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Created on : Thursday, June 30, 2005, 01:12:56 pm
Author : dataimport
Is your child a bundle of nonstop energy? Are you exhausted at the end of the day? Share advice and support with other parents of spirited kids.

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August 4, 2008, 4:03 pm PDT

Spirited Kids

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My son is 22 months old and his is having some major behavior problems.  When he gets mad and especially if he's tired he hits, bites, sceams, pulls hair, throws things and pinches.  Lately when I try to put him down for a nap or bedtime he rips the sheet off his crib and throw his blankets on the floor.  He screams and sometime he even laughs.  It can take me up to 1 1/2 hours to get him to sleep at night sometimes.  We try to have a very consistant schedule for him.  When he is not tired or really mad he is a great kid, he will sit and read books and play with his toys.  I could really use some advice, please help

I have a two year old son and i gave up long time ago on keeping sheets on his bed. I have put cardboard books in his bed for him to look at at night. I also have left mega blocks out for him to play with. I put him to bed about 8 he playes for awhile then about 9 or when it gets dark he tucks himself back in. I love that i dont keep nagging him to stay in bed. I dont know about you but I cant make kids go to sleep on command so he will just sleep when he is ready. the stress in much less at night now.

As for the hitting bitting ect. I would pick him up and say in a sing song voice UHOH some one needs some alone time. take him to chair and say you can join us when you are ready to be sweet.  you may think he is not ready for this or understand it but he is i started this about 18 months with my son. after a couple of times he knew he was doing something wrong without me telling him or yelling at him. good luck and i wish you less stress. i would like to know if you try these and see how they work for you

 
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September 19, 2008, 4:15 pm PDT

Mother of four

I  am a mother of four and my 2year old son is a real challenge for me.He used to be my Baby and he still is,but i have also a 5 month girl,so sometimes i just havent time to give him all my attention.He ist such a cutie,but he is a loud little boy,he yells and scream when we go shopping because he doenst wont to sit in the stroller.He wants to walk or that i carry him,whats impossible.he constantly cries and be upsad,and i just dont know how to handle the situation,because I think i do something terrible wrong.My both older kids always needs me too,but how should I do that with all the energy my 2year old have,they were never so challenging.
 
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December 12, 2008, 8:55 pm PST

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i have a i have 23 month old son who has major sensor issues it gets challaging sometimes but i just try to be clam and cool with him and sometimes it gets really tough sometimes it goes from playing with his toys to getting up and smashing his head of the walls to climbing the fridge and trying to jump of just total crazyness got any  advice
 
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January 30, 2009, 5:57 am PST

Spirited Kids

I am a 25 year old mother of three small kids, Alexandria who will be 4 in April; Braxton he will be 3 in July and Jessica who will be 2 in September.  I got recently got engaged to the most wonderful man in the world, he treats me like gold and we have a beautiful home and love one another more than anything.  He has two daughters of his own from his previous marriage, Cheradon who was 4 this January and Reanna who will be three in August.  To say the least our house is non stop chaos and I am so tired and exhausted most days and sick to death of listening to the constant screaming and running around that  I could fall asleep over a sink full of dishes and not even care.lol.
 
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