Quote From: jettav I believe church is the place for all people actually, for those who do not know and understand Him, for those seeking God's truth and loves as well as for believers to learn more, to be inspired and for the Christian fellowship......One thing people need to realize is that not every one who goes to church are Christians. I worked witha girl several years ago which was in a Christian child care and there were some teens from the church hanging out in the hallone day getting ready for some event that was going on in the church and a couple of the the teens were being a bit unruly, not getting into trouble but being a little rude, this friend got really upset and the comment she was made went soemthing like this, "and they are Christian kids"? I responded to her and said "no they are not, just because they go to church does not make them Christian", they are not living as Christian witnesses and I made sure she knew the difference between a committed Christian and a person who attends church, she looked a little baffled but she was careful on what she said to me from then on knowing that I would speak the real truth of the matter.
I totally agree. I think we have all met the 'sunday Christians'. I think the worst part of that is the small fact that they think they are such great and wonderful followers of thier faith.
Case in point: woman marries a well beloved member of church who is much older then her by about 15-20 years. She is extremely active in church. Meetings, events does the dry flower arrangements and all. Quite the defination most people see as Christian Leader. He is hiting are his mid 70's of course those wonderful odd old age habits start to kick in for him forgetfulness, remembering the past better then the present, loss of balance... all the good stuff. Well after a while he started get sick. Soon after that she started locking him in ( they had a gated home and she would hide or take away his key to get out the gate , not a motorized gate ). Soon after that his medications came up missing (a LOT). Yet she always was a church always active always dressed neat as a pin. While he lost weight, had dirty clothes and was once very active at church... stopped going unless my FAther went to get him. The only time he got a good meal is when people took him out to eat.
Soon the Church divided in a way between those who believed her that her husband was now suffering from Alzhimers and thse of us who knew better. He left her, sued for divorce and this overly Christian woman took everything in the house including the fake flowers that belong to the church and was found out to have changed his monthly $$ over into her name and was spending all his money, told everyone at church that he never gave her money and left her destitute. Yet she was living with anothe man who 'had plenty of money' himself. It was a mess. It wasn't till about 6 months after the divorce that people who were on her side found out the truth about her stealing the flowers.
How odd that it took a theft of church property for people to see the truth. Something to think about. WE believed she was trying to kill him hence the medications missing, him being sick all the time. AFter he left her and moved into a retirement living place where he can have all his meals there... he gained weight and felt better then he had in years.