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Topic : Searching for Birth Parents

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Created on : Friday, July 01, 2005, 12:25:10 pm
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Are you adopted? Have you met your birth parents, or is searching for them important to you? Share your story.

 

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April 9, 2006, 10:20 pm PDT

Illinois searching...

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my b-day is monday 03131979 it would be a great b-day present to learn something new!!! thanks kate

Hi Kate, 

  

If you still live in the area have you tried looking at the local library to see if they have yearbooks that you can view to see if there is a picture of your mother?  This may be a start to at least see what she looks like, providing she went to school in that area.   

  

Do you know how old she was when you were born and adopted?   

  

Also, another option would be for you to go to the local county records office and look for marriage and divorce records for that name to see if you can possibly locate her current name or previous married name(s).  These records are public and can be viewed by anyone, but it has to be done at the actual records office. 

  

If you need any assistance in doing this, I will be happy to help you.  You can contact me privately at my e-mail listed in my profile. 

  

Cheryl 

 
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April 10, 2006, 7:07 pm PDT

Searching for Birth Parents

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Just wondering if anyone would have some information on searching for birth parents in Canada.  I dont have a whole lot of money to spend on this but would love to find my parents.  I am unsure of how to go about this.  If you could help me in any way that would be great! 

 
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April 12, 2006, 7:48 am PDT

Need Address For Wisconsin

Does anyone have or know of an address for Wisconsin to see about records from an adoption 50 years ago besides going through vital records in Madison that costs a ton of money. We live on a fixed income and I am trying so very hard to get information on my birth parents or any siblings. I was born in Milwaukee , Wisconsin and I was adopted in Milwaukee , Wisconsin . I was born on Feb.6th-1956. I have posted twice before and I have posted at other sites and have tried to find inffo on the web where I can look . But it is like a brick wall. Any ideas would be helpful. Thanks . Linda
 
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April 13, 2006, 4:17 pm PDT

Searching for Parents

I will be 25 years old on May 2 of this year.  I am looking for one or both of my birth parents.  My fathers name is Darryl L. White he is of an African-American decent and last known to be in Idaho.  He was incarcarrated there.  My mothers name is Stephanie Polany also from Idaho.  I was adopted at 6 weeks of age, after my mother had reniged on the adoption once.  I know that the process went through a Catholic agency in Arizona.  I have severe medical issues and need to obtain my families medical history is possible.  My oldest son has some of the same problems.  If anyone knows how to get information for Idaho it would be greatly appreciated.  Once I tracked him to the prison system, they weren't very helpful.
 
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April 14, 2006, 3:36 pm PDT

where are you????????

Mark Allen Davis age 50?51? his father is david benjamin davis who was a doctor in california. Mark was in the Navy in SanDiego in 1978 and xferred to Virginia in mid 78. He was a corman in the Navy. He was in a relationship with my mom Naomi Lane Francis and now here I am looking for him. I found out my dad wasn't my birth parent when I was 25 2 years ago.  I just have so many questions for him...please contact me with any info... emthotty@hotmail.com
 
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April 16, 2006, 4:31 pm PDT

searching for 4 siblings in upstate new york and 4 in new orleans louisana

I am an adoptee who has found my birth parents and now im searching for 4 sibings born in new york between 1966 and 1973.there are also 4 more siblings born in new orleans louisiana born between 1975 and 1985.The louisiana kids' names are Holly,Ralph,Donald and Cathleen.My siblings in New orleans fathers'name is Ralph Ricker . I have found 1 other sibling in my search.the names of my siblings born in new york  are Theresa ,Harmony,and there were 2 my mother didnt name .Their biological father's name may be richard Lyons.
 
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April 17, 2006, 1:13 am PDT

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Hello all, My name is Harrison and I was born and raised in Hawaii and I was adopted at birth by a Hawaiian family which is kinda funny considering im white. I dont know the names of my birth parents or how to find them. I dont even have a birth certificate, at least not with my adopted name on it, and my adopted parents were just as confused as I was when I tried to get my state ID. They asked for my birth certificate which i couldnt get so I tried to search for the adoption records but they told me there was no record of my adoption!!!! So I pretty much gave up trying to find it!

 But now im 36 years old and Ive been thinking about marriage, but I need a birth certificate to get married so I cant even get married if I wanted to! I really need help from anyone that can give it and im willing to try anything!...... Heres my info: Harrison K. Kaeo, born: Dec. 14, 1969 as far as I know!,

 I was born at Kapiolani hospital, I am Caucasion with blue eyes brown hair.............Please someone help me! I want to know what my mothers face looks like and why I cant grow a damn full beard......hehe!

 
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April 20, 2006, 10:34 am PDT

Starting point?

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Hello all, My name is Harrison and I was born and raised in Hawaii and I was adopted at birth by a Hawaiian family which is kinda funny considering im white. I dont know the names of my birth parents or how to find them. I dont even have a birth certificate, at least not with my adopted name on it, and my adopted parents were just as confused as I was when I tried to get my state ID. They asked for my birth certificate which i couldnt get so I tried to search for the adoption records but they told me there was no record of my adoption!!!! So I pretty much gave up trying to find it!

 But now im 36 years old and Ive been thinking about marriage, but I need a birth certificate to get married so I cant even get married if I wanted to! I really need help from anyone that can give it and im willing to try anything!...... Heres my info: Harrison K. Kaeo, born: Dec. 14, 1969 as far as I know!,

 I was born at Kapiolani hospital, I am Caucasion with blue eyes brown hair.............Please someone help me! I want to know what my mothers face looks like and why I cant grow a damn full beard......hehe!

Harrison, I hope this info will get you started.  

  

State Reunion Registry http://www.hawaii.gov/jud/excite.htm

Those adopted or relinquished in the state of Hawaii may submit a "Request to Inspect Confidential Adoption Records" of the Family Court.  

  

  

Tina's Hawaii Adoption Information page: 

http://www.geocities.com/capitolhill/9606/states/hawaii.html 

  

  

Hawaii
Original Birth certificate at 18 for those adopted after 1991, if no disclosure veto is on file. Post 1991 if waiver is on file, adoptees may obtain records, if not, a Confidential intermediary is assigned to obtain waiver from birth parents. If the birth parents are not found in 120 days, adoptees are granted access to records. Birth parents rules are the same, and may obtain an original birth certificate.
State Adoption Dept: Dept. of Human Svcs., Child & Family Svcs., P. O. Box 339, Honolulu, HI 96809-0339 (808) 548-2211.
State Reunion Registry: No formal registry on state level. 1st Circuit Family Court maintains a registry for the 1st circuit only.

 

 
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April 20, 2006, 12:31 pm PDT

Looking for Raymond Winford

 Hi!  My name is Michelle Flory and I'm trying to help my husband, Randy, find his birth father.  Randy was born 12/14/1954 in Grand Haven, Michigan.  His mother's maiden name was Rose Buzas.   His Grandmother  gave him a copy of the wedding invitation that had been made  for  his  Mother's and Father's wedding and that is how we have his name.  It appears that Raymond Winford had been a Private in the Army and  he and Rose were to be married on April 3, 1954.  Plans changed on April 2, 1954, when the Military Police showed up to arrest Raymond for desertion.  Randy has never met his father and his mother died back in 1999.  He would really like to meet his father and any siblings that he might have out there.
 
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April 20, 2006, 9:18 pm PDT

SomeonePlease Help

OK Well I Am 22 Years Old And  I Just Have a Little Story To Tell In Witch Maybe Someone Could Help Me With And Maybe Give Me Some Information On How to Go About This Situation Right.
Well This Is What Happen To Me On April 2nd 2006 My Girlfriend/Wife Had My Children (triplets) I Was Out Of Work At That Time But I Was Working Really Hard To Get Working Again In Witch I Am Now And What Happen Was I Had To Go Back To British Columbia And Well I Was Out There My Children Where Born And I Didn't Really Deal With That Good Course It Is My First Time Being A Father And I Really Wanted To Be There But She (my Girlfriend/wife) Went In To Labor And No One New How to Get A hold Of Me But Her And At That Point We Where Kinda Going Threw A Rough Time And Well It Was Decided It Would Be Best To Put Are Children Up For Adoption So Now It Is April 20th And None Of This Has Been Easy On Me Or Her At All And I Am Losing Her Now As-well And I Don't Know How Much More I can Truthfully Take But What I Really Want Right Now Is To Get My Children Back And  Be The Happy Family We Once Where Please If Anyone Knows Anyways That I Can Go About This Within The Canadian Laws Please Help Me Anything Will Help Me Right Now My Number 1 Priority Is My Children And Getting Them Back In To My Life ....Please Someone Help Me
 
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