Topic : School Issues

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Created on : Friday, July 01, 2005, 01:14:15 pm
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Does your child dread going to school? Are they having problems with unfinished homework or slipping grades? Is their a personality conflict with their teacher? Share your school issues here and get advice and support from other parents.



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November 1, 2007, 1:59 pm PDT

ooohh -- purdy rocks & Other Stuff

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Scott is still struggling to get his homework in...actually not struggling...he just lies about having homework...I'm in email contact with his teachers, so I can catch him in the lies (usually) and make him do his work.  Yesterday, his jump drive was stolen when he left it in a computer...gone when he went right back for it.  He hopes to get it back, but I doubt it.  It had a major assignment on it.  Most of the assignment is saved on our home computer, but he had worked on it yesterday in class, and he only saved the changes to the jump drive...not to his file on the school computer.

 

I emailed the teacher to watch for a paper with the topics that Scott wrote about...in case they were stealing the homework assignment with the jump drive...that would make it easy to identify the theif...maybe the person who took it will turn it in to the lost & found at the school...doubtful though.  His jump drive was not password protected...when he gets a new one, it will be.  We will replace the jump drive ONCE, but if he loses another one, he will have to pay to replace it.

 

I spent yesterday doing face-painting at Matthew's school party.  I painted over 100 kids' faces with little Halloween designs.  It was lots of fun.

 

I am head of the silent auction for Scott's high school band.  The kids go out to local businesses and get donated items and gift certificates to put into the auction.  I am putting some of my painted rocks into the auction...not for a cheap price.  Here are my latest ones...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I also did some dogs for my aunt, which I am mailing next week, when the finish is hardened completely.

 

Off to the exercise, laundry, and general stuff...Becky

Man, that really STINKS about that jump drive (they're probably not allowed to save stuff to the school's machines). Good to give a heads-up to the teacher. Wouldn't surprise me if some of Scott's material were lifted verbatim. From what I'm hearing through the grapevine (as well as in an article in Reader's Digest a year or 2 ago), the cheating in schools is RAMPANT.

 

Report cards will be out Monday. We know for sure that Anne has an A in her Adv. Reading class & a solid B in Language Arts and everything but Math I'm sure is a B. I'm a bit annoyed at some of what these kids get credit for -- seemingly, all one has to do is rack up all the "gimme points" one can & make 75s (middle C) or better on the tests to make the Honor Roll. Now that I know this, I'm gonna have to raise the bar a little bit.

 

In other news, I am an aunt for the third (and probably last) time. My nephew was born yesterday morning and came in at 7 lb 13 oz, 21" long. So I had Mum as an overnight guest and trick-or-treaters the same day. I'm beat today.

 

Need to get Jack up from his nap.

 

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November 5, 2007, 2:28 pm PST

Report Card

Good news, overall: Adv Reading, A; Adv Language Arts, B; World Cultures, A; Science, B; Math, C+; Teacher's Aide, A. I'm less than thrilled about the Math grade (one too many bum quiz/test grades; the assignment grades were OK), but Anne is the only one who can remedy the test-taking issue.

 

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November 5, 2007, 3:55 pm PST

Correction

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Good news, overall: Adv Reading, A; Adv Language Arts, B; World Cultures, A; Science, B; Math, C+; Teacher's Aide, A. I'm less than thrilled about the Math grade (one too many bum quiz/test grades; the assignment grades were OK), but Anne is the only one who can remedy the test-taking issue.

 

Prof

The World Cultures grade was a B, not an A. Oops. That's what I get for not having it in front of me.

 

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November 8, 2007, 10:35 am PST

report cards

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The World Cultures grade was a B, not an A. Oops. That's what I get for not having it in front of me.

 

Prof

The trimester ends Nov 30th for our schools.  Scott so far has 3 D's and 2 C's, and an A in Band.  There isn't much hope of bring the grades up, but if he turns in all of his work this month, he can at least maintain, and not fail the classes.  He is still not filling out his planner, and I am relying on emails from the teachers to keep up on his assignments.  The teachers "don't have time " to make sure that his planner gets filled out.  They just started having planners in 7th grade, so the habit was not ingrained at a younger age.  Now, the intermediate school is on board, and Matthew has a planner that he fills out every day.  I hope that the younger kids will develop good habits early, and already be in the habit of writing everything down by the time they get to junior high and high school.  Matthew is doing very well in his classes...very diligent about getting all of his homework done right after school.

 

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November 8, 2007, 2:26 pm PST

Planners

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The trimester ends Nov 30th for our schools.  Scott so far has 3 D's and 2 C's, and an A in Band.  There isn't much hope of bring the grades up, but if he turns in all of his work this month, he can at least maintain, and not fail the classes.  He is still not filling out his planner, and I am relying on emails from the teachers to keep up on his assignments.  The teachers "don't have time " to make sure that his planner gets filled out.  They just started having planners in 7th grade, so the habit was not ingrained at a younger age.  Now, the intermediate school is on board, and Matthew has a planner that he fills out every day.  I hope that the younger kids will develop good habits early, and already be in the habit of writing everything down by the time they get to junior high and high school.  Matthew is doing very well in his classes...very diligent about getting all of his homework done right after school.

 

Becky

We've had them since first grade (almost overkill at that age, I think --I can see at 3rd grade). Theoretically, they should have the habits developed by this point, but I still have to get on Anne every once in a while. Sigh.

 

Good luck as the year progresses.

 

Prof

 
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November 9, 2007, 1:15 pm PST

it goes on and on

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We've had them since first grade (almost overkill at that age, I think --I can see at 3rd grade). Theoretically, they should have the habits developed by this point, but I still have to get on Anne every once in a while. Sigh.

 

Good luck as the year progresses.

 

Prof

Yesterday, I got emails from teachers...5 math assignments missing, 1 social studies assignment missing, and a project due today that he stayed up past midnight completing.  He will be busy this weekend doing all of the missed work...lucky thing that Monday is a holiday.

 

Matthew sold Cub Scout popcorn...picked it up today...he sold enough to pay his way to camp and to get a new uniform.  Now we have to deliver it all, and get money from those who haven't paid yet.

 

Well, back to the laundry...Becky

 
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November 11, 2007, 9:32 pm PST

How do I get someone to listen?????

Teachers were great; Principal is a total control freak!  She dissolved the last 3 Parent Teacher Groups and has now formed her own.  If you question her on anything, she ignores you or talks down to you.  I left the school after 2 years of abuse from her.  Of the 3 of us that tried to get heard by the Superintendent and the school board last year, only one remains to fight on her own.  Her child has a wonderful teacher.  So far this year;   First day of school; the Mom greets the Principal.  Principal ignores Mom and greets the child only.  Principal implements policy to have all volunteers go thru volunteer orientation (no problem with the policy).  However, she is doing the orientation and picks and chooses who has to or does not have to go through the orientation to volunteer.  1/2 the staff is not aware of this new policy.  Principal handpicked all Board members of the Parent Group.  This Mom has sent a letter to request a meeting with the Superintendent.  He had the Director of Curriculum call her to find out more details.  This was almost 3 weeks ago and she has not heard back from the Superintendent.  Last year we met with the Superintendent and came out of the meeting agreeing to start the new year with a foundation of trust.  This foundation of trust has already been broken many times by this Principal and that is why this Mom is trying to get another meeting with the Superintendent.  Does anyone have any ideas of where to go next?  We have tried to bring it up at a School Board meeting only to be shut down and told this is not the proper channel to go through.  We cannot get an answer of what the proper channel is.  This Mom has been yelled at by the Principal in the front of the school because she is asking questions regarding the Volunteer agreement.  Any ideas would be greatly appreciated!
 
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November 13, 2007, 12:46 pm PST

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Teachers were great; Principal is a total control freak!  She dissolved the last 3 Parent Teacher Groups and has now formed her own.  If you question her on anything, she ignores you or talks down to you.  I left the school after 2 years of abuse from her.  Of the 3 of us that tried to get heard by the Superintendent and the school board last year, only one remains to fight on her own.  Her child has a wonderful teacher.  So far this year;   First day of school; the Mom greets the Principal.  Principal ignores Mom and greets the child only.  Principal implements policy to have all volunteers go thru volunteer orientation (no problem with the policy).  However, she is doing the orientation and picks and chooses who has to or does not have to go through the orientation to volunteer.  1/2 the staff is not aware of this new policy.  Principal handpicked all Board members of the Parent Group.  This Mom has sent a letter to request a meeting with the Superintendent.  He had the Director of Curriculum call her to find out more details.  This was almost 3 weeks ago and she has not heard back from the Superintendent.  Last year we met with the Superintendent and came out of the meeting agreeing to start the new year with a foundation of trust.  This foundation of trust has already been broken many times by this Principal and that is why this Mom is trying to get another meeting with the Superintendent.  Does anyone have any ideas of where to go next?  We have tried to bring it up at a School Board meeting only to be shut down and told this is not the proper channel to go through.  We cannot get an answer of what the proper channel is.  This Mom has been yelled at by the Principal in the front of the school because she is asking questions regarding the Volunteer agreement.  Any ideas would be greatly appreciated!

I think you made the right decision to leave the school...was it a private school or public?  I think now that your daughter is at another school, you should let the past go.  How is it going at your daughter's new school?  It sounds like your friend is up against a brick wall...maybe she should consider leaving the school too.  If enough people leave, maybe they'll get the message.

 

Becky

 
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November 23, 2007, 6:07 pm PST

nurse response

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What are all of your thoughts on schools having a "full time" nurse at the school? My son will attend kindergaten this year. He is a diabetic child on insulin. The school he will be going to has a part time nurse. She goes to different schools each day throughout the county. I had to sign a  piece of paper when I registered him for school this year stating that the school would not be held responsible for anything that happens to him at school. The schools are granted immunity. I later found out that if anything happened to my son at school pertaining to his disease, that I would be held responsible for "medical neglect". I dont think this is fair. We are now pushing the school to get a full time nurse for his care while he is at school. I have contacted the American Diabetes Association and got a copy of all of my sons "civil rights". He cannot be discriminated against because of his diabetes. I was told that he has to have his glucagon kit kept at school so that way the school will be forced to get a full time nurse. I have also contacted the Board of Education about this and the man said that if the  school got a full time nurse, the school will have to pay for the full time nurse. (I thought the Board of Education pays for this). Either way I think the school is going to be upset that we are requestiong a full time nurse, because they are not wanting to pay for one, but I know that the school is receiving funds for my child attending there and I think they can use those funds to pay for his nurse. Whats a concerned mother to do? I want to have "peace" in knowing that my child will be taken care of properly while in the schools care.  I think ALL schools ought to have a full time nurse. Anything can happen to anyone while being there. What do you guys think?
I like the idea of having a full time nurse at school...but...at the elementary school that I work at, we are required to raise almost $16,000 to support her salary. I teach at a school were almost 50% of our school population are considered severely low income and the other half of our school are struggling middle class. The money that our school receives for each student goes to pay for curriculum and extra support in the classrooms. Our school spends all year fundraising and "moneying" our parents to death, just to try to pay for our nurse and because of this our school is suffering in other aspects. Our PTA doesn't have any money to support the teachers, staff, students, or programs in our school.  A school nurse is a wonderful idea, but they need to figure out another way to get the money to pay the salaries.
 
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November 23, 2007, 6:20 pm PST

team points

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Last year, the kids, as a class, EARNED points for being good.  When they earned a certain number of points, the class got ice cream or popcicles.  Points could be taken away from the class for being noisy.

 

For individual behavior, our school has "steps".  Step one is to talk to the student to correct their behavior.  Step 2 would be a "time out" in the hall.  Step 3 would be a trip to the office.  Step 4 is a phone call to the parents...and so on.  Repeated bad behavior gets steps...little transgressions are handled by the teacher. 

 

That point system seems utterly rediculous...behavior shouldn't be a cumulative thing for points, and if it is, there should be a way to earn back lost points...but the whole thing seems rediculous to me. 

 

Well, that's my take on the situation.

 

Becky

I am a 3rd grade teacher and I am lucky to have the same class as last year (I moved up to 3rd grade with them). I realized about 3 weeks into the school year I really didn't need a behavior system. I took down the chart and haven't had to use it. About a month ago I found that a lot of the fighting and minor behavior problems had returned. Instead of putting the behavior chart back up I moved the kids into groups of 4 and made it a team building activity. They encourage each other to do random acts of kindness and they work together to keep each other on track. They earn points as a team for things noticed by each other, by me, or by other staff members. They love the satisfaction that earning points gives them. At the end of the week I total up the points and the team with the most points gets a chance to earn a homework pass, extra recess, or lunch with me in the classroom. Every 4-5 weeks they switch teams so that they bond and learn to work with everyone in the classroom.
 

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