Topic : 07/06 Baby Wars

I can't really express the words I think of when I think of Matt. He came on the show looking like a complete moron as far as his lawyer goes, what a complete idiot!! I hope the courts uphold the mothers position. Kudos to her for fighting. 

the best way to avoid this situation.......quit having sex unless youre ready........we are made to create life through intercourse, if youre not ready for the end product then dont start baking. 

but in the case of a child and the father doesnt want it he can sign off rights! but when that man lays down in bed and child comes from that its not about him or her anymore its about the child! if neither want it .....adoption! or like i said the father signs off rights. To bring a life into this world people should try to understand  you created it so step up and take care of that child or do the right thing for them , a child doesnt not knock on your shoulder and say "i'm ready to be here, so get started" 

On a different note women who trap men have to understand they cant cry and boo-hoo that the man is not there ....you cant trap a man with a baby and think its gonna go your way ....come on now we have enough abandoned babies  quit adding to it 

anyways that my opnion 

Why should a MAN decide  what A WOMAN should do or not do with HER BODY?   

It really angers me that (some) men, especially law makers believe this is something that they should have control over... this decision. If you are a man and you DON'T want to have a baby WEAR A CONDOM and use birth control.  If that is not something you want to do , make it surgically impossible to have children, ABSTAIN!!! Do not have sex if you can not deal with the consequences. This is where your reproduction choice comes in. You have a choice to do all these things. If worse comes to worse walk away.  

I am 23 years old. Last year I was going to an Ivy League University and working hard to finish my degree. I was in a relationship where we were using birth control. In our case it failed and I got pregnant.  Bombarded by my boyfriend and his family to "consider the options" of abortion and adoption, it was an overwhelming experience.  Even though they felt he was too young to have a baby (he was 25) and his life was ruined, I felt that it was morally and ethically wrong to have an abortion. It was after all a baby and part of me. People belive that babies in the womb are not really alive, but from the experience of being pregnant TRUST me the baby is alive.   

Now, he has accepted his role as my daughter's father and so has his family. There is still some resentment and anger there,  and he always knows he has the option of walking away, but he loves her and has decided to stick around. As much as it has caused problems, I would never go back on my choice because I look at my daughter and realize how lucky I am.  

Don't get me wrong if a man does not want to be there- he should walk away, no child should ever feel unwanted.  

Anyway, choice makes people individuals. The choice between men and women in reproduction is CLEARLY different. Men have the choice to use production if they do now want to be a father, abstain, walk away if they don't want to be involved. Women have the choice what to do with a child once there is a pregnancy.  

A child is a gift. If you are willing to have sex, you need to be willing to accept the responsibility that may come with that. Nothing is 100% effective and you have to realize that before engaging in the act. I believe the father should have a say in what is to happen, but the mother should have the final say, as it is her body. 

Ok fist this isnt a closed subject. its not cut and dry. Yes woman can be coniving and sneaky and get pregnate just to "keep" the man. Men can sweet talk a woman into the sack and then run at the thought of a baby.  

if a woman doesnt want to get pregnate then she should always take the pill. If a man doesnt want to knock someone up he should always wear a rubber. There should be no well she said or he said crap. You wouldnt jump off a million foot bridge if someone said you couldnt die.  after getting pregnate a woman can just abbonded to child that is true or she could have a abortion. I dont think that even woman should be able to do that but the thing is that might be whats best for the child. 

If a mother is forced to raise a child she doesnt want she will just be abusive maybe not physical but emotional and thats not what is best for the child. Same with making a father stay if he doesnt want a child then he should just stay away no child should have to be faced with knowing their parent or parents never wanted them. sometimes out of sight is better then a constant reminder of someone who may not want them 

I LOST MY 2 YEAR OLD LITTLE BOY ON 9-11-05 FROM A BRAIN TUMOR THAT WE FOUGHT FOR A YEAR AND A HALF. CHILD ARE A BLESSING A MIRACLE. YOU MAY NOT WANT THEM AT THE TIME BUT SOMEDAY YOU WILL BE SO ALONE AND NEVER KNOW THE PURE JOY OF SEEING YOUR CHILDS FACE. THERES NOTHING BETTER THEN HOLDING YOUR ANGEL IN YOUR ARMS. IT DOESNT TAKE A MILLION DOLLARS TO PLEASE A CHILD ITS JUST THE LOVE IN YOUR HEART AND EVERYTHING ELSE WILL WORK IT SELF OUT.  

IF YOU HAVE A CHILD KNOW ITS A BLESSING NOT A CURSE. THEY ARE THE BEST THING THAT COULD EVER HAPPEN