Topic : Pre-school

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Created on : Friday, July 01, 2005, 01:09:47 pm
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Are you thinking of sending your child to pre-school or already have one enrolled? Share advice, support, funny stories - anything pre-school!

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January 28, 2006, 5:10 pm PST

Pre-school

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I'm a stay at home mom also my oldest just went to preschool this year when he was four, since he started he has turned five. He has done great! I kept him at home with me as a little one because I wanted to enjoy him. I have to admit  I was a little worried about how he would react when finally mom wasn't there but he has adjusted great! The preschool teacher said that he was one of the best behaved children in class and could tell that he had been worked with at home.  He could spell his name, knew his abc's, and could count to 15. That is what counts just enjoy your children and play with them at home and teach them. I also made play dates so he could interact with children his age. It sounds like you are a good friend and your children play together thats all they need for now.  There is plenty of time for them to grow up and have to deal with all that comes with that!
A happy and secure child can adjust well to his/her environment. I would not change my experiences with my children for anything. I think the best thing I ever did for my children was to keep them home with me and not stick them in a center, just not the thing for me. My children are so happy and have not missed out on anything. I will say though, that I do get a lot of slack for keeping my children home, but I actually do pretty good at ignoring LOL, I am good with my children and seeing them in the things that they do and the way they interact with others, I see that they are very well off in every aspect of their lives. The thing that I dislike so much is the thinking that kids can only thrive in a group/organized setting. I get very irriatated when I hear things like that because it is so wrong. Kids do not NEED to be in a school setting as babies,toddlers, preschoolers, and not even as they grow older. There is so much out there for our kids to explore and to be a part of and with smart and caring parents, the kids won't have problems learning and socializing. My kids adjust very well to things and make friends easily and even academics are good, They certainly are headed in the right direction. Being a stay at home mom is the greatest thing I have done, I love it.
 
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January 29, 2006, 6:53 pm PST

looking for ideas

I have a four year old daughter and was just wondering what kinds of things others do to help their children learn like reading writing and other stuff what kind of routines you have any advice or ideas is welcome thankyou 

  

 
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January 29, 2006, 8:43 pm PST

Pre-school

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I have a four year old daughter and was just wondering what kinds of things others do to help their children learn like reading writing and other stuff what kind of routines you have any advice or ideas is welcome thankyou 

  

The best way to teach a child to read is to read to them every day. We read in the mornings as well as the evenings. www.starfall.com is a wonderful reading website, both my girls get on that almost daily. I also have a daily word list for my oldest that we go over. We go to the library and read together there on accasions and the girls love it, of course we go to story times and other library activities as wll, during the summer they have a reading program which is awesome and kids of all ages earn prizes for reading/being read to. My oldest loves working in work books, you can buy these at the stores such as Walmart, Kmart, anywhere like that, they come in all subjects. Also www.iknowthat.com is a great math website as well as has many other things on there. MY oldest will be 5 on Friday and she reads and does basic math and she learned these things through these methods. She is also learning to count money, she can count by tens and knows that ten dimes make a dollar..........I use flash cards with my little one and I just started her in work books, she is starting to get the hang of it, (she isn't as advanced as my oldest but she is doing very well), she is three and loves the reading website. I am in the process of making a memory game of words and letters for my girls, where all the cardsa re flipped over and they try to find the matches..........board games are fun and can be a learning tool as well. My oldest loves the game, "sorry" and haslearned what every card means and starting to read the cards word by word. My girls have a container full of dry beans that they play in and they use measuring cups, learning how to measure and of course cooking with them is a good thing which is something I do on accasions but need to do more of :)My kids love using a calculator and my oldest is getting pretty good at using it while practicing math..Kids learn every day and exposing/introducing them to different things is good, even if they are just messing around like just pushing buttons on the calculator like my youngest does but that is how my oldest started off as well. A parents imagination can go far if the effort and desire is there.................. Routines are good and a neccessity of course but sometimes some things can wait, like if my children are having a good time reading, playing, whatever, I leave then alone, I don't have a set time where my children work in their books and get on their sites, they let me know when they are ready but of course they like doing it and they do them every day, some kids may need a little more encouragement then others and that is ok. My husband works different hours now and I don't make a big deal if our routine is broken, we get everything in that needs to be and my kids are happy and doing well.
 
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January 30, 2006, 10:21 am PST

Teach By Showing

  My husband and I have been married for 10 years, we have two loving boys. When my kids were young I came up with an idea, to teach by showing. Everytime we picked up a book I showed them into a whole new world by actually "acting" out the story, it made it come alive. I did that until they were school age. I then gave them parts to play, and the other sibling would have to narrate. That way they both got the spotlight and they both got to increase their creativity. I love watching my kids grow and to see them do the stories the way I taught them with their friends is a great accomplishment for both. We still search for books that they can "act" out the parts too. Lately I found a wonderful one for just that purpose. The title is "The Little Prince and His Magic Wand." The author is "Jillian Curtis." The story is about a little prince and him finding magic. Perfect story for preschoolers... 

  

  

It really does work, because my sons are now in 2nd and 3rd, and they have read this book out loud to their classmates... I have confident readers and I believe it's because I took the time to make the book come alive... not just on paper... but in actions. 

 
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January 31, 2006, 11:28 pm PST

Is preschool a must?

 My daughters are now preschool age but I have a situation. Me and my husband only have one car and he goes to work at 1:30am and there is no public transportation for preschool. I would have to take my husband to work,come home try and get 2-4 hours sleep,get the girls ready for school,take them to school,3-4 hours later pick them up from school,go pick my husband up from work, and then try to make a decent meal by 6:00pm so that my husband can go to bed early for work.  I am trying not to let myself feel guilty about the fact that they probaly will not be able to go to preschool. My question is that is it possable to home school them and them get the same education?
 
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February 1, 2006, 4:32 pm PST

Preschool is not a must

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 My daughters are now preschool age but I have a situation. Me and my husband only have one car and he goes to work at 1:30am and there is no public transportation for preschool. I would have to take my husband to work,come home try and get 2-4 hours sleep,get the girls ready for school,take them to school,3-4 hours later pick them up from school,go pick my husband up from work, and then try to make a decent meal by 6:00pm so that my husband can go to bed early for work.  I am trying not to let myself feel guilty about the fact that they probaly will not be able to go to preschool. My question is that is it possable to home school them and them get the same education?
Don't worry about it and yes it is possibel to homes school them and they get the proper education. Do not let any one tell you differently. Though my oldest is now in preschool, I am highly considering on home schooling, no way will I send my children to a public school. I taught my daughter everything, by the time she was two, she knew all herletters, numbers 1-10, shapes and colors, she was coloring by the age off 11 months and printing her name by the time she was 2 1/2, she is way ahead of her xlass academedaically AND socially, why? because she was worked with it. Don't fret over this, I am sure you are a great mom and you can teach your children just as well as any one else and I am sure even better. In my daughters class, My daughter is actually bored in preschool when it comes to the work that they do for she is beyond all that but she does enjoy her friends and outings which is also not a big deal for she has friends outside of school as well and we are an active family. Absolutely nothing wrong with keeping them home.............................
 
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February 2, 2006, 7:08 am PST

thank you

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Don't worry about it and yes it is possibel to homes school them and they get the proper education. Do not let any one tell you differently. Though my oldest is now in preschool, I am highly considering on home schooling, no way will I send my children to a public school. I taught my daughter everything, by the time she was two, she knew all herletters, numbers 1-10, shapes and colors, she was coloring by the age off 11 months and printing her name by the time she was 2 1/2, she is way ahead of her xlass academedaically AND socially, why? because she was worked with it. Don't fret over this, I am sure you are a great mom and you can teach your children just as well as any one else and I am sure even better. In my daughters class, My daughter is actually bored in preschool when it comes to the work that they do for she is beyond all that but she does enjoy her friends and outings which is also not a big deal for she has friends outside of school as well and we are an active family. Absolutely nothing wrong with keeping them home.............................
 Thank you for your advice. That makes me feel better. I was just having a hard time in deciding what I should do. When they go to kindergarden will be easier. I have found web site for preschool and was thinking that I could use that material to get them ready for kindergarden,I just needed some encouragement that it could be done the same as if they did go to pre-school outside the house. Thank you for your words of encouragement I feel confident that I can do it right.
 
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February 10, 2006, 9:19 am PST

competitor 4 year old

I going to send my child to preschool soon but, he is to competitive. He feels he always has to win. If he does not win he gets angry.  He will throw a fit and try to keep you playing until he wins more that you. How do you teach a 4 year old that it doesn't matter if you win or lose>?
 
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February 16, 2006, 9:26 pm PST

Make learning fun

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I have a four year old daughter and was just wondering what kinds of things others do to help their children learn like reading writing and other stuff what kind of routines you have any advice or ideas is welcome thankyou 

  

Hi, I  struggled with school. I found it hard making friends and getting a job. I did not want to see the same thing happen to my son. So I taught him about reading, maths and general knowledge before he started school.  He is in his third year and at the top of his class and a year ahead in maths, I am proud to see him so happy, and he has loads of friends. 

I do not believe that parents should push thier children and obsess about learning though , it needs to be fun so that parents and children enjoy learning together. It is not about trying to turn our children into brain boxes it is about setting the base for future leaning 

  

From 6 months old I read to my son each night before he went to bed, so at 5 he had an understanding of reading , he could read a few words by himself and understood the process. Once at school he learnt to read in 6 months. I tried to read my son non fiction books so that he could learn about the world at the same time. His teacher says he has a large general knowledge base because of this. 

  

I taught my son maths in fun ways, when shopping we counted the groceries into the trolley. We baked together, counted toys and played math based games, and sung counting soungs. When he turned four I started teaching him from text books keeping it fun . 

  

 Try reading to you daughter each night a bedtime and pehaps a few time during the day. Purchase text book so that you can get ideas about what to introduce her to. I believe that parents and teachers need to work together and that children need to learn how to learn. 

  

  

 
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February 27, 2006, 1:51 pm PST

CONFUSED ABOUT PRE-K

My son is in pre-k now and i am confused.. he attended daycare last year and this year there is so much they want the kids to learn before going to kindergarten. he is very smart and is trying so hard to learn everything he can he loves the computer the most and drawing and playing out on the playground the thing is next year when he goes to kindergarten should i put him on the school bus or not i'm so terrified to do so after watching all these missing children and children being molested... some one please give me some advice before the summer.. Thanks in advance for all your help...CHRISTIA 

 

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