherwise but that excuse isn't recognized by the law or a lot more  PMS sufferers would be widows by their own hands. 

  

If a woman gets pregnant accidentally and knew beforehand that the 'father' didn't want to be a father, then if she chooses to carry to term & raise the baby THAT'S WHAT SHE CHOSE!   

The man shouldn't be forced to live up to HER CHOICE.  

  

Men have been treated like second-class citizens for far too long when it comes to parenthood. 

  

PS This was written by a women (just so's ya know) 

Don't have sex. if you don't want children. Once that child is in exsistance you ARE a parent reguardlaess where the child live or who raises it. That child is still and will forever be your flesh and blood, and no judge or jury can change that. Children are gifts and should be cherished. If you are this selfish now you are never going to be a "GOOD" parent.

  Isn't it a fact that there is a reason for the law to begin with?  I not exactly sure how many years ago it became a law but there was time when men weren't responsible for there actions and there were millions of women on welfare because they didn't have anyone to help raise there babies.  Isn't this why there is a law making the man responsible for there actions?  Even if they don't like it.  Is it the laws fault that the man couldn't learn from his mistakes?  Maybe women have more rights because they are the ones who carry it.  Ya think man would have more rights about a babys future if they gained weight ate vitamins, exercised and ate right so that baby is healthy?  Then you get to experience the most pain you will ever experience.  And hey maybe it goes fast maybe it don't.  I think that if women have to carry it they should be reimbursed for all the damages.  You think stretch marks are attractive?  I think not.  Lets talk diapers....if you paid me a dollar a diaper I would still not like it.   How about all the things you want them to learn and all the things you can only hope they listen to because you love them and you want them to not make your mistakes.  What about all the weirdos you don't want them to talk to and all the peers that you don't want them hanging out with.  There is more to life then just who is at fault and who should and shouldn't be responsible.  Just for a week take the baby in your heart and you will never let her go.  I can't imagine being Matt and sitting there for all the world to see how imature he is and how petty he can make the life of a child seem.  Poor elizabeth.  And when Matt is older and mature.  When he wants to be a part of something.  He will be constantly reminded of his true abandonment of Elizabeth.  Like they tell us women.  Its a pain you forget.  I think its Gods way of helping us to procreate.  hahaha

Isnt that something you learn in school.    Guess he was absent from school that day!!!   

 GOOD JOB!! 

Dr Phil... good grief tell it like it is!    

   

   

Does he think he was just beamed down to enjoy his sexual pleasures... I think NOT!  

   

If a man lets "Tom Dick and Hairy" out from behind the zipper of his pants (and maybe the problem was he did not have it zipped to begin with) THEN it IS his responsibilty to step up to the plate for creating the life of a child!!!    

My Grandma always said,"Those who stay out & dance all night, have to get up & pay the fiddler."  My Mom always said, "If you are ready to play, then you are ready to pay."  

Matt, you're shirking a responsibility by trying to manipulate your 'rights.'  

   

This guy is pitiful.  If he did not want to be a father then he shouldn't of had sex with the young.  He is the baby's father and he should take responsibility.