Topic : Getting Pregnant

I had a child when I was 16, and decided to give her up for addoption.  I know I would not have been able to give her all of the things that she deserved (emotionally and financially), even though I loved her with all my heart.  It was by far one of the most difficult decisions I ever had to make or will make in my life.   

Recently, I found her on the internet, but I have not contacted her as I would want her to contact me when SHE is ready.  I know that she has had a good life, and is now attending a private Christian college.  I know I would not have been able to provide that for her, let alone get my own college degree.   

I know how strong the desire to have a child can be.  My husband and I are trying to concieve, and have been unsuccessful so far.  I do feel that I am in a much better position in my life to be a mother though.  Enjoy the freedom of your younger years, as it doesn't last.  Motherhood is a lifelong responsibility. 

• You are a baby. Having one will not get you back with your boyfriend. He will not be around and you will be left for all the care of the baby. Go to school, get a good job and then meet a nice boy get married and have as many as you like.

hey  

you not to old trust me, my uncle and his wife did not start having kids till she was 45 and he was 51 the only down side is u could have more than one baby and also the birthdefects are higher. my uncles kids are fine and healthy. try going to your docter to find out if he could help you with the process you no if you cant have a child,  but i no u can ask him  if he wants to then adopt he new what he was getting him self in to when he married. you already have a child and you are at the age were some women hit the CHANGE in life but i would not sweat it just try this ok, dont try so hard just relax if theres any stress in your life get rid of it go on a vacation start eating better start taking care if your self and god will do the rest. and if it dont work look in to fertility pills you no. 

brittney 

hey 

o my gosh my father is in the same thing hes 48 has had 2 kids i'm 17 my sis is 12 and my dum step mother told my dad "i dont think i can have kids" mean while be for she met my pops she got nocked up and lost it. my  dad i dont no what he was thing but like women can have babie until there 50 if god lets them. he had sex with her bar back (with out condom or birth control) and guess what now shes having his 3 child he was getting ready to retire. this happend may 24 and she told him fathers day he was pissed and wanted some one to talk to so he talk to me and i said to him as i'm saying to you, were not wearing a condom is she not on birthcontrol? if you are on birthcontrol you will not get nocked up i have been on it since i was 13 and trust me if it were not for the pill in would have like 3 kids by now. so really its just nuthing to be upset over i no u dident  want a 3 child but maybe then u should have used a condom. i beleave in you as i do in my dad its hard to swallow i'm going into collage and ma sis is going in to hight school and now he has to do it all over again. i no your up set but deep down in side you love your wife and soon to be all 3 kids if u need some on to talk to talk to a paster or a counseler u no or me lol i'm 17 but i have been through hell and back and you never no i may be able to help. 

brittney 

relax, any thing stressfull in your life get rid of it eat healthy and do not let things bother you and also work out go for a run or a walk is your job hard on you try to get a bit of the work load off of you and on to some on else for a bit u no and just stop trying so hard when u get the news your having a baby take it easy and go right to the docter  and get him to look at u every week or take fertility pills they work. good luck 

brittney