Topic : 01/01 Revenge of the Exes

As a licensed private investigator, I have caught just as many women cheating as men, but women are more discreet. I know that women are great liars as well. I know of situations where a woman called the police and stated that her boyfriend pulled a pistol on her and her kids, after the police responded they learned from her kids that she was lying, just pissed of. I had a client who hired us to take pictures of her while she was dating the married man to send them to his wife in an effort to break up the marriage. So I suggest you take a better look at your sisterhood. Some of them are quite sick in the head. I have several more, but I will leave it alone for now.

Greg

And exactly what WAS her bad behaviour?

Allowing women to disclose men's indescretions?

So you think men should get away with LYING?

(not that they're the only ones lying, just that we're disucssing Men's lies,not women's lies)

My name is Amber. I am a former guest of the Dr. Phil Show, and while my show with my fiance, titled "My Fiance is a Stalker," (origional air date May 19, 2006) wasn't quite as controversial as this show, it did lead to a lot of public discussion about Ken and myself.

I completely agree that people have the right to voice their opinion, be it in person, via phone, internet, published article, etc., but I do also know how it feels to be the victim of these such public statements. Even though it was disheartening to read some of the things people had to say about me, the bottom line was that these people have their right to say so, regardless of whether they know me or not, or the statement is true or not. It IS, in fact, THEIR right.

I did not draw up a law suit against Dr. Phil for allowing these people to post such untruths about me! Dr. Phil is not accountable, nor are his staff that manages and runs the message boards on his site. It is a public forum. Instead, I personally responded in as respectful and reinforcing tone possible, that what was being said was untrue.

My goal was not to create heated debate with people who don't make a difference in my life, my goal was to simply provide the accurate information about the accusations made so that everyone else had the opportunity to seek the truth from me personally instead of just sitting reading a bunch of bogus as I sat silent and cowardly, allowing people to just say anything because there were no actual facts to go on. I did my part, I spoke my peace, and the rest is up to the public to believe me or to listen to a whole slew of strangers who think they know me because they watched a 45 minute television show one day.

In this situation with Tasha and Todd, I see that she has done nothing wrong, Todd should be in hot persuit of the author of the comments rather than the site owner. Todd had not done his part,(that I know of, or since the day the Dr. Phil show taped),  by personally responding to these accusations and setting the record straight. Then he went and made the problem even more public than it already was and wrote in to Dr. Phil and put himself on national television over it, yet he was so concerned about his reputation. Everyone just needs to relax and just realize that hey, such is life. There is no way to know everything that everyone and anyone has ever said about you, and as Dr. Phil said in this very show to another couple, the best revenge is to live well... which is my revenge to everyone who spoke untruths about ME.

IN ORDER TO GO TO THE MESSAGE BOARDS YOU HAVE TO SUBSCRIBE. YOU GIVE NAME, ADDRESS, ETC. SO HE KNOWS WHO YOU ARE WHEN YOU POST A MESSAGE.

WHEN YOU SEND A MESSAGE, DO YOU SEE A NOTE THAT SAYS," WAIT ... FOR YOUR MESSAGE TO BE APPROVED.' THAT MEANS HE DOES CHECK THE MESSAGES POSTED HERE.

SECOND, TODD DIDN'T GOOGLE HIS NAME. ACCORDING TO WHAT I HEARD. HIS MOTHER FOUND OUT FIRST THAT HE WAS IN THIS WEBSITE.

I'M ON TODD'S SIDE. AND TO ME, HE DID THE RIGHT THING IN COMFRONTING TASHA AND HER WEBSITE. WHETHER IT WAS TRUE OR NOT WHAT WAS SAID ABOUT HIM!!

THANK GOD FOR YOUR BROTHER AND HUSBAND BEING SO PERFECT!!!!!!!

ALMA

I have a problem with the fact that the authors of these postings are able to remain anonymous, yet the people they are posting about are disclosed, sometimes with pictures. ( from what I understand, I would not actually sign on to the site) I think if the users had to submit their names they may think twice about what they are saying about others. It brings to mind the saying "he who lives in glass houses, shouldn't throw stones".

There are two sides to every break up, I'm confident some of these women who post stories, would in turn have stories posted about them by men who feel they weren't treated fairly in a relationship. Let's have a level playing field, if you are going to give a name of the pman who you feel did not treat you right, have the courage to use your name. You may be surprised (or not) about what others think about you.

 Ok, so while I do believe in freedom of speech, I do NOT believe in slander. I understand these women are hurt because I have been there but you can't just go around accusing people of things especially on the internet where jobs and anyone basically can read it. I believe that would be slander which I have also been through before. Whether a guy hurt her or not, that isn't to say that he is not a good person in other departments. Like the firefighter, yea he may be a jerk in relationships but the guy saves lives. I am not saying that to justify their actions but someone has to be the better person. What does that say about women if we can't. Honey, if he cheated on you he ain't worth your time.