Topic : 07/06 Baby Wars

Who is this looser - he wants to have his cake and eat it too.   

What he is saying is the equivalent of someone being in a car accident - saying " oh but I was assured the car was safe and I'm not responsible for the accident as I had no intention of being in an accident today" - Give me a break!! 

If he doesn't want to be a father - cool - then keep your ______ in your pants and you will be guaranteed 100% you will not have a child. 

This man doesn't deserve to be a parent and when he finally decides or "gives consent" to becoming a father - I hope he never ever is given the honor of being a father - because it is a gift! and with his attitude he should not be given that honor. 

That child is better without him!! 

And that jerk from that men's association - there is a reason he too is not a father!! 

If this becomes a law, there will be dead beats everywhere (as if that isn't a big enough problem now). They'll all be lining up to claim they were lied to: "Don't want to pay child support? That's okay, just tell them she tricked you into it."  

What's this world coming to when the older generation wants to abandon the younger, innocent generation? We're supposed to be their teachers. What are we teaching them? To be selfish, selfcentered and deny, deny, deny at all costs, even morality. 

For the record, I have a wonderful, RESPONSIBLE husband, whom takes very good care of our three children. On the other hand, I'm the daughter of a deadbeat dad. I just found out he died last year, after not talking to him for 15 years or so.  I wonder if before he died he felt good about his decision to leave my care to others..... Just food for thought. 

When I watched you show and seen this man Matt, trying to justify his action for getting this young girl pregnant and thinks he can get out of it, I could not believe what I was hearing.  I think this young man needs to step up to the plate and take responsibility.  If he wants to play he should want to pay." and more than that be a father to this Innocent child. I think this is opening, a possible door for men as a way to cope out to there obligations as a father, and child support, when more so they should be be a man and trying to have both parents in the home for this child.  I hope when and if this goes to court for this young man Matt, they will not let him out of his fatherly duties. As far as the mother of this child, telling Matt, that she was on birth control, well nothing in this life is 100% sure just as anything else when it come to contraceptives, I am a mother of 4 children and I can tell you even I got pregnant on birth control. I think the approach you Dr. Phil, took with Matt and his Attorneys was right on and I couldn't agree with you more. As far as all this goes with Matt and the Mother of his Child, and I do hope that he opens his eyes, and realized that children are a blessing from God, while many people cant even have them and soon does the right thing when it comes to this whole situation.