Topic : Depression

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June 23, 2006, 8:51 pm PDT

Praise God

Hey Yall,
Oh Finally, I am on the mends. No more of those "is she going to live?" coughs. I am feeling soooo much better. I am acctually getting sleep now. Makes a person feel not so depressed once health is better.
Ahhh... the weekend. It has been a long time since I've had a weekend off.
My work schedule has changed. Our clinic doesn't want to be open on Saturdays anymore. That left me with 2 choices. Start working Monday-Friday or have a 4 day work week.
I chose the 4 day work week. The only problem is that my work week is now 38.5hr/week instead of the typical 40. (with overtime you would never have guessed---11hrs straigh, no lunch, no break today)
I did the math and I'm not going to be loosing that much money. I don't think I'll even notice.
What is getting me sooooooo frustrated is that NO ONE is happy for me. I have a schedule that I like....
And maybe I'll be able to get better...I am sooooooo sick physically, mentally, and emotionally.
No one understands that. It is soooooo hard to deal with all the ridicule.
It's my life... why won't people let ME live it?????
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June 23, 2006, 8:53 pm PDT

Hey Vickie

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Sorry I missed you. 

  

I lhope you sleep well. 

  

Peaceful dreams. 

  

Neko/Vickie 

Hey Vickie,
How are you??? I haven't talked to you... it seems like almost forever.
I hope you are doing well.
I miss you
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June 23, 2006, 11:04 pm PDT

I'm just trying to help

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Thank you so much for your wonderful quote which made me smile. 

It´s nice to hear that you have faith in me. 

I hope you are doing well. 

Take care and all the best wishes. 

bentien 

Because it's true and because our country needs people like you.  So come on down. 

  

You'll find that we are a very friendly people, on the whole, though there are always some who give Australians a bad name.  But,on another tangent, we're not all like Crown Princess Mary.  She really is one-in-a-million.  I don't mean to say that she gives us a bad name.  I think she is wonderful and kind.  Just a bit lonely, I think. 

  

Of course, I'm not trying to influence your decision.(Tee hee).  Just giving you something to consider. 

 We Are Not Worthy We Are Not Worthy We Are Not Worthy 





 

 
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June 24, 2006, 5:57 am PDT

Depression

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Hey Yall,
Oh Finally, I am on the mends. No more of those "is she going to live?" coughs. I am feeling soooo much better. I am acctually getting sleep now. Makes a person feel not so depressed once health is better.
Ahhh... the weekend. It has been a long time since I've had a weekend off.
My work schedule has changed. Our clinic doesn't want to be open on Saturdays anymore. That left me with 2 choices. Start working Monday-Friday or have a 4 day work week.
I chose the 4 day work week. The only problem is that my work week is now 38.5hr/week instead of the typical 40. (with overtime you would never have guessed---11hrs straigh, no lunch, no break today)
I did the math and I'm not going to be loosing that much money. I don't think I'll even notice.
What is getting me sooooooo frustrated is that NO ONE is happy for me. I have a schedule that I like....
And maybe I'll be able to get better...I am sooooooo sick physically, mentally, and emotionally.
No one understands that. It is soooooo hard to deal with all the ridicule.
It's my life... why won't people let ME live it?????
P

 I say...GOOD JOB !!!!!!! For You!!) ) ))))))))) Way to go !  Taking care of yourself is much more important than anything else.  You are the only person who knows yourself best and if that is what you have to do, then that is what you have to do. Please don't fret over what others think, so what if they don't understand, while they are slave-working, you could be lying on the beach (or something similer), and can rub it in their face telling them " they had the choice too". Go....enjoy your time to yourself, you deserve it !!!!!   I am sure it is time well earned.  Good job !!!  Great Decision !!!))))))))) 

Liz 

 
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June 24, 2006, 6:21 am PDT

Answers about Critical Friend

Kenneth is almost 85 years old and legally blind.   

  

Since his open heart surgery several years ago, he takes blood pressure medication amongst others.  He has a nurse that comes to apartment and takes his vitals.  Yesterday, he told me that his pulse was a little low last week.  When the nurse came to his aparrtment to check his vitals, 

his pulse was 48! 

  

Kenneth was rushed to the emergency room.  The cardiologist placed a heart monitoring vest on Kenneth.  The cardiologist wanted to hospitalize Kenneth.  The problem being shortage of  hospital beds.  The hospital staff says Kenneth's pulse must be 45 before they can place him in the critical care ward.  Kenneth's pulse is 48 as of  last night! 

  

The cardiologist says the first 72 hours are the most critical.  People are rotating visiting Kenneth. 

  

I am a so scared!  Kenneth is my dearest and only true friend in Corpus Christi! I  need to force myself to eat because I do not feel hungry.  I have been so upset that I have picked scabs and scratched myself.  I also cut some callouses off my big toes.  The callouses get so big.  I need to keep myself busy to channel my nervous energy. 

  

I was able to sleep because I am so emotionally exhausted that my body shut down for 5 hours. 

I need to go so I can get a few things done before Kenneth's wake up time. 

  

Beth  

 
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June 24, 2006, 6:36 am PDT

Depression

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Kenneth is almost 85 years old and legally blind.   

  

Since his open heart surgery several years ago, he takes blood pressure medication amongst others.  He has a nurse that comes to apartment and takes his vitals.  Yesterday, he told me that his pulse was a little low last week.  When the nurse came to his aparrtment to check his vitals, 

his pulse was 48! 

  

Kenneth was rushed to the emergency room.  The cardiologist placed a heart monitoring vest on Kenneth.  The cardiologist wanted to hospitalize Kenneth.  The problem being shortage of  hospital beds.  The hospital staff says Kenneth's pulse must be 45 before they can place him in the critical care ward.  Kenneth's pulse is 48 as of  last night! 

  

The cardiologist says the first 72 hours are the most critical.  People are rotating visiting Kenneth. 

  

I am a so scared!  Kenneth is my dearest and only true friend in Corpus Christi! I  need to force myself to eat because I do not feel hungry.  I have been so upset that I have picked scabs and scratched myself.  I also cut some callouses off my big toes.  The callouses get so big.  I need to keep myself busy to channel my nervous energy. 

  

I was able to sleep because I am so emotionally exhausted that my body shut down for 5 hours. 

I need to go so I can get a few things done before Kenneth's wake up time. 

  

Beth  

I think that Hospital is a bunch of crap !!!! He should of been admitted right away. I mean I am no nurse, but obviously his pulse is too low !!!   Have you in the mean time made an appt with his doctor?? Is there another hospital in the area that you could go to? How about a Urgent Care facility? Man, I would be exhausting all my resources that I could. Which you probably already have.  But DON'T GIVE UP!!!!!!  Keep pushing and asking for treatment.   BUT.........TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF TOO !!!!!!!! Realize you can only do so much.  Pace yourself. It is all a balancing act. YOu can't help your friend very much if you are wiped out, can you???  In order to be strong for your friend, you must be strong with yourself.  Good luck !! 

Liz 

 
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June 24, 2006, 7:44 am PDT

yesyoucan & tamsue

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Your naming a Lucky Bamboo Plant after Tina to bring her good luck touched me more than I have been touched in quite awhile. That was a precious thing to do, Tama. I am following the good example you and Tina have set and I am off to bed. Practicing what I preach. God Bless You, Tama. (((HUGs to You and TINA and ALL))) xoxoxo
Thank you so much, you are really awesome really self less people I appreciate everything you say & think bout' me...but know that I always think about you & how your all doing even when I don't post. 
 
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June 24, 2006, 7:51 am PDT

yesyoucan

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Tina, it makes me smile too that you know you have a cheering section here rooting for your success in me and Tama and others. I am like you that I am so happy for your success I think...what more could counselor do... Yet, a better way to look at is that she has studied a lot and just know if it ever it doesn't feel right you can say no. However, why not play it by ear as maybe she can help you too. Sounds like you are beginning to feel comfortable with her and she might be some good added support to root you on live in person there. I am just SO happy for the way you are helping yourself so I have confidence in you and think you will use counselor you are seeing to enhance your life. We can always learn something from everyone we meet including counselors. I have learned to smile a lot with each goal you have set that you successfully reach. Sounds like you are using seeing counselor as a learning experience and it is normal to take awhile to trust. Most things worthwhile take time and you are worthwhile. In uncharted territory you have to play it by ear, keep your eyes open and follow your heart and when the time is right you will find your trust there. Keep the faith in you, Tina. We are.... So very glad you stopped by, Tina, to share this special day with us. (((HUGs))) xoxo

WOW! Four miles! I need walking lessons. Tigger and I usually top out at two miles and tonight just to the corner and back since storms supposed to arrive. I did get to stick my nose into a pink mimosa tree blossom and the scent was divine. Said lots of prayers today so I hope you caught all the blessings payed your way Tina. I feel like standing up on the chair and yelling... HOORAY TINA!!!... GO TINA GO!!! YOU CAN SUCCED! YOU "ARE" SUCCEEDING!!!

C O N G R A T U L A T I O N S

T I N A



SELF MATTERS INCLUDES TINA
God Bless Tina and God Bless Tina A Lot


*T ina, I am SO proud of you angel
*I t is important to be proactive just as you are
*N ever, never, never give up on our sweet Tina
"A lways remember to be your best friend and that SELF MATTERS includes Tina


WoW is almost all I can say at the moment you honestly left me completly speechless.  So thank you so much for all your support & awesome feedback doesn't even desribe how thankful & appreciated I am there are just no words to give that justice it deserves.  I'm sorry I'm not around much & that I don't support you but believe me I think about you all the time & pray your still hanging in there, your like a awesome friend that I never knew yet you opened your arms to me.thanks for everythings take care
 
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June 24, 2006, 7:54 am PDT

thank you tamsue

Wow I am completly honored that you see me as good luck & named it after me I mean that makes me feel really special....you are a great person, You always in my thoughts I know we can relate a lot & I feel so important to you & then especially since you named your plant after me wow I'm truly honored that I affect you so much & in a good way you take care
 
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June 24, 2006, 7:58 am PDT

To all my friends...

   

Just wanted to say:    

   

                                                                                Enjoy weekend   

   

   

Take care!  

   

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