Topic : 07/06 Baby Wars

Plain and simple if you don't want to get burned stay out of the kitchen. If you don't want to be a father, fine. Then don't participate in the act of conception and act surprise when a baby is conceived. Grow up and protect yourself. That would be one of the hazards of unprotected sex. Men need give up on this stupidity. Women are violated everyday and pay the price, they didn't ask for that either. 

  So basically you're just justifying murder.  You have acknowledged that the baby is a living creature, but yet you will still make the decision on whether or not it lives or dies?!?!?  Murder, I think so, by all definitions.  Yes, people make mistakes everyday, Lord knows I've made my own, however, that does excuse that person from acting in an adult manner.....this is what sets us apart from animals; the fact that we have the ability to stop and recognize a situation.  If we cannot realize the resluts of our actions, then we are no better than children or animals for that matter.  I don't think that's a very good argument from your standpoint.  On another note, to say that God isn't taking care of the unwanted babies......well, I like to think that God is around everywhere, everyday and I also believe he has a plan for every human being He creates.  So again....who thinks they have the right to play God! 

Believe it or not Kansas has laws in place that will terminate a father's parental rights. Check it out for yourself                                                    

 59-2136 Chapter 59. --PROBATE CODE

Article 21. –ADOPTION

Because it is a fact that women and men are not the same physiologically and anatomically there can never be an "equal playing field" in the way that the self-centered, immature young man, Matt wishes there could be. Unless his partner has an operative report saying that she has had her uterus removed then any man should assume that he is at risk, no matter how small, of being half of the cause of a pregnancy.  His arguement  that reproductive rights should be an "equal playing field" is so pathetic and childish.  If the mother of his child were to argue at such a low level she might say something like, "It is unjust that women have to carry a baby for nine months!  There should be an equal playing field and men should have to suffer from every discomfort of pregnancy.  For example,  if their partner suffers from hyperemesis gravidarum(excessive pregnancy induced nausea and vomiting) men should be given a medication that makes them throw up everyday".  That is how absurd his arguement is.  Any attorney who is stupid enough to take his case should be thrown out of the Bar Association.  The simple truth is that life is not fair.  Biology is not a simple black and white matter.  I am so sick of people who think so simplistically.  They are seriously a waste of space in this world!  At this point in time Matt needs to stop whining.  Hopefully he learns his lesson and not sleep with women who have a uterus unless he is ready to become a parent again.  Hopefully any women who is ever in the position to sleep with him will have seen his behavior on this show and choose not to.  Matt needs to deal with the fact that he has a biological offspring who will care less about if he was "misled" into becoming a father and will care more about the fact she has a father who wanted absolutely nothing to do with her.  It is seriously pathetic that Matt assumes that his child will grow up resenting the mother who lovingly cared for her despite the fact she was unplanned instead of resenting the father who comletely has neglected her her entire life.  Wake up and smell the breastmilk!  What a poor, sad fool!  If he is lucky he will mature and come to realize his mistake of choosing to be self-righteous over the well-being of a completely innocent daughter.  He doesn't owe child support to the mother of his child.  He owes it to the child!