Topic : 01/01 Revenge of the Exes

was anyone else wanting to scream at their television show while watching this one, (besides myself) hellooo. first off the girl was 17 when she met the grown man in his 30's. isn't that near illegal. that really creeped me out. anyone else creeped out by this? also whom was this guy fooling by saying he was 28 when he was 35. hello again i would have guessed his age at 37 . lol. and this coming from someone whom is constantly being told by total strangers that she looks 10 years younger. this girl was really sleazy to me. begging for sex and breaking into a guy's house. i didn't my dad the lawyer telling me this was wrong to do. apparantly she needed dr. phil to tell her though. and of course the guy was going to have sex with her. he was nothing but a player. a total user. yet she kept going back to him even though he was doing it with a bunch of other (more mature women i am sure) behind her back. she was just his little toy so he could feel young or something. he was nothing but a perv to me though. i hope i wasn' the only grown woman that felt this way.

You are assuming two points.  The people registered with their real names, and that the website reveals those names. 

Their own terms state that they don't give out posters personal info, and there is no guarantee the women used their own names for a free registration.

Q Is DontDateHimGirl.com free? A Yes DontDateHimGirl.com is free.     Q Is this site for women only? A No, both men and women can participate in the online forum. Women post their bad dating experiences and the men who are posted on the site can post rebuttals. In addition, both male and female users can post comments to any posting by becoming a member today. Q   A Will I stay anonymous if I post a profile?   Yes. Your personal information is kept confidential and is used only in accordance with our privacy policy. Q  

Second, it doesn't matter if initially his mother googled his name.  He made the same complaint about himself, googling his own name, during the show.  Google is the last place someone looking for an ego stroke should go, Mom included.  The argument still stands for both of them.

The internet is a nasty place, thin-skinned people shouldn't play there.  Free speech gives those women the right to express themselves how they please.  If he is so concerned with his reputation, he should take responsibility for his actions.  Once again, by having more discretion in the people he surrounds himself with, and how he treats them.  Nevermind, the lawsuit.

Hyperbole!

Much different situation than what is happening at that site. 

Stay on point.   

I just watched the show and checked out the site.  I dont have a problem with it.  I agree that revenge will not always make you feel better in the end. But it dam sure makes you feel good when you are going through the heartbreak.  I cant believe that women are actually sticking up for these men.  If these men where not out being deceitful and dishonest then they wouldnt' have to worry about the site.  Thats the problem with society we always allow men to go out and just dog women out and then we blame it on the fact that he's a man.  I am not sure the men are concerned about these women feeling when the are doing whatever to them.  So why must we in the end be the bigger person.  And for the lawyer on the show not once did he say he did not dog out the women.  He was more concerned about what other people would think about him.  "Whats good for the goose is good for the gander"

I DON'T ASSUME ANYTHING. WHEN I REGISTERED INTO THE DR. PHIL SHOW, I HAD TO ENTER MY FULL NAME, ADDRESS, USER IDs. AND PASSWORDS.

I WATCH A LOT OF COURT TV. COURT FILES. AND IT IS A FACT. THAT WHEN COMING TO LEGAL POINTS. YOUR INFO. HAS TO BE PASSED ON TO THE AUTHORITIES. 

AND EVEN IF THEY DON'T HAVE YOUR INFO. NAME, ADDRESS, ETC., THEY CAN TRACE THE POST TO THE COMPUTER SYSTEM IT WAS SENT FROM THROUGH YOUR ISP.

IF YOU TOLD ME THAT YOU SAW MY PICTURE IN THE INTERNET. THAT'S ENOUGHT INFO FOR ME TO GO TO IT AND CHECK IT OUT, REGARDLESS.

BYE,

ALMA

I'VE TAKEN  MEDICAL TESTS, AND THAT IS HOW I LEARNED THAT THE MEDICAL PRIVACY ACT IS THERE TO POTECT ME FROM SPREADING MY MEDICAL RECORD TO THE ENTIRE WORLD.

AND I BELIEVE THE ACT CAME ABOUT BECAUSE OF THE DISCRIMINATION THAT GOES ON WHEN PEOPLE ARE LEARNED TO HAVE ANY KIND OF DISEASES --CALL ANY HEALTH CENTER AND ASK IF I'M WRONG.

BECAUSE SOME PEOPLE DON'T BELIEVE THAT THESE THINGS CAN HAPPEN TO ANYBODY, WITHOUT DISCRIMINATING.

AND YES, MAYBE WE SHOULD TEACH THE YOUTH, BUT THERE ARE MANY GROWN UPS THAT, MAYBE, CAN'T BE TAUGHT. SO THEY HAVE TO PAY FOR THE CONSECUENCES OF THEIR ACTIONS.

I'M VERY SURE NOW, THAT THE GIRS WHO POSTED THESE THINGS ABOUT TODD, HAVE LEARNED THIER LESSON. AND THEY WILL NOT DO THIS AGAIN, EVER.

ALMA

BILLINGS IS ON THE POINT!!

BILLINGS, I  LIKE THE WAY YOU PRESENTED YOUR NOTE. YOU ARE RIGHT.

JUST SO YOU KNOW, I AM A WOMEN.

ALMA