Topic : I'm Pregnant!

I don't mean to sound rude or inconsiderate, but there was no penetration?  And you still got pregnant?!  When you say that there was no penetration are you only talking about the penis?  Now, stay with me for a minute, I'm trying to figure this out as well.  Was there penetration of any fingers or toys?  If he had ejaculated and either you or him had touched his penis and some sperm had gotten on yours or his fingers or the toy and then there was vaginal intereaction, then yeah, I could see it happening that way.  But besides that, I wouldn't know what would cause pregnancy without penetration, seems like there would need to be some sort of penetration. 

And about your fear of giving birth, I was the same way!  I think most women have some fears of childbirth.  You shouldn't have anything to worry about, in today's medical society there aren't as many deaths or complications with childbearing as there was even 20 years ago.  I have had two cesarians and I am perfectly healthy and so are my children and the whole procedure went absolutely wonderful.  Don't let your fear get in the way of one of the best day's in your life, and that is meeting you first born child. 

Take it easy, try to enjoy.  The better you take care of yourself while you're pregnant, the better your delivery will be.  Stress isn't going to help.  I know it's hard to do, but I had to deal with it as well and everything turned out fine as I'm sure it will for you as well.  Take care and blessed  be. 

I am 22 weeks pregnant, excited, contented, and really fat ;p! Sound familiar? Yes, well, I'm also 16. I personally believe that I will be a good mother to my unborn son despite my age, but I would love to hear others opinions. My fiance is 27 years old (this is legal in canada!) and we are very much in love and have been for almost 3 years (I will be 17 soon). We will be married in June and our son will be born in August. I thank everyone for any comments they make, and please, be honest, I will not take it personally! ;p 

i personally dont think age has anything to do with whether or not you will be a good parent.  I met my husband when I was 15 and he was 24, we lived together for 3 years before we got married when I was 18.  I am now 25 and have 2 gorgeous children, a boy and a girl and am 8 weeks pregnant.  I think its great that you are making the commitment to get married.   

As for your weight, your probably not that big.  When I was going threw my first pregnancy I thought I was huge but it wasnt until after I realised that I wasnt that big.  I just wasnt used to it.  Take care and good luck with the wedding and birth of your son.