Topic : I Want Plastic Surgery Because...

I was disillusioned I think.

I have always been heavy. At my heaviest I was 275 and at 5'2" that's a ton of weight to cart around.

Last year everything came to a head I was getting many health problems happening at once along with depression.  I decided enough was enough --plus was single and wanted to date - being overweight forever dating was what it was.  miserable.

I decided to have gastric bypass surgery June 30, 2008.  To date I have lost about 100# I went from size 24 to 2-4 from 225# to 120# life is totally different in every way EXCEPT dating...

In clothes I look fantastic. I can suck everything in with tight underwear, stockings and support garments.

If I do wear shorts or forget to put on all the necessary underwear I hate my extra skin.

I have extra skin on my tummy, upper thighs and my breasts are totally deflated.  I feel very unfeminine, ugly and like a deflated fat person.  Insurance covers the one surgery but not others.  I am happier and healthier in so many areas but frustrated and upset in other areas.  I hate seeing myself naked. I'm terrified to become intimate with anyone or let any relationshhip get to that point out of fear.  I know I am thinner i just want to see that person in the mirror.  She needs to be tightened back up.  I can't afford to do this but have researched it and have started saving.  ANY help in this area would be totally appreciated so I can totally finish my tranformation.

I',m there weight wise and emotionally ready to finish this process..l. justneed to be there physically and I'm not.

Laurie

 

why do you any of you care what the outher person thinks????????/  they have their own problems. why not pertend their not even their and go on with youre self. what are you saying. just because youve focused so much on how you see yopureself not everybody else dose, get over it and start to enjoy youre self the way you are. god dosent make junk. mremember the way you feel has noting to do with them. say take a picture and keep  on going on for christ sakes. have some compassion for youre self do not let outhers run youre selfessteem. you probally wouldent belive how they feel whern you ingore them and smile and just go bilverouds in what youre doing thats so much more attractive than letting youreself be hurt by their own insecurities. their the one with the problem not you all

i thought i was going to get some advice on breast enhachament not a board site . i have alot of opinions and i dont need to let them go on here. i  feel for you people . sincerly me

i became pg at a young age. so excitied though to be a mom. but then after . i was to young to know the concincous of a birth , i felt like i was robbed, no one told me how to care for myself. i was young and dindent have a clue what pregancy does to a 92 lbs body i gained 230 lbs in 9 mounths butchered myself and so did the dr in the hick town. i could go on and on but it would only get me into trouble. i over it now but it took along time.

Dear Dr. Phil; I would like to have plastic surgery as I am 83 years old but I sure as hell do not want to look like it. Of course everything has gone south. Of course my dear friends tell me I look like I am in my 60's. Which I know is not true but you have to love those kind of friends. I am holding up pretty good for my age as I serve on the Color and Honor Guard with the American Legionfor these burials for our Veterans.Also was the first woman Commander of the American Legion here in Greenville. As one man said I should be very honored to be commander as it only took the men 98 years to get a woman Commander.in their organization.I am am most certainly proud of that, Guess you could jack up this head and run a new body under it. Certainly could use your help.

I feel it is my responibility to make the most of what God has given me.It gives all of us a sense of pride when we know we look our best.How we dress shows how we feel insides about ourselves.