Topic : Picky Eaters

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October 27, 2006, 11:52 am PDT

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My daughter is 5 years old and her name is destiny. The only solution any one can give me is only give her good food and nothing elese she will eat eat before she starves.  Maybe so but 2 nights of sending her to bed hungry was all i could take.  Destiny will eat speggetti o's but only the 123/abc's w/ no meat balls.  sour cream and onion potato chips Lays only. ramen noodels chicken flavor. can cheese and crackers. and peperoni pizza. chicken nuggets and fries. oh and rolls or toast with butter.  other than a few sweets thats it.  And it has to be perfect she examines every bite before she will eat it.  if it has a black speck or anything she don't like the looks of its gross and she won't eat it.  even if she is hungry and hasn't ate all day. I don't exspect solutions.  I just want to let everyone know their not alone. It is so frusrating to cook them pizza when they ask and then have them refuse to eat it because its got a black speck on it.  I want to tell her tough crap thats all she is getting and bust her butt for asking for food and not eating it.  But it doesnt help and I know she is still hungry so I just have to take it back and try again.   jackie

 

 
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October 27, 2006, 12:45 pm PDT

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 I have totally forgotten how PICKY 2 yo's are!  I have trouble getting him to eat much of anything!  The one thing I can count on him eating is ritz crackers & fishey crackers.  Outside of those it is hit & miss with the rest.  It is driving me NUTS!!  LOL

My 6 yo boy will only eat his meat (ground beef variations--meat loaf, sloppy joes, beef, noodles and gray) with Ranch Dressing. He needs his pizza without sauce and he won't eat spaghetti sauce (no big surprise there; some kids don't like tomato based stuff). He took a ham & cheese sandwich to school every day for kindergarten last year, but this year he's ventured out into turkey and roast beef -- but he prefers to call it white ham (turkey) and brown ham (roast beef). I figure whatever works--3 different color "ham" works for me as long as he eats it. Oh, and he won't eat any kind of potato.

 

My 13 yo girl prefers to only eat chicken and turkey (which she invariably calls chicken)--gripes any time we have variations of ground beef.

 

My 16 yo stepson believes that one should have a bacon cheese burger every meal. He doesn't have milk on his cereal, and greatly dislikes ALL veggies.

 

We have a very picky household when it comes to veggies on the side anyhow--we have our choice between corn and Bush's baked beans. My poor husband--who really likes green beans and peas--hardly ever gets them (it's a bit of a waste for even a small can for one person).

 

My husband and my 6 yo are the only ones who eat cooked carrots and NONE of us eat fish (the 13 and 16 yo do like shrimp, but I'm not sure I could be paid enough money to ever make it).

 

Needless to say, what to cook for dinner on any given night, can stir up quite a bit of controversy.

 

Thank God for snacktime afterwards--if they don't eat dinner--no snack. They seem to be able to choke down their dislikes--now if I can just get them to quit complaining!!!

 
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October 28, 2006, 5:11 pm PDT

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I have a 4 1/2 year old girl who has been a pick y eater since 9 mo old.  She now is down to waffles w/peanut butter and syrup everyday sometimes I will make pancakes with Peanut butter and syrup also.  (p.s.  in order to get some nutrition in her I will make the pancakes from scratch and boil carrots and zuccini and then blend in a blender with half the batter and mix with the rest I also do half flour and half wheat flour so she will get more fiber.  This works real well because she doesn't notice the difference with the peanut butter and syrup.)  A mom has to do what a mom has to do.  Anyway this is the only thing she has ate for breakfast for 3 years now.  She hates the smell of cereal and refuses to even try it.  She doesn't drink milk or juice....only water.  She refuses to try ANY fruit.  For lunch and dinner she will now only eat Mac and cheeze ( I get the one from costco that doesn't have all the junk in it - all natural.  She also loves pepperoni pizza or cheeze pizza.  The only veggie she will eat now is broccoli cooked and raw carrots dipped.  She likes speggetti without the meat and tacos with the meat and cheeze and sour cream.  She likes cheeze, wheat breat, Yoplay yogurt in Key lime flavor only and crackers of various flavors.  She likes some cookies and frosting on cake.  She will not eat chocolate candy, gummy candy for fruit snacks or any other kind of candy,,,,,which I think is a plus.  My biggest problem is she refuses to try new things which drives me crazy.  For the most part my husband and I eat very healthy.  I try not to make issues out of her eating, but she is the type of kid that does not live for food.  She eats very slow and very small portions for the most part....which I think is good, but she examines every little morsel and makes sure is is just perfect....if there is one flaw in the food....it is out.  Like the crust of bread the edge of the waffles, any burnt piece of anything or if it is too dark....if there is a speck of anything that she doesn't like on the food like jelly on the peanut butter bread.....she will not eat it.  I know alot of these posts say to let them go without eating if they don't like what is for dinner etc......this does not faze my daughter.....she will just go without until the next meal.  I have not tried it for consecutive days though....maybe thats my next thing.  Again she will not try new things and thats what is so hard.  I can live with her not liking something she has tried, its just getting her to try it.  Its very rare she will try something new.....maybe once in 4 months if I'm lucky and its usually out of the blue.  I cook all my meals from scratch for the most part...I eat healthy, no fast food but a pizza here and there or a taco bell run, but again very sparingly.  Junk food is not in our house very often and when it is I tell her that its for special occasions because its not very healthy.  We cook together sometimes but maybe we could do more.....not sure what else I can do anyone have any more suggestions??
hi i am judy from australia and i have an 8 year old son who has asperergers(high functioning autism) he is a very fussy eater and has been all his life i found the best way to cope is if he will eat any type of veg just keep giving them the same veg ,dosnt matter if they only eat two types of veg at least they are eating it,also make your own chicken nuggets and fish nuggets but when you coat it use an egg wash and add veg thats been through the blender if you use adark crumb like cornflake crumbs they dont know its there then dont fry it bake it in oven using a tiny bit of oil spray,also get her to try thing off you plate it wont always work but over time she might try something, but dont push any food issues if she trys something and likes it give her a small gift not food related(i keep small prizes in drawer for reward)i also leave a small plate in fridge with his name on it with things he likes like ham, grated cheese and he snacks on that when i am not looking i find he eats better when he thinks i dont know. also make your own yogurt and add flovours she likes she can help you make it  takes a few tries but it works.i hope some of this helps you are quite welcome to email me at jnugget64@hotmail.com  i am a chef so i do have lots of great childrens recipes see ya judy
 
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October 29, 2006, 7:56 pm PST

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I wish I could do a survey to see how many of these kids that are having problems eating watch television while eating. I work at a daycare and about 75% of the problem eating kids were TV watchers. How many sit and watch their parent/s eat what they are eating or do they eat while house chores are being done or people are on the phone?(not uncommon in todays society)

Also some people need to be introduced to foods they don't like several times. I have 2 kids 14 & 11one will try anything in front of her(no she is not obese), she's great  for going out to different restaurants. She's more like me now my son is like his dad. He is so picky that it's not funny. I have the same meals for everyone at my table, I expect everyone to at least try a little of everything and I make meals everyone likes at least one thing. There are items that not everyone likes but we all eat the same things. You see me Mom DOES NOT like hamburger. To the point that I gag while cooking it, but I still cook it and eat it. Little but I eat because I believe If I make them eat something they don't like they know I not only eat what I don't like I make it for them. As for my son the picky eater, his whole life I made him have a little bit of everything( started with 1/2 of a cooked carrot coin, loved raw but not cooked) so every time we had cooked carrots that's all I made him eat and slowly increased his portion to 1 then two small ones and so on. Now he gets full portions and that's how I introduced him to all the food he did not like. Let me tell you there were lots. This went  for everything from yes peaches all the way to liver. Yes I know a lot of you think I'm mean but now there is no dish people will hand him he'll say no thanks to, if he's not sure if he will like it he'll say just a little please. I actually find it very rude when you are sitting at the table and people sit there and say oh that's gross or that's disgusting. Just because you don't like it doesn't mean everyone has to dislike it. You may like something that will make me gag and I don't sit there and make rude comments.

 
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October 30, 2006, 7:21 am PST

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I wish I could do a survey to see how many of these kids that are having problems eating watch television while eating. I work at a daycare and about 75% of the problem eating kids were TV watchers. How many sit and watch their parent/s eat what they are eating or do they eat while house chores are being done or people are on the phone?(not uncommon in todays society)

Also some people need to be introduced to foods they don't like several times. I have 2 kids 14 & 11one will try anything in front of her(no she is not obese), she's great  for going out to different restaurants. She's more like me now my son is like his dad. He is so picky that it's not funny. I have the same meals for everyone at my table, I expect everyone to at least try a little of everything and I make meals everyone likes at least one thing. There are items that not everyone likes but we all eat the same things. You see me Mom DOES NOT like hamburger. To the point that I gag while cooking it, but I still cook it and eat it. Little but I eat because I believe If I make them eat something they don't like they know I not only eat what I don't like I make it for them. As for my son the picky eater, his whole life I made him have a little bit of everything( started with 1/2 of a cooked carrot coin, loved raw but not cooked) so every time we had cooked carrots that's all I made him eat and slowly increased his portion to 1 then two small ones and so on. Now he gets full portions and that's how I introduced him to all the food he did not like. Let me tell you there were lots. This went  for everything from yes peaches all the way to liver. Yes I know a lot of you think I'm mean but now there is no dish people will hand him he'll say no thanks to, if he's not sure if he will like it he'll say just a little please. I actually find it very rude when you are sitting at the table and people sit there and say oh that's gross or that's disgusting. Just because you don't like it doesn't mean everyone has to dislike it. You may like something that will make me gag and I don't sit there and make rude comments.

I think the imprant thing is to introduce our kids to the healthy stuff fromt he beginning, Ipersonally do not buy many snack foods for our home, in fact, we don't have dessert after dinner and we very rarely get dessert when we go out. I think also a good parent is going to be able to tell what their kid dislikes verses what they are are tring to avoid from eating. I refuse to make my children eat something that I know they dislike but they do have to give new foods a try and I serve it often. My youngest does not like raw veggies therefore I won't make her eat them, they know how to say no thank you and thank you, please, your welcome and all that, there is a polite way of doing and saying things, they are also not rude to others.

I do believe it retty much comes down tot he life style of the family and what is in the house and I also beleive us parents can influence our kids one way or the other with htier eating habits. We are healthy eaters in my home and my children do great with their choices. of course now, with this time of year when there are a lot more sweets int he house then the norm, like any normal 3 and 5 year old, tehy are gonna be tempted with the junk but again, they know the rules, eat a good meal and you can have a treat, otherwise,forget it. I think eating together as a family at the dinner table is a god start to healthy eating and getting the kids involved in preparing meals is a great asset and avoiding the junk by not having it int he home.

I always prepare foods that we all like and of course there are some foods that each of us don't like and that is not forced upon any one but there is always something healthy at my table and plenty of choices and every one gets a well, rounded nutricious meal.
 
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November 7, 2006, 1:22 pm PST

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I wish I could do a survey to see how many of these kids that are having problems eating watch television while eating. I work at a daycare and about 75% of the problem eating kids were TV watchers. How many sit and watch their parent/s eat what they are eating or do they eat while house chores are being done or people are on the phone?(not uncommon in todays society)

Also some people need to be introduced to foods they don't like several times. I have 2 kids 14 & 11one will try anything in front of her(no she is not obese), she's great  for going out to different restaurants. She's more like me now my son is like his dad. He is so picky that it's not funny. I have the same meals for everyone at my table, I expect everyone to at least try a little of everything and I make meals everyone likes at least one thing. There are items that not everyone likes but we all eat the same things. You see me Mom DOES NOT like hamburger. To the point that I gag while cooking it, but I still cook it and eat it. Little but I eat because I believe If I make them eat something they don't like they know I not only eat what I don't like I make it for them. As for my son the picky eater, his whole life I made him have a little bit of everything( started with 1/2 of a cooked carrot coin, loved raw but not cooked) so every time we had cooked carrots that's all I made him eat and slowly increased his portion to 1 then two small ones and so on. Now he gets full portions and that's how I introduced him to all the food he did not like. Let me tell you there were lots. This went  for everything from yes peaches all the way to liver. Yes I know a lot of you think I'm mean but now there is no dish people will hand him he'll say no thanks to, if he's not sure if he will like it he'll say just a little please. I actually find it very rude when you are sitting at the table and people sit there and say oh that's gross or that's disgusting. Just because you don't like it doesn't mean everyone has to dislike it. You may like something that will make me gag and I don't sit there and make rude comments.

When its dinner time, the television goes off.
 
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November 10, 2006, 1:29 pm PST

3 year-old not eating

Hi everyone, I am having an issue with my daughter. She will not eat meat or Vegetables. We eat dinner together as a family, the tv is not on. She refuses to eat anything other than pasta. She had problems with food when she was on formula and onto the baby food. She was in the 10th percentile of weight, meaning she was under weight. She is good now weight wise but she will not eat anything but pastas. how can I get her to eat more things that have more nutritional values in them??? I am open to suggestions.
 
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November 13, 2006, 4:04 pm PST

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Hi everyone, I am having an issue with my daughter. She will not eat meat or Vegetables. We eat dinner together as a family, the tv is not on. She refuses to eat anything other than pasta. She had problems with food when she was on formula and onto the baby food. She was in the 10th percentile of weight, meaning she was under weight. She is good now weight wise but she will not eat anything but pastas. how can I get her to eat more things that have more nutritional values in them??? I am open to suggestions.
Man, do I hear you!! Dinner time at our house is NEVER a good time. My son, like your daughter will not eat meat or vegetables or pretty much anything else for that matter. He will only eat a very limited list of dinners. I refuse to keep making the same things over and over. I am a pretty good cook and my husband enjoys all the different items I make. The TV is NEVER on during dinner and I have tried the 2 big bites of everything on the plate but all that turns into is a screaming match between the 3 of us. I keep telling myself, he will get better. He ate fantastically as a baby but as soon as the table foods started, he went downhill, and fast.  He is now going on 5 and still horrible. He will not try anything new and will not even taste anything. I am at wits end. He won't even drink pediasure because he doesn't like the taste. I don't know what else to do.
 
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November 13, 2006, 7:18 pm PST

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I think most kids rae picky eaters and we as parents just have to be creative and patient when it comes to our kids eating. I do not force my kids to eat anything but they do know that if they want a snack they have to eat well. My kids love pasta, so I mix in some veggies, I mix  frozen peas in my spaghetti sauce and lasagna dishes and we love it. chopped up brocoli always goes into the tuna casserole. I always keep campbell tomatoe and veggie soup on hand as my girls do like those.  I have also mixed veggies into a meatloaf. Peanut Butter is good to keep around as well, as it is protein. my girls do like salad so I will fix up a salad and mix in some grilled chicken, I cut it up very small, they don't even know it's there. My girls are not too  good at drinking milk so I do let them have chocolate milk on accasions, and of course alot of foods are made with milk and when I fix the tomatoe soup, I always mix it with milk instead f water, mush tastier that way, I put cheese on certain foods. These are just  a couple of ideas that I do but I  have learned that stressing over eating just is not fun and I don't do it but I do remind my girls of the rules, if you don't eat the good for you food then there are no snacks.
 
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December 20, 2006, 10:25 am PST

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I'm a vegan but i don't make my children be vegans i just cook that way but sometimes will add fish or something to there plates. My problem is that my daughter used to eat that without saying anything but since we moved closer to family they give her tons of junk all the time and even hide it from me everytime she goes to her grandmas house all they do is make cookies and stuff so much so that she has become obsessed with food. i try not make a big deal but she is starting to gain a lot of weight she is 4 and 43 in and weighs 42 lbs she has gained over 10 lbs in a year. How do i change her eating habbits back to the way they were before without her wanting junkfood? Thanks Casey

 

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