Quote From: etiamwiam7
I TOO WAS OFTEN QUITE CONFUSED AND LOST IN READING MOST MESSAGES FROM OTHER COLLEAGUES THAT SEEM TO BE AWFULLY CRAPPY AND DIFFICULT TO UNDERSTAND.
YOU ARE ENTITLE TO YOUR OPINION AND I GLAD THAT MESSAGE DESPITE BEING IN UPPER CASE HAS EVOKED A RESPONSE THAT I WAS HOPING FOR.
As adults from your point of view, watching naughty videos as you put is O.K. and believe I have heard similar comments from people I knew about the distribution of pornography. I once out of curiosity saw such naughty pictures in a public cinema at stage in my life when my self-esteem was very low and I been a victim of sexual abuse and so forth. Believe it certainly made me very sick and totally disinterested in such nonsense, because it destroys every goodness or light in you. It does something to your morale and self-esteem. I totally disagree with you when you say that there is a huge difference between adults enjoying naughty videos to spice up their sex life then people watching children.
As far as I am concern there is no difference. From a Christian point of view, having your husbands and wifes watching full on naughty videos to spice up their lives, in my view, is encouraging adultery and the need to watch someone else engaging in sexual pleasures in order for you to get in the mood. Why should you watch another man or woman engaging in sexual pleasure in order for you and your partner to get in the mood of things, when, you are both adults that have brilliant creative innovative minds to create pleasures for your own sex life or love making. You may need some spice in your sex life, but, why pornography?
My second has been excluded which actually includes this book by Anna Salter called "Predators: Pedophiles, Rapists, and Other Sex Offenders—Who They Are, How They Operate, and How We Can Protect Ourselves and Our Children"
that may dispute your argument that these individuals cannot be rehabilitated.
As for the tattoo idea not everyone is keen on such an idea. Because in my religious belief, one of the golden rules, is that you cannot have tattoos and I am really not a fan of such a practice. Further to this reply I want add the following:
THESE SORTS OF TOPICS ARE PARTICULARLY TABOO ISSUES IN VERY CHRISTIAN BASED COMMUNITIES OR AMONG CHURCH GOERS. OFTEN PEOPLE IN THE COMMUNITY ARE VERY SHY AND EMBARRASSED TO EVEN MENTION ANY VIEWS OR DISCUSSION ABOUT SUCH ISSUES FOR FEAR OF ALIENATION AND CRITICISM.
FORGETTING OF COURSE, THAT, THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT THE PEDOPHILES AND SEXUAL PREDATORS ARE HOPING THAT THEY WILL DO.
WHICH IS SHUT UP AND PRETEND IT DOES NOT EXIST OR HAPPEN TO OUR YOUNG CHILDREN OR ANYONE IN OUR COMMUNITIES.
THE SILENCE ALLOWS PEDOPHILES TO DO AS THEY PLEASE WHILST AT THE SAME TIME GETTING AWAY WITH IT UNTIL ONE DAY IT'S ALL TOO LATE.
Sorry I cannot conform to your lower case culture. I hope you will continue to learn from reading my messages.
Peace Out!
ET
it isn't a matter of "conformity" it's a matter of manners and being in control. You don't need to scream, we cal all hear and read. And I'm sorry you've trouble understanding the difference between adults doing things that children are not ready to. I can have a drink, have sex, or watch a naughty film but my kids cannot. As an adult we're responsible and children are not they're children and innocent. As an adult those very things I spoke of could be harmful but as an adult hopefully I'm able to make adult decisions. If you've a problem with self esteem it's that that is the problem and there will be many things that will add to that and there will be many things you'll be suseptable to unless you work on yourself. We've all even as adults have something to work on and crosses to bear in life. Rather than focus on the things that do add to a low self esteem (in my mind an excuse to stay in the same helpless place) seek help to build up your self esteem.
Again I'm sorry I could only get bits and pieces of your answer to me and frankly I wasn't even sure if I'd addressed any of the things you'd screamed out in your original post or if I'd addressed the real point you were trying to make. I don't allow people to scream at me in 3D I'm certainly not going to do it online.
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