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Created on : Friday, July 01, 2005, 12:33:24 pm
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Obesity is a medical disorder that can be treated, but sometimes society doesn't look upon the obese with compassion. Find support and understanding here as you or those you love cope with obesity.

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December 11, 2005, 3:04 pm PST

SPECIAL NEEDS

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  great  to have met you. i love to eat. i enjoy cooking . i find my self always hungry. i think it a bug of some sort. celiac or something. i am going to research this. where r u. i am in the sun. i have a great tan but tooooooo fffffaaaaatttt for a thong. so where do we start????????????
  NICE 2 HEAR FROM YOU ONCE JULIE. GONZALEZ6472@BELLSOUTH.NET. WHAT IS THAT BUG? I HAVE HREARD OF IT TO. I WILL HAVE A CHECK UP SOON AND HOPE TO FIND OUT. WE HAVE TO START SOON. LET'S DO THIS.
 
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December 11, 2005, 6:51 pm PST

thanks for the tips

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  CHIN UP GIRL, I KNOW IT IS NOT EASY. I CAN TELL YOU  IT GETS A BIT BETTER. I SAW DR. LAWLESS ON THE SHOW I AM HOPEFUL HE CALLS ME. I HAVE HEARD HIM HELP SOME KIDS WITH  ADD AND SO FORTH. PAT YOURSELF ON THE BACK FOR BEING THERE FOR THESE KIDS. MANY PARENTS TODAY JUST UP AND GO. I HAVE LEARNED THAT  THE DIET IS A BIG ASPECT OF THE ADHD AND THE ASTHMA. I AM A MEDICAL ASSIST AND THROUGHOUT THE YEARS HAVE LEARNED THIS. BUT TODAY THERE  IS SO MUCH OUT THERE. TRY chadd.ORG AND nichy.ORG , SEE IF ANYTHING THERE CAN HELP. TAKE A DEEP BREATH. HOPE 2 HEAR FROM YOU SOON.

Thanks for the tips on those websites, I am going to look them up as soon as Survivor ends. 

I do feel somewhat alone as though some of my decisions may be wrong, like maybe I should take him off the meds but at the same time I am afraid that if I do he will suffer even more, he's labelled already at school because the doctors refused to listen to me when he was 3, so it is confusing.  However I will look up these sites a.s.a.p.   I am uncertain who that doctors is you mentioned I don't remember seeing him on the show, but if he is with Dr. Phil I am sure he is one of the best.  Thanks again ,  Nancy 

 
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December 11, 2005, 9:44 pm PST

What works for me

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I've lost over 200 pounds and even though my body looks different my mind is still in xxxL. 

i can't see what everybody else sees.  I have more problems after I lost the weight than 

before.  Just be careful whaat you ask for.  Thanks Tammy 

Hi. My body image has been out of whack most of my life. What works for me is getting some pictures of myself. I can't tell in the mirror (still distorted), but a picture is apparently objective enough. Perhaps after starting to trust that photo, slowly your body image may change.
 
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December 11, 2005, 9:54 pm PST

Gastric Bypass Scheduled

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Hi All, 

Just wanted to post that I am scheduled for surgery on Jan 16th in Florida for an amazing gastric bypass surgery that is reversible, takes only 30 minutes in the OR, uses a scope, and you are out the next day. Back to work in 3 days. It is expensive ($17,000) but I am sooooooo excitied. You can read more about what I am doing at clos.net.  

Of course, being that I have not had it done yet I cannot vouch for it, but if you are interested, read the posts on the message board on that site, and the rest of the info. 

I just wanted to share for all of those here struggling. Good luck. 

Is it the gastric bypass or lapband surgery? The lapband by the MD in Orlando is the only procedure that I know of that is, essentially, outpatient and is a matter of putting a removable/adjustable band around the stomach. It's had great results. It's $17,000 is cheap compared to the gastric bypass, which cuts the intestines and reroutes things, depending on the surgeon. 

 
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December 11, 2005, 10:17 pm PST

Responses to Rude Comments

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Hi!  I think it is really rotten for people to comment in a negative way over any aspect of someone's appearance.  For some reason people seem to think they have free reign to comment on others' weight.  It IS extremely rude.  And hurtful.  You are not alone in feeling this way. I would love to hear some good comebacks that people have used in this situation.  Any ideas out there??

Hi. A response that I've found myself saying when they don't even make a comment, they just believe they have the right to stare a me: ye olde "Take a picture, it lasts longer". 

 
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December 12, 2005, 6:05 am PST

More Than Just "Obese"

Have no idea why I'm posting, other than I'm at the end of my chain (rope wont hold me anymore). I go along for 20 years, yeah I'm fat, start yet another program, another diet, another Jan 1 resolution... Whatever. I'm going to be 40 in 2006 and it's come to this: I'm now 200+ over weight. I can't afford good meats, fresh veggies or even bottled water for that matter. What I can afford is all the cheap foods that are high in fat, high in carbs. Fresh veggies for us is a bag of carrots or a bag of potatos.  So moving on from food what about exercise? I take my dog for a walk when there isnt 2 feet of snow on the ground. The heel spurs I have in my feet make it nearly impossible to be on my feet for very long and forget any impact movements. My knees are shot, you can feel them grinding when I bend them (grosses my husband out). I can no longer bend over at the waist for more than 5 seconds as it cuts off my air and I can't breathe. I can no longer get in and out of the bathtub, I must shower. Showering is like a marathon, Im totally out of breath when I get done and need to rest to regain my composure. Hygene after using the facilities is something I can't even begin to tell anyone about, Its imbarrassing, upsetting and throws me into a serious depressive mood. I can no longer do my own toenails, which is something huge for me, they havent been done in months. In the summer I put my body on a bicycle but the ridicule I have to deal with, and the mear image of myself upsets me so much that I find it difficult. Not to mention my knees killing me. People get all excited about starting a weightloss program or changing the way they live, but no one ever talks about the down to earth issues  facing the Super Morbidly Obese folks who have to deal with everyday things in a drastically different way. How do we do it? I'd invite anyone to put on a 250 pound suit and live 1 week like that, then start a weightloss program. Maybe then someone could tell me how its done so that it doesn't all seem so surreal.
 
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December 12, 2005, 1:49 pm PST

Me too

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Have no idea why I'm posting, other than I'm at the end of my chain (rope wont hold me anymore). I go along for 20 years, yeah I'm fat, start yet another program, another diet, another Jan 1 resolution... Whatever. I'm going to be 40 in 2006 and it's come to this: I'm now 200+ over weight. I can't afford good meats, fresh veggies or even bottled water for that matter. What I can afford is all the cheap foods that are high in fat, high in carbs. Fresh veggies for us is a bag of carrots or a bag of potatos.  So moving on from food what about exercise? I take my dog for a walk when there isnt 2 feet of snow on the ground. The heel spurs I have in my feet make it nearly impossible to be on my feet for very long and forget any impact movements. My knees are shot, you can feel them grinding when I bend them (grosses my husband out). I can no longer bend over at the waist for more than 5 seconds as it cuts off my air and I can't breathe. I can no longer get in and out of the bathtub, I must shower. Showering is like a marathon, Im totally out of breath when I get done and need to rest to regain my composure. Hygene after using the facilities is something I can't even begin to tell anyone about, Its imbarrassing, upsetting and throws me into a serious depressive mood. I can no longer do my own toenails, which is something huge for me, they havent been done in months. In the summer I put my body on a bicycle but the ridicule I have to deal with, and the mear image of myself upsets me so much that I find it difficult. Not to mention my knees killing me. People get all excited about starting a weightloss program or changing the way they live, but no one ever talks about the down to earth issues  facing the Super Morbidly Obese folks who have to deal with everyday things in a drastically different way. How do we do it? I'd invite anyone to put on a 250 pound suit and live 1 week like that, then start a weightloss program. Maybe then someone could tell me how its done so that it doesn't all seem so surreal.
Hi ,I know you don't know me but thats ok.I have been over weight all my life.I am 45 yrs old.I have lost50 lbs in two months.I like you have no money to eat right.People don't realize it takes money to be on a diet.I am very poor,don't have the perfect diet.I eat popcorn and when i can afford it i will have a slimfast[walmart brand].I know its not healthy,but I don't know what else to try.If I get hungary I eat popcorn.Fills you up,and has hardly any calories.I might have 3 bags a day.But it works.I don't have the money for jenny craig or any of those other fancy diets.My sister gave me a workout bike.Don't get down.I know how you feel.We can lose this weight and be good again someday.I will be thinking of you good luck to you.Have a merry christmas
 
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December 13, 2005, 9:11 am PST

out of control

I have been overweight all my life going from one diet to the next i did well for awhile and lost over 80lbs.  And then i got preagant with my son and quit smoking.  I went from 190 to over 300lbs.  I cant  belive that i have allowed my self to get this for.  I know that i need to get this weight off i cant do anything anymore it hard to keep up with my 18month old son.  Yet i keep putting it off and keep watching the scale go up and down.  I have thought about surgery but my family does not feel that i should do it.  I know that i need something to help i just cant get moved to get it off like before. 

I dont understand why my son should not be engh to want to lose the weight yet i cant seem to do it My dr has put me on phentermine hopeing that will give me the push that i need.   I am sure hopeing that it does because i can not affered to put on anymore weight. hopeing for the best. 

 
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December 13, 2005, 11:34 am PST

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Help!!!! 

  

I am in need of some serious help!!!!   

I have just turned 43.  I have been both mom and dad to both my boys for over five years.  I say over five years because even when I was married, my ex-husband was not much of a father to them, only when he felt he needed to beat them, stab them with a fork, screw driver, or whatever he had in his hands. 

I am seriously over weight, I have always had a weight challenge all my life.  I need and want to change. 

My oldest son is 19 and weighs about the same as me, although I think he may be bigger now.  He now wears a size 52x30 mens pants.  He is so heavy, his legs looks like they are buckling inward.   

My youngest son is only 12 years old and weighs about 200 lbs, and has been recently diagnosed with cirrhosis of the liver.  His doctor said that he most likely had steatoheptitis (a fatty liver) undetected, that developed into cirrhosis.  His doctor said that he needs to lose 105 lbs. and needs to start with losing 5 lbs a month non stop.  He also said that my son is looking at having type 2 diabetes with in a year or two. 

He and his brother were doing so well for the first few days, and now it is a hard battle for me to keep them up.  I need to help them by losing weight myself.  I need the support and I need some helpers to help me with this battle. 

Please, I am losing this battle with them, and I can't afford to. 

Losing my kids to obesity is too high of a price to pay. 

I am hoping to move out of Michigan and to California, by February of 2006.  I want to live where is does not get as cold of winters as it does here.  I need to live where the skies are mostly blue, instead of Grey full of snow clouds. 

I am hoping that Dr. Phil will help us.  I am begging Dr. Phil to help us.  I will do whatever he tells me to do. 

  

 
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December 13, 2005, 7:54 pm PST

Obesity

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I have been overweight all my life going from one diet to the next i did well for awhile and lost over 80lbs.  And then i got preagant with my son and quit smoking.  I went from 190 to over 300lbs.  I cant  belive that i have allowed my self to get this for.  I know that i need to get this weight off i cant do anything anymore it hard to keep up with my 18month old son.  Yet i keep putting it off and keep watching the scale go up and down.  I have thought about surgery but my family does not feel that i should do it.  I know that i need something to help i just cant get moved to get it off like before. 

I dont understand why my son should not be engh to want to lose the weight yet i cant seem to do it My dr has put me on phentermine hopeing that will give me the push that i need.   I am sure hopeing that it does because i can not affered to put on anymore weight. hopeing for the best. 

I totally get where you're coming from.  I've always been overweight then I somehow got it under control and lost 40lbs, just in time to get pregnant.  I gained 100lbs when I was pregnant.  Now I'm sitting at 230lbs and my son is almost 4.  It makes me sick when I look in the mirror.  I know that right now he doesn't know that I'm fat but he'll be in school soon and it will sink in.  I've heard my husband's friends talk about their "fat moms" and how embarassing it was for them in school.  I don't want my son to go through that.  I've tried diet after diet and nothing has worked.  I'm so ... exhausted.
 
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