Topic : 01/01 Revenge of the Exes

If Tasha is the one cashing in the checks made by this web site, then she should be the one held accountable.   For her to stand behide the First Amendment is cowardly.   Her web site is nothing more than bitter women crying about unrequented love!!!  Get over it girls!!!   He just wasn't into you!!!!   Oh well...so much for being a strong woman!!!!   Tasha, own up to your responsiblities.   If you believe and care about your web site so much, you should be more aware and in control of what goes in.   Time to pay up!!!!

Dr. Phil,

I caught your show today and was shocked at the attitude of the women who owns the website you were talking about. There were several tings that she left me scatching my head about. Namely does she really think that you and your viewers are dumb enough to believe that she did not start this web sight to make money. She just invested her time and money getting the site up and running and never thought about making a return, right!

More importantly is that she has provides a forum for women to trash men whom they feel has wronged them. Where are the checks and balances for the men? As a woman I know that in my life I have been hurt and would like to have gotten even. However, with that in mind who can really say that everything  these women are saying about these men is true. Has this woman never heard the old adage "Hell has no fury like a woman scorned?"

A man's character be severly tainted by a pissed off woman and if this site continues to go unchecked there may be furture problems. Suppose one of these men reads something about himself and decides to take his own revenge (i.e. physical revenge). What about slander laws, do they come into play in this type of situation?

LaMond

Murrells Inlet, S.C.

Very little surprises me today, however ... the second man on the show today made a few ridiculous statements.  He is in his mid to upper 30's and focuses on teenagers to date because they don't have "baggage"...

Additionally ... stating he is a "victim of the media" is clearly a poor excuse for his behavior. He is clearly smart enough to try to blame the media in attracting men his age to young girls ... I am sorry ... he is responsible for his own actions and desires ... and the media should have nothing to do with it for him.  Does he have no sense of identity and scruples at his age???

The young lady was a teenager... clearly she is not thinking the same way an older woman would ... who may be better experienced in dating men who like to "play the field" and not have specific expectations.  He should admit the fact that his attraction is due to the fact that she is young, inexperienced, and less likely to see through his "B.S."

She knows now and must move on.  Yes... he helped initiate her into the cold cruel world of dating and the fact that many men do not feel they do not need to be held accountable for their actions.  I see men like him as predators on young women.  The men in this position have no accountability for their actions - and as the saying goes... "All is fair in love and war"... thus ... if men continue to treat women this way ... a website as described in the beginning of the show is just as fair to a man leading a young girl on to get what he wants and leave them with the "baggage" he does not want to deal with from older and more experienced women (women who have suffered the deceptions from men like him).

The good for the goose and good for the gander does apply - and I am not bashing all men as I know there are some very good guys out there and some very nasty girls who play men the same way men play them.  A young girl who is thinking someone really likes her is not differentiating physical attraction from true attraction and of course, I believe it is better if women can wait before becoming physically involved - because it does add a sense of commitment for many women (whereas many men do not feel that same commitment - in fact - they many times have their little diaries they keep to show how many women they have successfully fooled).