Topic : Troubled Teens

My Fiance and I have a baby boy and we are now taking care of his 14yr. brother cause there mom past away in january. and the only family they have is each other, well we have the parent controlls on his email, well one day  he came home from school and told him he wasn't allowed to get on the computer at all. well sometime when we were gone he had gotten on and there were some pic's of his ex girl friend and they shouldn't even been taken. when we found out we talked to him about having sex and that he is way to young and that if he were to have sex to wear a condom cause we can't be with hime 24/7, we have been having him help us more with our son to show him that having a baby isn't all the easy. His little brother had lied to us about being a virgin cause when we called his ex girlfriends mom she had told us that they got caught behind albertson's. so we told him we wasn't allowed to have anything in his room and if he wanted to watch tv he can watch with us. well ever since this happend he has been arguing with us and telling us when he is going to do his chores, and just arguing with us when we are just trying to talk, we need some help, cause if nothing is done i am scared that my Fiance and i will be raising another  baby that won't be our's!!!! 

I am a parent of a 171/2 yr old boy who was a typical teen with the attitude going on. Well to pin point it about 7 months ago he woke up a monster. I know people say you cant just change overnite. well he starting seeing a 14 year old girl. (which i was told was 15) but i didnt even like that age difference. well i talked to the mother of the girl and told her of my feelings and she said she felt the same way. Lied to my face. She approves of this and even tho i try to keep close tabs on my son without the help of this girls mother who by the way will drive her to meet my son at movies and etc. I called the dad one day since the mom had told me he was middle eastern and was very old fashion. Well he told me he didnt care not to call him cuz he was on probation for hitting one of his older daughters and he wasnt about to go that route again. I told him i knew they had had sex and he said oh well i cant control my 14 yr old. I am at my wits ends since i am doing every thing to help my son see the problem and when i am up against parents who dont give a darn its hard. his grades are falling he is no longer playing his life dream of hockey. he is doing the emo teen life style which is emotional poor me the world is bad and no one understands me. i have taken his car and his phone which the girls mom went and helped him get on on his own. (yea) i have called the police when he has been acting up and running away. dont know what else to do to make him understand this relationship is going to distroy his furture.... i need some advice i wonder if i can get a lawyer and is there some law out there that will hold these parents responsible for interfering in my control of my minor child? i could call CPS and report them for allowing the 14 yr old to do what she wants but then they would know i did it and could come back and charge my son with rape of a minor even if he is a minor himself. i wish parents would respect the rights of other parents. I know if they chose to have lack of morals but when i asked them to keep their daughter away from my son and they dont but make effort to let them meet it makes me sick. i dont blame them for all my sons problems but i feel this situation is about 70 % of it.  

yea thats what  i thought. That nothin can happen to me until the day it did!!  It might have sucked and the whole time i was there i might have thought i was gonna hate my parents when i got out but when i got out i actully thanked them!! Those places treat you like you should be treated they dont give you all the extra things you have at home.  They give you the bare necessitys!! well your welcome if you need anything else!!  

alyssa