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Created on : Friday, July 01, 2005, 04:46:09 pm
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March 20, 2006, 12:32 pm PST

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Your son is innocent.  Where did this happen?  What state?
  This took place in Maine. Any advice what we can do
 
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March 20, 2006, 12:32 pm PST

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Your son is innocent.  Where did this happen?  What state?
  This took place in Maine. Any advice what we can do
 
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March 20, 2006, 12:33 pm PST

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Your son is innocent.  Where did this happen?  What state?
  This took place in Maine. Any advice what we can do
 
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March 20, 2006, 12:39 pm PST

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"Your son is innocent" 

  

LOL 

  

Were you there? How about not jumping to conclusions based on a short paragraph of vague descriptions from someone who wasn't there either. 

Would further description help? Any questions? 

 
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March 21, 2006, 9:51 am PST

potty training

I have a three year old daughter who has been potty trained now for about 6 months.  However she refuses to go #2 on the toilet.  She will tell me she needs a diaper to poop and refuses to go on the toilet.  We have battled constipation off and on for a while now and she says it hurts to much.  I don't want to frighten her by forcing.  I'm open to suggestions.  What can I do?
 
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March 21, 2006, 10:48 am PST

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My son will be 9 in October.  He wets the bed everynight.  Occassionally when he sleeps over at friends houses, he does not wet the bed. 

 

I have tried stopping drinks after 6pm.  Getting him to go pee before he goes to bed.  I have also woke him up to go pee when I go to bed (around 11pm) He has either allready peed or still wakes up wet.  I have even gone as far as the medication prescribed by doctors.  That didn't work either. 

 

Every night he wears pullups to bed.  (I have to buy the Good nights as the sizing is bigger, and they are more expensive) This morning he went right through his pull up and we are washing his sheets. 

 

I am so tired of washing clothes and smelling pee in his room.  I do not scold him for this, but I have started making him do his own wash and making up his bed when it is all clean.

 

My 5 yr old thinks that he needs to wear pull ups as well.  I tell him he doesn't need to but he says his brother does so he wants to. ANd occassionally he will wet the bed as well. 

 

I occasionally wet the bed when I was young, (as an older child, amybe up til I was 11) But not every night.  This is driving me crazy!  Sometimes we don't have any pull ups, as I refuse to by them at $20 a bag, (you know 2 days before pay day). I will not buy one of those electrice shockers, that shocks them when they pee in thier sleep........

 

Basically I don't think any one can help us, he will just have to grow out of it, but I needed to vent....Thanks for listening!

My son ended up at a urologist to find his urethra was not big enough...they did surgery.  It still did not help.  They tried him on DDVAP twice, but it still does not work.  We just live with it right now.  I still try to watch his drinking past 6 pm.  We even bought the alarm...all it did was keep us awake.  Hope you get some relief.  If you find something, let me know too please.
 
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March 21, 2006, 10:53 am PST

change in behavoir

I am so scared!  My 11 year old son has had some drastic changes in behavoir that have sent him to the principal's office several times this month.  I am trying to find something that I can do to help....and stop this behavoir, but I am at a loss.  If there is anyone else that has boys with changes in behavoir and have figured out what is wrong, please let me know.  We have tried talking to him...he even sees a psychologist because of aspergers syndrome.  He is now getting bad grades and hitting girls on their bottom.  The girls say that he does this anyway.  I do not know if he is guilty, but he says he did not do it.  This is not his normal behavoir!  I do know that. 

  

  

 
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March 21, 2006, 12:42 pm PST

9 year boy

Hello, 

  

My son turned 9 years old in Jan.  and he has started asking about sex.  How old should a child be before you talk to them about sex and how much detail should be given? 

  

Any advice is appreciated. 

  

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March 21, 2006, 4:12 pm PST

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I have a three year old daughter who has been potty trained now for about 6 months.  However she refuses to go #2 on the toilet.  She will tell me she needs a diaper to poop and refuses to go on the toilet.  We have battled constipation off and on for a while now and she says it hurts to much.  I don't want to frighten her by forcing.  I'm open to suggestions.  What can I do?
I understand 100% on what you are goingt hrough, my daughter is 3 and she absolutely has a mind of her own, nothing worked works withh er, she loves Elmo so I fugured the stickers would work with her k=just as they did for her sister who was about 90% potty trained by the time she was TWO. talk about the difference in two kids LOLLLL. Just this morning, my Anna took her self to the potty and boy were we thrilled, she is a little bit shy and doesn't like all the fuss but man, we were happy and excited and we wanted to show it LOL. The stickers as suggested by Texas might work with your daughter as they certainly worked with my oldest. One thing that I have learned with my littel one is that she does EVERYATHING when SHE is ready and WANTS to do it LOL, and I have learned not to get so stressed about things with her as she is only three and kids really do do things when they are ready. Be patient and hang in there and encourage her but don't stress about it, It will come. :)
 
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March 21, 2006, 4:15 pm PST

sorry about the typos,

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I understand 100% on what you are goingt hrough, my daughter is 3 and she absolutely has a mind of her own, nothing worked works withh er, she loves Elmo so I fugured the stickers would work with her k=just as they did for her sister who was about 90% potty trained by the time she was TWO. talk about the difference in two kids LOLLLL. Just this morning, my Anna took her self to the potty and boy were we thrilled, she is a little bit shy and doesn't like all the fuss but man, we were happy and excited and we wanted to show it LOL. The stickers as suggested by Texas might work with your daughter as they certainly worked with my oldest. One thing that I have learned with my littel one is that she does EVERYATHING when SHE is ready and WANTS to do it LOL, and I have learned not to get so stressed about things with her as she is only three and kids really do do things when they are ready. Be patient and hang in there and encourage her but don't stress about it, It will come. :)
I am on IM with my niece and trying to chat with her and send messages here. I am always doing more then one thing on this computer at once, I gotta start paying attention and concentrating on one thing at a time.:)
 
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