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Created on : Thursday, June 30, 2005, 12:54:48 pm
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May 15, 2007, 8:18 am PDT

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I am almost 35 weeks pregnant with my second child.  With Nicole, my first child, I had a wonderful pregnancy...no sickness, and i felt fit and healthy the whole time.  With this little guy, I have so many aches and pains.  I have a permanent "stich" in my right side.  Yesterday it got a lot worse, and I went into the hospital on a nurses recommendation.  They said that because it's my second child, my stomach muscles aren't as strong, and therefore aren't holding up as well as they did with my first.  Has anyone else had this problem?  It's just getting worse now, with no relief, and I am worried because I have to look after a 2 1/2 year old and take care of teh housework and stuff for another 5 weeks.

If you really think about all the work your body does when carrying a baby it's amazing that we just don't fall apart in the process. :)  I have carried six children to term and have had this problem too.  Has your doctor recommended something to support  your belly? Mine looked like an Ace bandage.   Ask them about it.  It does help. 

 

You might try laying on your left side and if you are lucky enough to have someone rub your hips shoulders and back have them do it. 

 

Stretch.....

 

keep hydrated.

 

Now for the things that cost. :)  Yoga stretches with a good prenatal instructor and or a pregnancy massage.  I know, we think ....it's just me and it cost a lot but just think what a better mom you will feel like when your body feels good. 

 

Hang in there, the good thing about motherhood is that you are never alone!    

 

Best wishes

 
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May 22, 2007, 11:55 am PDT

MY FIRST!!!!

I am 24 weeks pregnant with my first child and I am so excited. Her father, my fiance is one of the greatest men ever and one of the most supportive. As happy as I am though I have anxiety that will not go away. I have what is called Spontaneous Pneumothorax. This is when your lungs can collapse for no specific reason. It has already happened twice, the last one occuring about a month and a half before I got pregnant. The reason I am so scared is the further along I get and the higher up the baby gets, I fear it is going to happen again. I have never dealt with as much pain as I did with the collapsed lungs because they insert a tube through your ribs which causes the most unbearable pain every time you move an inch. This is not only scary in the aspect that it is a painful process which will put me in the hospital for days, but I also fear for the safety of my baby. The thought of having to deal with a tube in my side to pump my lung up and being pregnant at the same time terrifies me. How can I ease my anxiety about something that may not even happen???
 
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June 1, 2007, 3:51 pm PDT

pregnant and stressed

I am 7 months pregnant and I cant wait till my baby is born, I have been going through alot these pass months my babys father is not treating me very well I dont even know if we're even together the way things are going right now, I cant remember the last time I went to bed and woke up with a smile on my face. I feel so alone my baby is the only person who puts a smile on my face and keeps me on my feet. I dont know what to do how to calm down and know everything is going to be ok I never thought I my very first child would be fatherless!!!!!
 
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June 1, 2007, 7:41 pm PDT

No need...

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Im 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant and Im so stressed out I dont know why I even bother getting up out of bed in the morning. All i want to do is break everything, smash it to the ground. My ex (The father of the baby) is so pathetic through all this, telling me he demands a paternity test when weve been exclusive for 4 years, that he wants nothing to do with the child, he'll only pay "what the court deems necessary" (if i hear him say those words again I might just reach through the phone) Every time I even think about him, my stress levels go THROUGH THE ROOF. I'm trying to stay away from him but some phone calls are necessary... I know this is not healthy for me or for baby. I can't just "calm down". My mom is getting really frustruated with me and Im annoyed with all my friends, But Imreally starting to worry about how this will affect my pregnancy, now and after baby is here. if anyone can help me, please, Im desperate as is my child.

I will be completely blunt with you on this one.  The only way you will hear him say the words "he'll pay what the court deems necessary" is if you listen to him speak- you don't have to talk to him. You don't have any reason to call or speak to this guy.  He does not deserve your words or to hear the sound of your voice unless it's in court to testify and get child support! Please find a way to let him go and find another means of emotional support.  Put you and your child first and focus the rest of your pregnancy on making a better life and situation for your child.  Check into state assistance if you need to.  Read all the baby books you can.  Take lots of walks.  Listen to calming music.  Find SOMETHING you enjoy doing that makes you happy and try to do it as much as possible.  The sperm donor in your life does not belong in it any further as long as he does not have you and your baby's best interest in mind.  He has shown you his "true" self now so please believe him- he is a jerk, he is selfish, he is immature, he is uncaring, he is not worthy of another thought in your beautiful mind.  You are the only person who can take yourself out of this dangerous situation for you and your baby. Take the control back and do not allow any further drama caused by this guy- he has made it clear he does not value you or your baby.  Protect that child! Do it for your child because he or she is definitely worth it- as are you! 

 

Good luck girl!

Katie

 
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June 1, 2007, 9:07 pm PDT

Sorry it took so long.

ummm, Im terribly sorry it took so long for me to reply.! umm, I was pregnant , I found out April the 15th.. that I was already two months along... And ummm.. I misscarried. I had a lot of trouble and A LOT of pain. I was looking forward to raising this child with my boyfriend.... and the two weeks ago or more I had a lot of bleeding and clots. soo my boyfriend took me to the hospital and I was "having" a misscarriage. I lost the baby, and they kept me in for 4 days. I had to go to therapy... and all that. It's really hard. So..there'smy news! :( thanks for all the info tho! And the Support! you're all great!!... omy!! im outt!! <3

 -Kimberly xo*
 
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June 6, 2007, 10:29 pm PDT

IM HAVING A BABY BOY!

 Well im 22weeks pregnant with my first child. He is a healthy boy and i cant wait to have him.
Im a young mum to be turning 17yrs old tomorow.  I had problems at the start of my pregnancy with people judging me which caused me having a lot of stress. I went through a lot with the judging eyes of the public and family.
Now i decided to ignore all the hateful and nasty things people said to me/ about me and have moved on from all of that and am now awaiting on my son to arrive in this world.
I beleive i am going to be the best mother with support from my partner (the babys daddy) for this baby boy of ours.
So in the end id just like to say i am a very happy blump teenager looking foward to the arrival of my son Ryleigh :)
 
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June 24, 2007, 6:03 am PDT

Pregnant for the fourth time and having twins!

Hey,

 

Im Liz, i have already 3 childeren. 7 year old Keano, 4 year old Liam and 2 year old Julia Lynn. Im having twins now and im a little freaking out right now, Im a working mom with 5 childeren in a while and a working husband. How am I gonna do this all can someone help me pls, maybe you know a place where people can help us. The twins weren't exspected, but we really wanna have them, does anyone have some tips for us?

 

Thank you.

 

A desprate housewive and mother,

Liz.

 
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June 29, 2007, 5:44 pm PDT

Pregnant and need advice

I just found out I'm pregnant 2 weeks and so very excited. I'm about 10 weeks now.  I have just one problem, I have been smoking and having a hard time quitting. I know it's very bad and I know the risks, so why am i having such a hard time quitting? Please don't say bad things about me, I just need some help with this.

 
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July 5, 2007, 9:55 am PDT

Pregnancy problems

I have takin 2 otc pregnancy tests and they both were positive. I haven't yet been to the doctor about it. The problem is my roomate. Shortly after I took the first test, he said that if I didn't get an abortion, he was going to stab me in the stomach and abort the child himself. He's constantly hastling me about the abortion(which I really doubt I'll get) and haven't been to the doctors yet because of fear that he will hastle me more about it. He's neither my boyfriend or the father.It just seems like the further I get the more of an @$$ he gets. He says he gets visions (one where the child dies early from lung complications and the other about if I give the kid up for adoption)and "he cares about my wellbeing" but sometimes he says I can't trust people(the people at work, my parents, my other friends). I have told 6 other people that I haven't had a period since march and about the tests and they all say he's being a dick and that I should ignore him when he says those things. The other problem is I'm also getting messages "from nowhere" that say that I should keep the kid, and something I said at a festival a couple of times keeps popping in my head(I want to be a mother between the age of 25 and 30). I'm also naturally an "empath" and it's hard not to feel what the people around me are feeling, especially when I'm already extremely sad or angry. Sometimes he's just plain mean, and every once in a whyle I'm tempted to pack up and move back in with my parents. It has been building up in me for about a month now and I had to let it out.
 
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July 5, 2007, 12:55 pm PDT

not funny

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I have takin 2 otc pregnancy tests and they both were positive. I haven't yet been to the doctor about it. The problem is my roomate. Shortly after I took the first test, he said that if I didn't get an abortion, he was going to stab me in the stomach and abort the child himself. He's constantly hastling me about the abortion(which I really doubt I'll get) and haven't been to the doctors yet because of fear that he will hastle me more about it. He's neither my boyfriend or the father.It just seems like the further I get the more of an @$$ he gets. He says he gets visions (one where the child dies early from lung complications and the other about if I give the kid up for adoption)and "he cares about my wellbeing" but sometimes he says I can't trust people(the people at work, my parents, my other friends). I have told 6 other people that I haven't had a period since march and about the tests and they all say he's being a dick and that I should ignore him when he says those things. The other problem is I'm also getting messages "from nowhere" that say that I should keep the kid, and something I said at a festival a couple of times keeps popping in my head(I want to be a mother between the age of 25 and 30). I'm also naturally an "empath" and it's hard not to feel what the people around me are feeling, especially when I'm already extremely sad or angry. Sometimes he's just plain mean, and every once in a whyle I'm tempted to pack up and move back in with my parents. It has been building up in me for about a month now and I had to let it out.
thats not funny at all. you should report this to the police!!!
 
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