Topic : 05/26 Summer Slim

AMEN!!!! I couldn't wait to see someone say that ! Just think how extra weight Julie would loose if she lost that worthless snake!!

Girl I hope you win. Sounds to me as though you truely deserve it! Listen up Dr. phil ! Why my I ask have you never seen to the ocean when you are so close? You must take those beautiful children adn do yourself a favor take a day off and go!! What are you waiting for ? Just do it!!!

Listen don't beat yourself up that way ! You do not have to go to hte gyme to excersise! Go for a fast walk,get an excersise tape that you can to at home, or just simple do all those things we had to do in gyme at school ! We are all suffering with these awful gas prices but don't use that as an excuse to rob yourself of something you want so bad ! You can do this ! Just keep at it, get creative adn never ever give up!!Email me we will chat I would love to help if I can!

I can't find the e-mail, but it was on this string of posts.  What is wrong with brown shoes and black pants?  I thought you could wear any of the neutrals together and it didn't matter.  This is an honest question.  I have always just bought one pair of dark brown shoes to wear with almost every thing during the winter months.  Is it a fashion mistake to not match your shoes to your pants?  I really need to know because I have three teenage daughters and I have been telling them that brown and black go with every thing.

Julie came to Dr. Phil for two reasons, to lose weight and to get her controlling, nasty, verbally abusive husband some help.  I'm sure the husband doesn't think he has any problem in the way he treats his wife . I can't believe Dr. Phil didn't  come down harder on him and most of all get him the help he so desperately needs. Dr. Phil got her help for the weight loss but what about the bigger problem.   That gentleman will NEVER be happy with her body no matter how slim she is .  He will just move on the put her down about something else.  He wants to control her and mold in her into what he wants as well as being critical about every thing she does or does not do.  I think he will treat kids the same way and HE NEEDS HELP BEFORE kids arrive. Dr. PHIL GET THE REAL PROBLEM SOME HELP.

Hi everyone,  

I think just writing this message is my starting point. I plan to slim down. I am 225 lbs and in the plus sizes. i want to get out of the plus size range and get fit. So here goes... I am a mother of two lovely girls 42 years old and happy. I am ready.. I will keep you up dated.   

AJK  

I agree with you wholeheartedly!!!!  If Kelly was okay with himself he would be able to accept Julie for the wonderful woman that she is instead of judging her because she is a real woman and not some fantasy that he thinks she should live up to.  Julie, girl, don't let that man make you feel that you are not worthwhile.  You are the same person in a small body that you are in a large body.  You have to let yourself feel okay, and get far away from people who make you feel that you are not okay.  Kelly cannot love you enough if he does not make you feel that you are the most beautiful woman in the world all day every day.  That is his job to love, honor, and cherish.  Maybe he needs to work on himself and let you worry about you.  From the looks of him, I think I know a way that you can lose about 250 pounds very quickly.  I also feel that Dr. Phil should have asked him who gave him permission to judge someone else on the way they look when he is not that great of a prize in the looks department himself.  I'm thinking that he was pretty lucky to find somebody as pretty as Julie to put up with his crap.  I would rather be fat than ugly anyday, especially when that ugly is from the inside out. 

I am 27 years old and have been with my husban since i was 13 years old ...he has never seen me in a bathing suit ..and only in the first few years did i wear shorts in the summer...I have such an issue with my weight even though i see people who are much ( ihat e to be rude and god knows i am trying to use a serious but not mean word) who r much flabbier i guess than me ...but they have a confidence about them ..they seem to be comfortable with who they are ...I am around 175-180 lbs and im only 5 foot notta...and im big chested so i feel like im just tooo round ir wide from front to back to even consider not being in jeans and baggy shirts when in public..if I ever put on a bathing suit i wear a knee length shirt over it ...I wish i could get past my body shape so i could wear cooler clothes and exercise ...also heres a ? my whole family is diabetic from my grand parents to my mom aunts uncles etc(one aunt died from not taking her meds and my grampy before death had his leg cut off ) ...they have it quite bad and have skin problems like cracks in their feet and blisters under their arms...also they all look 9 mths pregnant all the time we call it the miller belly...my doctor says im not diabetic but im scared to death that i am and or will be soon if i dont slim down ...wanna help a girl out lol   rally for me message dr phil and say help this girl lose weight ..have the people on here done that for anyone before and belive me ill write him everyday 6 times a day for you if you need help someday....Please keep in mind I have 2 lil girls aged 4 and 1 and had c sections for both ..my belly is still messed up after the second one and I went through a bothed epideral with my first and i think my back is a bit still from that i get the odd pincihing sensation if i turn wrong....so I really need to get help and learn how to do a proper work out and eat the proper foods I dont want to lose my leg or die young and leave them girls to grow up alone...I wanna be able to teach them how to eat right so they dont inherit the miller belly ....PLEASE PEOPLE >>>PLEASE..my email is glm21779@hotmail.com if any of you want to bug the heck out of dr phil and his staff to get me in this summer challenge he is holding  (hugs) :)

You go girl ...I am starting again lol ...i have lost and gained with my babies ..but i bought an exersice bike got it put t ogether last night and i am feeling ready ...i hope to get in on this weight loss challenge but if i dont I hope to make some friends to support and be supported ...Your gonna do great ..   

Hi, I am also a Weight Watchers member who is having a hard time.  I started out pretty well.  I started back at WW last August and lost 22 pounds.  I have struggled with losing and gaining the same few pounds for the last five months.  I try to think positively about it.  At least I didn't gain 22 pounds on top of what I was.  My first weight in August was 303 pounds.  I am still in the 280s.  My husband also joined weight watchers with me and has done amazingly well.  He has lost 98 pounds in the same amount of time.  It's almost embarrassing that he has done so well and I have not.  I am so proud of his success.  He inspires me to not give up.  He also had some medical problems which made it more imperative for him to lose the weight.  His medical problems are under great control.  We both accept each other no matter what our weight is.  We are the same people on the inside.  I do feel that people look at me and say "why can't she do it if he can"?  It's just SO HARD.  Of course, anything that is worth doing is going to be hard.  I have finally faced the fact that I will never be "skinny".  God did not make me that way.  However, I would like to be not so fat.  I don't have any health problems, so it makes it easier for me to say that it's okay that I am not losing quickly.  I want to lose weight, but I want it to be easy and that is just not realistic.    

   

I would like to be a part of a support network.  If you would like to e-mail me personally my e-mail address is csbrokenshire@bellsouth.net