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Created on : Friday, July 01, 2005, 05:01:22 pm
Author : dataimport
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May 8, 2009, 6:19 am CDT

Ding Ding.... LOL

Quote From: ritehere

I figured that out.

 

I didn't realize you have been divorced for 31/2 years! Your daughters have had plenty of time to get used to the situation, then.

 

I thought you would figure that out... but I had to be sure. :-)

 

It's been 3 1/2 years now and my daughters are 18 and 22 now... they know more than me now. :-)

 

I hope everybody here has a great day and a beautiful weekend. The weather here in Indiana is suppose to be a picture perfert weekend.

 

Hugs... Brad

 
May 8, 2009, 7:32 am CDT

Funny how that works-

Quote From: manoman

I thought you would figure that out... but I had to be sure. :-)

 

It's been 3 1/2 years now and my daughters are 18 and 22 now... they know more than me now. :-)

 

I hope everybody here has a great day and a beautiful weekend. The weather here in Indiana is suppose to be a picture perfert weekend.

 

Hugs... Brad

I was pretty dense too until my daughter had children of her own. Then I was much in demand and asked advice of again.

 

The weather is beautiful here in Denver this week too, after the snow storm last week.

 
May 8, 2009, 8:22 am CDT

Ain't that the turth...

Quote From: ritehere

I was pretty dense too until my daughter had children of her own. Then I was much in demand and asked advice of again.

 

The weather is beautiful here in Denver this week too, after the snow storm last week.

Both of my daughters have admitted to me many times that they plan to use me for advise when they have kids of their own. LOL 

 

I have been to Denver once ( 2004 ) for vacation, and I have to say it is a very beautiful state.

 

Have a good weekend

 

 

 
May 8, 2009, 8:24 am CDT

But not for spelling... truth. LOL

Quote From: manoman

Both of my daughters have admitted to me many times that they plan to use me for advise when they have kids of their own. LOL 

 

I have been to Denver once ( 2004 ) for vacation, and I have to say it is a very beautiful state.

 

Have a good weekend

 

 

 
May 8, 2009, 10:51 am CDT

Brad

Hope your day is going well and you have a wonderful weekend!  ((hugs)) ~Red
 
May 8, 2009, 11:06 am CDT

Hi Red...

Quote From: redneon

Hope your day is going well and you have a wonderful weekend!  ((hugs)) Red

Good to see your hear...

 

I am doing better than I deserve. :-)  How about you.?  Keeping your hopes up on the house.? Still believe there are a (few) good men out threre.? I did say a few.  LOL 

 

My oldest daughter came to visit me for lunch. I am one lucky guy. :-)  and the weekend is here... don't have any plans yet, but that can be a good thing sometimes. Here in Indiana were suppose to have really good weather all weekend. One thought is to have a fire outside in the backyard.? Or a bike ride on Saturday maybe.? 

 

Take care and have a great,great day... it's all in the attitude baby. :-)))

 

((hugs)) Brad

 
May 24, 2009, 11:04 am CDT

Internet

I was posted sometimes here about internet cheated on, an issue about my wife contacts one ex-boyfriend and change sex-porn-dirty emails.

Now thats happen the following, my wife stills have internet conversations about sex, with her friends, doenst matter if a man or a woman.

She saw to me its just jokes, conversations in vain, but with the theme about porn e-mail to her ex-boyfriend, this hurt me so much.She saw I want to control her life, her friendships life, but I not talking about this, I just ask for she to stop with this type of conversation, because I feel hurted like on those times that ex-boyfriend porn email.She still highly pissed off with me and saw that dont want go on with the marriage on this conditions.For a example, she posts things like this : "My love........my life....", and answer questionarys saiyng she wants sex on that moment, and this post are open for all friends of that page.

She had one conversation one time, where she saiyng that is hard to have sex with me, and her friends saiyng to her to go for a drink, to get good to have sex and makes "the gueisha" service, and after this, she comes to me, we have sex on this night, and as soon we finished the act, she propuse me split up.

Today, after one discution about this theme, she deleted your facebook page, deleted the friends list, delete everything.

I saw to she this is not necessary, I just want she stop with te sex type conversation, questionarys, and thing relationed with this theme just for a time, but she affirmed again "or I can have this in a full, or I dont want have nothing."

I really dont know what to do.......I`m afrad so much, afradi that past things happen again, and get a worse way, the phisical cheat.

What I have to do???

 
May 25, 2009, 12:59 pm CDT

Cheated On

Quote From: mrlogan

I was posted sometimes here about internet cheated on, an issue about my wife contacts one ex-boyfriend and change sex-porn-dirty emails.

Now thats happen the following, my wife stills have internet conversations about sex, with her friends, doenst matter if a man or a woman.

She saw to me its just jokes, conversations in vain, but with the theme about porn e-mail to her ex-boyfriend, this hurt me so much.She saw I want to control her life, her friendships life, but I not talking about this, I just ask for she to stop with this type of conversation, because I feel hurted like on those times that ex-boyfriend porn email.She still highly pissed off with me and saw that dont want go on with the marriage on this conditions.For a example, she posts things like this : "My love........my life....", and answer questionarys saiyng she wants sex on that moment, and this post are open for all friends of that page.

She had one conversation one time, where she saiyng that is hard to have sex with me, and her friends saiyng to her to go for a drink, to get good to have sex and makes "the gueisha" service, and after this, she comes to me, we have sex on this night, and as soon we finished the act, she propuse me split up.

Today, after one discution about this theme, she deleted your facebook page, deleted the friends list, delete everything.

I saw to she this is not necessary, I just want she stop with te sex type conversation, questionarys, and thing relationed with this theme just for a time, but she affirmed again "or I can have this in a full, or I dont want have nothing."

I really dont know what to do.......Im afrad so much, afradi that past things happen again, and get a worse way, the phisical cheat.

What I have to do???

   

               I WILL DO THE POST AGAIN CAUSE ITS WRONG! SORRY!!!

 
May 25, 2009, 2:26 pm CDT

I am still worried about my wife!

I posted here about internet cheated on, an issue about my wife, she had contact one ex-boyfriend and change sex-porn-dirty emails.

Now, after almost 1 year this fact have passed, its happening the following:
My wife got a friend, a girl, since we are in another country, not our hometown country, she kind of had no friends over here... so she got this friend from work... it was everything ok when she decided to have a facebook account and added this girl from work. She was talking to this girl everyday, and I realized that they started to get closer, as friend. And, there is a music, here in the country we are, a kind of rap music that talks about sex! kind of 50 cents...you know? well... her friend sent her a couple of musics like that and she started to hear it and not only that, but started to post, in facebook, to her friend, like a conversation between bouth, started to send her the lirycs of this songs, like they were singing! but you know, even if you post something in someone facebook, all of your friends will check it, and I think, to me, this is pretty much as what she was doing before! before she sent emails to her exboyfriend true internet, now she is doing this!! to me this is the same as cheating as well!!! Plus that, she calls her girl friend as: "baby" "sweety" "my love" "my life"....
She answer questionaries(QUIZ), for a example some QUIZ title : HOW I AM GOOD IN THE BED!!!, THE FIVE THINGS I WANT RIGHT NOW!!! and the answer its regarding to sex , and again all facebook friends list are abble to see it and read it.Those things really stills puts me into doubts.

She said to me its just jokes, conversations between friends, but with the porn e-mail to her ex-boyfriend thing, this hurts me so much.She said I want to control her life, her friendships life, but I not talking about this, I just ask for her to stop with this kind of conversation, because I feel the same as with those times that she sent porn emails to ex-boyfriend.She is really mad at me beacause she said that she can not speak our have a sex theme conversation with any friends, even girlfriends, and said that this is not normal! said that the normal is, sometimes, have this kind of conversations, our k¡jokes around this subject and she said if she cant speak at all about that with any friends, she can not go into a condition like that in her marriage...like a "prohibited subject" in her life.

She had a conversation once, between her firneds, that she were saying that it was hard to have sex with me, and one friend, a woman saiyng to her to go for a drink, to get good to have sex and makes "the gueisha" service, and after this, she comes to me, we have sex on this night, and as soon we finished the act, she proposed me to split up.

Today, after one argument about this subject, she deleted her facebook page, deleted the friends list, deleted everything.

I said to her this it was not necessary, I just want to her to stop with the sex kind of conversation, questionaries, and things related with this subject just for a time, but she said again "if I will have a facebook to keeps wondering every joke or every friends conversation and be afraid to someone talk to me something regarding that, and be always afraid with everything, i do prefer not to have".

I really dont know what to do.......I am afraid that things that happened in the past, happen again and-or worst, goes to a physical thing, you know?
I dont think those things are necesary to her, to live, I mean... she can live without it!! right?

 
May 26, 2009, 4:34 pm CDT

I need to know

Quote From: mrlogan

I posted here about internet cheated on, an issue about my wife, she had contact one ex-boyfriend and change sex-porn-dirty emails.

Now, after almost 1 year this fact have passed, its happening the following:
My wife got a friend, a girl, since we are in another country, not our hometown country, she kind of had no friends over here... so she got this friend from work... it was everything ok when she decided to have a facebook account and added this girl from work. She was talking to this girl everyday, and I realized that they started to get closer, as friend. And, there is a music, here in the country we are, a kind of rap music that talks about sex! kind of 50 cents...you know? well... her friend sent her a couple of musics like that and she started to hear it and not only that, but started to post, in facebook, to her friend, like a conversation between bouth, started to send her the lirycs of this songs, like they were singing! but you know, even if you post something in someone facebook, all of your friends will check it, and I think, to me, this is pretty much as what she was doing before! before she sent emails to her exboyfriend true internet, now she is doing this!! to me this is the same as cheating as well!!! Plus that, she calls her girl friend as: "baby" "sweety" "my love" "my life"....
She answer questionaries(QUIZ), for a example some QUIZ title : HOW I AM GOOD IN THE BED!!!, THE FIVE THINGS I WANT RIGHT NOW!!! and the answer its regarding to sex , and again all facebook friends list are abble to see it and read it.Those things really stills puts me into doubts.

She said to me its just jokes, conversations between friends, but with the porn e-mail to her ex-boyfriend thing, this hurts me so much.She said I want to control her life, her friendships life, but I not talking about this, I just ask for her to stop with this kind of conversation, because I feel the same as with those times that she sent porn emails to ex-boyfriend.She is really mad at me beacause she said that she can not speak our have a sex theme conversation with any friends, even girlfriends, and said that this is not normal! said that the normal is, sometimes, have this kind of conversations, our k¡jokes around this subject and she said if she cant speak at all about that with any friends, she can not go into a condition like that in her marriage...like a "prohibited subject" in her life.

She had a conversation once, between her firneds, that she were saying that it was hard to have sex with me, and one friend, a woman saiyng to her to go for a drink, to get good to have sex and makes "the gueisha" service, and after this, she comes to me, we have sex on this night, and as soon we finished the act, she proposed me to split up.

Today, after one argument about this subject, she deleted her facebook page, deleted the friends list, deleted everything.

I said to her this it was not necessary, I just want to her to stop with the sex kind of conversation, questionaries, and things related with this subject just for a time, but she said again "if I will have a facebook to keeps wondering every joke or every friends conversation and be afraid to someone talk to me something regarding that, and be always afraid with everything, i do prefer not to have".

I really dont know what to do.......I am afraid that things that happened in the past, happen again and-or worst, goes to a physical thing, you know?
I dont think those things are necesary to her, to live, I mean... she can live without it!! right?

how old you and your wife are and what country your from, cause I think your reactions to what she is doing might be related to your culture and beliefs... let me know ~Red
 
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