Topic : 01/01 Revenge of the Exes

Even though I am a woman and I think there are a lot of worthless men out there, I would never stoop to putting disgusting information in a public place about them.  Isn't that a bit like men writing things about women in the men's room?  It is just gross. I also did not care for Tasha's smirk which was seen repeatedly during the broadcast.  She constantly interrupted and tried to talk over Todd, and that just is not a civilized way to approach any issue. 

Dr. Phil is generally right on, in my book.  Perhaps he didn't intervene so that Tasha could cook her own goose by showing her lack of tact at mediation.

Hopefully Dr. Phil took Tasha aside after the show and offered her therapy.  She obviously has issues that need exploring, let's start with the bitterness in her heart.  I hope she has a change of mind and finds a positive way to use her cyber talents.  I hope the judge assigns punitive damages and orders her to perform community service.  A good idea would be to take the money earned from her slanderous, poisonous website and donate it to a charity.  (oh wait, she said she didn't earn any profit...yeah, right...I guess she thinks everyone just fell off the turnip truck).  Her actions are outrageously irresponsible.

Todd has every right to be upset. Todd needs to sue his ex-girl friend for slander, punitive, and compencitory,as well as the site dontdatehimgirl.com, which needs to be shut down. This horrible, damaging, and one sided. If the girl being dumped doesn't have a friend to talk to, for her to vent and  to get the hurt out, then she needs to get theropy. Maybe Todd saw something in that woman and realize she has issues and didn't want to deal with it. That is his choice. One thing that the ex and web site should realize, "it takes two to tango". The web site lady needs to get a life. I'm sure Todd can get a web site saying dontdateherman.com . Words can be very powerful and have damaging effects that can play an ultimate role of ones life.

Todd, your doing thing and I wish you good luck.

Bashing people is not new, despite the forum it is presented in.  Here is the problem with this situation as I see it:  These women are publicly naming these people with the protection of anonymity!  If they were exposed themselves or the bashings were anonymous, I see no problem.  If the identities of the bashers was available, any injured parties could litigate without involving the site owner.  If the bashings were anonymous, then there is no injured party.

This man is suing the site because people are allowed to publicly name and bash people while being protected by the site owner, who is defending their anonymity.  This site is inciting people to to do these things, so this site is liable in civil court for participating in character assassination and defamation of character.  Since there is no law against what is happening with the website, which is the legal defense here, the site is defending itself in civil court with a criminal defense. 

This guy is going to win this fight, hopefully.  Otherwise, all internet bashings will increase, intensify, and cause increasingly alarming harm to others, deserved or not.  If Dr. Phil reads this(doubtful), I urge you to contact a US Senator to create a law that prevents Website and Forum owners from encouraging this type of behavior.  It is as much an assault as any physical blow, and society needs to finally come to grips with verbal assault as a criminal act!

I hope that Todd will read these message boards because I wish to tell him this but could not find any other way to contact him. All I want to say is that women like Tasha are a complete embarrassment to all women & I truly commend Todd for stepping up and taking this issue all the way. The fact that he was abIe to sit across from that woman & maintain his composure as well as he did is admirable. I support him 100% and wish him the best of luck in his lawsuit...by stepping up to the plate on this issue, he has already made such a strong statement & I admire him for doing what so many would not have the courage to do. Good for you Todd & keep on fighting, you have my support & obviously the support of many others who are familiar with your fight.