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March 15, 2006, 12:01 pm PST
 Quote From: weblizard Well, it's geeky joy to be the first poster, but sad for why... I have been in a committed relationship for many years now, and things have been painful lately. I was forced out of my job of 19 years this spring; as a result, I have been fighting depression (yes, I am getting therapy and meds). I'm trying to keep this short- I was closing everyone and everything out- including him. He thought I was slowly leaving me, but feared talking to me because he didn't wan tto cause more pain. He was confiding in a female friend that he had lost me , and you can guess the rest. We have been talking a lot the past couple of weeks- but he said he has to speak with her face to face to resolve what he is doing. He leaves tomorrow to fly out to meet her. I don't know what to say before he leaves. We don't live together, so it isn't like waiting for him to come home from work tonight. What do I do? We both feel we are the love of each other's life, but he is confused about what he is feeling apparently. help... how long have you been with this man? how are you both doing now?
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March 15, 2006, 12:15 pm PST
my husand and i have been married for 5 months but we have been together for 5 and half yrs. We have a 3 yr old son. while i was 6 weeks pregnant with our son in like oct/ nov of 01 i met a woman my age and also 6 weeks along. We became fast friends so did our guys.mine even started working for him. pregnancy and newborns came along and went as the boys got older she started confinding in me that she was unhappy in her marriage in every aspect and said the only thing he was good for was for money cuz she would never be able to live on her own. so one day she tells me that her ex boyfriend who lived in florida got a hold of her by email on a search engine we live in Indiana they were in constant contact, emails, instant messages. then phone calls while hubby was at work . she then tells me that she was trying to make arrangements to go down to visit him cuz their was no possible way hubby could find anything out. but he wasnt wanting her to go alone if she didnt want a family vacation then just the two of them could just go. so basically she was trying everything to go byherself . i flat out told her she was stupid, cheating wasnt the answer and never is. if she was that unhappy then separate or go to counceling. after that remark i never heard anything again about her ex, but was finding more info on how skanky she actually was. going out for drinks with guys leading them on thinking it was all fun and games. i started seeing she was an attention hog, doing anything possible to get it, from guys..she was an awful mother, and wife didnt cook, clean take care of her kids spend time with them basically as soon as they would get home from school, supper bath bed.. bed would be 6, 7 pm. then she got a job at a bank... no guys there to mess around with.. i started noticing she was paying to much attention to my man in everything he did, say, look, wear.. so i started talking to her less but he was still bestfriends with her husband. she made sure if i wasnt around she had her fat A-- out there with whatever he was involved with.if happend to talk to her on the phone or computer her first questiong would be were was my man at and what was he doing, so naturally it didnt take very long to figure anything out when they were constantly talking bout each other flirting in front of me and her husband. ect.they started doing whatever it was in about mar of 03... 2 months go by, at my sons 2nd b day party in may of 03 she showed up with her kids and husband to a childrens party looking like a complete hooker short skin tight skirt, tight shirt. i about died. by then i was already sick of her, i didnt speak to her just watched how she acted around my man. she was pretty desent she spent time with her husband and kids i guess she had the feeling she was being watched by several people, me, his mother and his 4 brothers and sister. i had for the past 2 months told him and his family somthing was going on. and had even made comments to to her that i thought he was cheating . not missing a beat she would be like really wow who with trying to look like a conserned friend.. so exactly a week after the party i hadnt seen or spoke to her was ignoring her calls, emails ect.. i got on the computer and went through my mans emails and low and behold what did i find.emails containing plans for meetings after she got off work. how she wanted to kiss him blah blah and felt safe and secure around him how she missed him was mad becouse of me they wouldnt be able to meet, so on and so forth they wouldnt dare email each other from home to home she was using her work email to contact him cuz her husband went throught all her things on a daily basis, email, purse, car everything. no trust there huh? i printed every single email out went to his house i dont know how fast i drove but a 10 min drive took me 3 mins. he was sitting at his computer i threw the papers on the desk asked him what the hell was going on and dont lie i had the proof i had been looking for. he just laughed i was tripping for nothing it was a game i was whatever so punched him. we got in to it bad,i was throwing punchs left and right, shoving everything he didnt lay on hand on me. he confessed they talked she listened to him without judgement and so on, they met 3 times after her work, kissed once that was it, i was ya and if i hadnt busted the 2 of you then it would have gone further he was like no, i wouldnt have let it i was like whatever.. i called her house a few hours later to make sure she was home i was on my way there. so i could beat the dog Sh-- out of her. shes luckey she wasnt home. magically she called right away from her cell she was out to eat with her husband, i laid in on her screaming she was trying to get me to calm down cuz duh her husband was right there listening to every word. i forgave my husband since the only thing they did was kiss once, her husband only knows about that. the only reason i havent said anything is cuz all im thinking is job security, since since mine works for him, i also found out when she confessed to a few details to him she beat the dog crap out of her, then it went to the back yard and he threw her off their deck. i dont agree in that kind of thing but i honestly didnt feel sorry for her one bit, and thought it was funny, because of him being the boss i wont touch her she knows it, i laid down the law if his boss was gonna be stupid enough to forgive him and still wanna be buddies he's even more ignorant then i ever thought, i laid down the law , i didnt care if i was there, her husband thery were not to speak to each other the guys were friends not them 2. i told her she had to reason to be in the garage if they were in it working on a car, she had 4 kids from ages 7 to 2 to take care of and spend time with. so its now 06 almost 3 yrs i still hate her want to kill her, ive forgiven my husband but the trust isnt 100 percent like it use to be, i dont trust her period becouse i know she hasnt changed one bit she's got a different job to were she is constintly around men. in the past few yrs she has broken the no speaking rule so on halloween i paid her a visit at her job, she's lucky there was a counter between us otherwise her face would have been hitting a wall, our husbands throw darts on a team once a week together i went to say hi one night and they were whispering to each other when i walked in she saw me and ran for cover i went a shoved him , he and i got into it there, i went after her, i left and went home i was done, her big bad worthless husband thought he was gonna follow me hom and threaten me before my husband got there as soon as he showed up his attitude magically changed, i wouldnt turn around to face him look at him cuz i knew id be throwing punches i also knew he's bigger then me and his attitude is to strangle a woman cuz hes had done it a few times to the wife. i keep thinking i should have let him put his hands on me., his ass would be in jail, lost him job, i would have sued for mental angush on him cuz i was also a little over a month pregant. so the thougth of her losing her house and cars is funny.. so after that all 4 of us had a meeting sat down and talked. it solved nothing except she admitted she was a whore and knew exactly what she was doing and wasnt thinking of anything excpet for herself. she was the one who started the whole thing. she still knows that i hate her dont trust her, i flat out told her if u piss me off just once you'll be in the hospital i am to the point were i dont care anymore, and i will come after you. he knows i mean business cuz i will go after him too, and im gone. were ok now but im still watching her cuz i know she started it.. i also recently found out the all the folks at the bar i went after the 2 of them are now scared of me. i told my husband good so now they all know that i wont put up with any crap, and i tell him there are women out there that completely suck they are selffish whores sure as heck stab u in the back but if their men were to even speak to a woman on the street out of niceness oh heck no it aint happening.. |
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March 15, 2006, 12:17 pm PST
Quote From: jill_burn We've been together for 16 years and I recently found out he too had an affair in the fall, he started with I met up with her 3 times and we danced, to the truth being he invited her to our home for a b-b q and a walk to the beach, while I was out of town. I decided that sure things weren't going well back in the fall and it looked like we were going to split up then over other issues, but I decided that 1. I told him I loved him and loved him enough that if he wasn't happy with me, that I didn't want him to waste his or my time and to leave. 2. That if he decided to stay that we had to revamp our relationship, and finding someone else to be with when we have problems isn't a solution to the problem, but makes more problems. 3 If he left he left I wasn't kicking him out to give him that "well she kicked me out victim story" it had to be his choice because I believe in free will. I'm still smarting from the whole thing, I try to be the best I can be for myself and the kids everyday and not give him some stupid excuse to blame me. He never admitted he cared for her, he continues to down play it, but I know for him to even pick up a phone to call any women including me is an act of 'God' he just doesn't do it. Hang in there sister follow Dr. Phil's advice and be authentic to yourself, do what is right for you and noone else, but I believe there can be love again after affairs, it starts with two willing spirits, if he needs time to think then give it to him, just be the best you can be to remind him what he'd miss. Thanks for telling me your situation, I appreciate your advice. You hang in there too. |
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March 15, 2006, 12:26 pm PST
Quote From: ron7127 Thanks for the advice. I've got my ducks in a row-lawyer,pI, accounts closed. I would like to say, however, that I found your initial remarks about the sign etc. to be extremely insensitive and somewhat mean spirited. Perhaps you've expierienced this yourself, I don't know, but I already feel stupid enough and I felt as if you were kicking me when I am down. Well, enough of the self-pity,eh? I appreciated the rest of the advice. ron7127
Sorry you found them a little insensitive. It was meant to to be a little tough.
Your opening line about is she cheating or not did come across as might bit pathetic and lost.
I just wanted you to make sure those eyes were wide open and accepting your reality and that you
need to move on and step up and do your kids proud. You still need to protect them. I tend to be a little blunt. Good luck and best wishes cause the road ahead is going to be rough. But you can handle it.
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March 15, 2006, 12:26 pm PST
~ To start things off I should first tell you that "He" was the first love of my life. I was 18 when we met he was 28. In July of 2005 my fiance didn't come home I called his phone at least 30 times with no reply. When he walked in the door around 6:oo am I knew something was wrong. I asked what's going on? Where have you been? He looked at me with blank eyes. I knew right away "You don't want to marry me do you?" I asked he just looked at me and so no. I asked if there was somebody else, he just looked at me. Knowing exactly who she was I said her name and he began to cry. He was leaving me three months before our wedding day. For a women that I had just met the weekend before. Who by the way had a boyfriend of nine years. I was devastated he told me he wanted me out I thought I was going to die. I began to pack up three years of my life. Well "He" fell asleep, I watched him sleep for around an hour wondering if he would wake up and change his mind. Well he woke up with his mind still set that I had to go. On my way to my parents home I called the other women. And proceeded to tell her everything that "He" likes and dislikes. So I would be sure that he was always happy. Even though my heart was broken I couldn't let him be unhappy for a second. Well to skip ahead a bit. I was gone less than two weeks when "He" was begging me to come back. I didn't I guess I was just being stubborn. Well as a result of me not coming back they slept together twice in August. "He" told me all about it, because I like an idiot needed to know EVERYTHING before I would even think about going back to him. However I did end up going back to him and now I am expecting our first child due in July. And I am terrified that he will leave me again. I try to be on my best behavior and not be a "B---h" as he said I was in the past. I clean, occasional cook, and try never to cry in front of him because I know it makes him upset when I do. I just can't get over all of this, and well I do love him with every ounce of my being is that really enough to sustain us for the next 50 years? I want to forget and forgive. I just don't know how. Sometimes I just think I am to young for this I'm only 21 with a broken heart. |
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March 15, 2006, 12:49 pm PST
Quote From: breezie56 To start things off I should first tell you that "He" was the first love of my life. I was 18 when we met he was 28. In July of 2005 my fiance didn't come home I called his phone at least 30 times with no reply. When he walked in the door around 6:oo am I knew something was wrong. I asked what's going on? Where have you been? He looked at me with blank eyes. I knew right away "You don't want to marry me do you?" I asked he just looked at me and so no. I asked if there was somebody else, he just looked at me. Knowing exactly who she was I said her name and he began to cry. He was leaving me three months before our wedding day. For a women that I had just met the weekend before. Who by the way had a boyfriend of nine years. I was devastated he told me he wanted me out I thought I was going to die. I began to pack up three years of my life. Well "He" fell asleep, I watched him sleep for around an hour wondering if he would wake up and change his mind. Well he woke up with his mind still set that I had to go. On my way to my parents home I called the other women. And proceeded to tell her everything that "He" likes and dislikes. So I would be sure that he was always happy. Even though my heart was broken I couldn't let him be unhappy for a second. Well to skip ahead a bit. I was gone less than two weeks when "He" was begging me to come back. I didn't I guess I was just being stubborn. Well as a result of me not coming back they slept together twice in August. "He" told me all about it, because I like an idiot needed to know EVERYTHING before I would even think about going back to him. However I did end up going back to him and now I am expecting our first child due in July. And I am terrified that he will leave me again. I try to be on my best behavior and not be a "B---h" as he said I was in the past. I clean, occasional cook, and try never to cry in front of him because I know it makes him upset when I do. I just can't get over all of this, and well I do love him with every ounce of my being is that really enough to sustain us for the next 50 years? I want to forget and forgive. I just don't know how. Sometimes I just think I am to young for this I'm only 21 with a broken heart. It will not be enough to last. Leave now before you end up like me and trying to pack up 29 years with no where to go. It doesn't matter what YOU do he will not be faithful and he will blame you for his immaturity. Let him pay child support and you gain the memories of your beautiful child. Memories of childhood can never be taken away from you and you will be the one sharing. He is not worth you. |
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March 15, 2006, 1:45 pm PST
Quote From: regguy ron7127 Sorry you found them a little insensitive. It was meant to to be a little tough. Your opening line about is she cheating or not did come across as might bit pathetic and lost. I just wanted you to make sure those eyes were wide open and accepting your reality and that you need to move on and step up and do your kids proud. You still need to protect them. I tend to be a little blunt. Good luck and best wishes cause the road ahead is going to be rough. But you can handle it. No problem and thanks. I recognize the tough thing and,normally I'm not very thin skinned. This thing has me pretty torn up, however, so I'm somewhat less resilient. I'll take care of my kids, believe it. I'm pretty sure my wife is a borderline personality , based on what I've read, and I don't want her ruining my kids. Thanks, again. |
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March 15, 2006, 2:45 pm PST
Quote From: breezie56 To start things off I should first tell you that "He" was the first love of my life. I was 18 when we met he was 28. In July of 2005 my fiance didn't come home I called his phone at least 30 times with no reply. When he walked in the door around 6:oo am I knew something was wrong. I asked what's going on? Where have you been? He looked at me with blank eyes. I knew right away "You don't want to marry me do you?" I asked he just looked at me and so no. I asked if there was somebody else, he just looked at me. Knowing exactly who she was I said her name and he began to cry. He was leaving me three months before our wedding day. For a women that I had just met the weekend before. Who by the way had a boyfriend of nine years. I was devastated he told me he wanted me out I thought I was going to die. I began to pack up three years of my life. Well "He" fell asleep, I watched him sleep for around an hour wondering if he would wake up and change his mind. Well he woke up with his mind still set that I had to go. On my way to my parents home I called the other women. And proceeded to tell her everything that "He" likes and dislikes. So I would be sure that he was always happy. Even though my heart was broken I couldn't let him be unhappy for a second. Well to skip ahead a bit. I was gone less than two weeks when "He" was begging me to come back. I didn't I guess I was just being stubborn. Well as a result of me not coming back they slept together twice in August. "He" told me all about it, because I like an idiot needed to know EVERYTHING before I would even think about going back to him. However I did end up going back to him and now I am expecting our first child due in July. And I am terrified that he will leave me again. I try to be on my best behavior and not be a "B---h" as he said I was in the past. I clean, occasional cook, and try never to cry in front of him because I know it makes him upset when I do. I just can't get over all of this, and well I do love him with every ounce of my being is that really enough to sustain us for the next 50 years? I want to forget and forgive. I just don't know how. Sometimes I just think I am to young for this I'm only 21 with a broken heart. I'm 38 and have been so pathetic in my earlier relationships that perhaps I have some wisdom to share.
You are giving this guy way too much consideration and getting absolutely no respect in return. This isn't all your fault, this isn't about u and how u displease him. U didn't "drive him into the arms of another woman." Don't believe that bull for one second. What do u mean, "best behavior"?? U didnt cheat and trying to be Miss Perfect for him will never ever ever be enough. He's gonna try to take the heat off himself anyway he can. If he was truly sorry he wouldn't impose this on u. Instead of realizing he made a mistake and owning up to it, he is blaming it on problems he knows won't get resolved so he has an open excuse available to him for his future straying. He didn't sleep with her in Aug because you were gone. U were gone when he slept with her and hence again a convenient excuse.
I wish i could have seen it myself when it happened to me - it takes getting away from the poisonous relationship and rebuilding your self- esteem to see it better. It is almost impossible to see the manipulations while your in it, with all the chaos and turmoil and heartbreak blahblahblah.
Don't stick this out for the baby's sake - u both deserve better. You may only be 21 but you are also the mother of that child. I don't know how he feels about the baby but I could care less. U carry that baby under your heart for 9 months and u want to just give it the best u can, and that does not necessarily mean Daddy living in the same house.
If u do decide to stay, then i say forgive but never forget. That doesn't mean u use his infidelity as a weapon to throw at him when u hurt. That means be ever aware and ever watchful. God Bless |
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March 15, 2006, 3:18 pm PST
Quote From: breezie56 To start things off I should first tell you that "He" was the first love of my life. I was 18 when we met he was 28. In July of 2005 my fiance didn't come home I called his phone at least 30 times with no reply. When he walked in the door around 6:oo am I knew something was wrong. I asked what's going on? Where have you been? He looked at me with blank eyes. I knew right away "You don't want to marry me do you?" I asked he just looked at me and so no. I asked if there was somebody else, he just looked at me. Knowing exactly who she was I said her name and he began to cry. He was leaving me three months before our wedding day. For a women that I had just met the weekend before. Who by the way had a boyfriend of nine years. I was devastated he told me he wanted me out I thought I was going to die. I began to pack up three years of my life. Well "He" fell asleep, I watched him sleep for around an hour wondering if he would wake up and change his mind. Well he woke up with his mind still set that I had to go. On my way to my parents home I called the other women. And proceeded to tell her everything that "He" likes and dislikes. So I would be sure that he was always happy. Even though my heart was broken I couldn't let him be unhappy for a second. Well to skip ahead a bit. I was gone less than two weeks when "He" was begging me to come back. I didn't I guess I was just being stubborn. Well as a result of me not coming back they slept together twice in August. "He" told me all about it, because I like an idiot needed to know EVERYTHING before I would even think about going back to him. However I did end up going back to him and now I am expecting our first child due in July. And I am terrified that he will leave me again. I try to be on my best behavior and not be a "B---h" as he said I was in the past. I clean, occasional cook, and try never to cry in front of him because I know it makes him upset when I do. I just can't get over all of this, and well I do love him with every ounce of my being is that really enough to sustain us for the next 50 years? I want to forget and forgive. I just don't know how. Sometimes I just think I am to young for this I'm only 21 with a broken heart. Life is too short to walk on egg shells forever! You know you cant live with someone that doesn't respect your feelings, only his. He begs you to come back, why because he is confused. Well you don't need to put up with that.
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March 15, 2006, 3:23 pm PST
Quote From: minni1227 my husand and i have been married for 5 months but we have been together for 5 and half yrs. We have a 3 yr old son. while i was 6 weeks pregnant with our son in like oct/ nov of 01 i met a woman my age and also 6 weeks along. We became fast friends so did our guys.mine even started working for him. pregnancy and newborns came along and went as the boys got older she started confinding in me that she was unhappy in her marriage in every aspect and said the only thing he was good for was for money cuz she would never be able to live on her own. so one day she tells me that her ex boyfriend who lived in florida got a hold of her by email on a search engine we live in Indiana they were in constant contact, emails, instant messages. then phone calls while hubby was at work . she then tells me that she was trying to make arrangements to go down to visit him cuz their was no possible way hubby could find anything out. but he wasnt wanting her to go alone if she didnt want a family vacation then just the two of them could just go. so basically she was trying everything to go byherself . i flat out told her she was stupid, cheating wasnt the answer and never is. if she was that unhappy then separate or go to counceling. after that remark i never heard anything again about her ex, but was finding more info on how skanky she actually was. going out for drinks with guys leading them on thinking it was all fun and games. i started seeing she was an attention hog, doing anything possible to get it, from guys..she was an awful mother, and wife didnt cook, clean take care of her kids spend time with them basically as soon as they would get home from school, supper bath bed.. bed would be 6, 7 pm. then she got a job at a bank... no guys there to mess around with.. i started noticing she was paying to much attention to my man in everything he did, say, look, wear.. so i started talking to her less but he was still bestfriends with her husband. she made sure if i wasnt around she had her fat A-- out there with whatever he was involved with.if happend to talk to her on the phone or computer her first questiong would be were was my man at and what was he doing, so naturally it didnt take very long to figure anything out when they were constantly talking bout each other flirting in front of me and her husband. ect.they started doing whatever it was in about mar of 03... 2 months go by, at my sons 2nd b day party in may of 03 she showed up with her kids and husband to a childrens party looking like a complete hooker short skin tight skirt, tight shirt. i about died. by then i was already sick of her, i didnt speak to her just watched how she acted around my man. she was pretty desent she spent time with her husband and kids i guess she had the feeling she was being watched by several people, me, his mother and his 4 brothers and sister. i had for the past 2 months told him and his family somthing was going on. and had even made comments to to her that i thought he was cheating . not missing a beat she would be like really wow who with trying to look like a conserned friend.. so exactly a week after the party i hadnt seen or spoke to her was ignoring her calls, emails ect.. i got on the computer and went through my mans emails and low and behold what did i find.emails containing plans for meetings after she got off work. how she wanted to kiss him blah blah and felt safe and secure around him how she missed him was mad becouse of me they wouldnt be able to meet, so on and so forth they wouldnt dare email each other from home to home she was using her work email to contact him cuz her husband went throught all her things on a daily basis, email, purse, car everything. no trust there huh? i printed every single email out went to his house i dont know how fast i drove but a 10 min drive took me 3 mins. he was sitting at his computer i threw the papers on the desk asked him what the hell was going on and dont lie i had the proof i had been looking for. he just laughed i was tripping for nothing it was a game i was whatever so punched him. we got in to it bad,i was throwing punchs left and right, shoving everything he didnt lay on hand on me. he confessed they talked she listened to him without judgement and so on, they met 3 times after her work, kissed once that was it, i was ya and if i hadnt busted the 2 of you then it would have gone further he was like no, i wouldnt have let it i was like whatever.. i called her house a few hours later to make sure she was home i was on my way there. so i could beat the dog Sh-- out of her. shes luckey she wasnt home. magically she called right away from her cell she was out to eat with her husband, i laid in on her screaming she was trying to get me to calm down cuz duh her husband was right there listening to every word. i forgave my husband since the only thing they did was kiss once, her husband only knows about that. the only reason i havent said anything is cuz all im thinking is job security, since since mine works for him, i also found out when she confessed to a few details to him she beat the dog crap out of her, then it went to the back yard and he threw her off their deck. i dont agree in that kind of thing but i honestly didnt feel sorry for her one bit, and thought it was funny, because of him being the boss i wont touch her she knows it, i laid down the law if his boss was gonna be stupid enough to forgive him and still wanna be buddies he's even more ignorant then i ever thought, i laid down the law , i didnt care if i was there, her husband thery were not to speak to each other the guys were friends not them 2. i told her she had to reason to be in the garage if they were in it working on a car, she had 4 kids from ages 7 to 2 to take care of and spend time with. so its now 06 almost 3 yrs i still hate her want to kill her, ive forgiven my husband but the trust isnt 100 percent like it use to be, i dont trust her period becouse i know she hasnt changed one bit she's got a different job to were she is constintly around men. in the past few yrs she has broken the no speaking rule so on halloween i paid her a visit at her job, she's lucky there was a counter between us otherwise her face would have been hitting a wall, our husbands throw darts on a team once a week together i went to say hi one night and they were whispering to each other when i walked in she saw me and ran for cover i went a shoved him , he and i got into it there, i went after her, i left and went home i was done, her big bad worthless husband thought he was gonna follow me hom and threaten me before my husband got there as soon as he showed up his attitude magically changed, i wouldnt turn around to face him look at him cuz i knew id be throwing punches i also knew he's bigger then me and his attitude is to strangle a woman cuz hes had done it a few times to the wife. i keep thinking i should have let him put his hands on me., his ass would be in jail, lost him job, i would have sued for mental angush on him cuz i was also a little over a month pregant. so the thougth of her losing her house and cars is funny.. so after that all 4 of us had a meeting sat down and talked. it solved nothing except she admitted she was a whore and knew exactly what she was doing and wasnt thinking of anything excpet for herself. she was the one who started the whole thing. she still knows that i hate her dont trust her, i flat out told her if u piss me off just once you'll be in the hospital i am to the point were i dont care anymore, and i will come after you. he knows i mean business cuz i will go after him too, and im gone. were ok now but im still watching her cuz i know she started it.. i also recently found out the all the folks at the bar i went after the 2 of them are now scared of me. i told my husband good so now they all know that i wont put up with any crap, and i tell him there are women out there that completely suck they are selffish whores sure as heck stab u in the back but if their men were to even speak to a woman on the street out of niceness oh heck no it aint happening.. 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