Quote From: blueidblonde1I have been friends with a man for several years and we work in the same place. We always flirted but both knew that it would go no further because he was married to the same woman for 25 years and I had been in a serious relationship for 13 years. Now we have both been single for about 3 years and have become close friends. On my birthday, he was waiting at my desk at 12:01 am (we work third shift) to be the first to tell me "Happy Birthday". After work he showed up at my door with a dozen red roses. Now Im confused. I always thought that red roses were for wives and girlfriends, so now Im wondering if he's looking for more than just being friends or if he is just truly the nice guy that I alwalys thought he was.
What part of the first in line to wish you a happy b'day, a dozen roses, is it that you are not understanding? If you can't tell if he is interested then you are very nieve. Why are you confused?