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Topic : 01/01 Revenge of the Exes

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Created on : Friday, September 15, 2006, 12:01:50 pm
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(Original Air Date: 09/20/06) Have you ever wanted revenge on an ex-lover? How far would you go? First, look inside a legal battle that has been brewing all summer. Tasha, creator of the Web site DontDateHimGirl.com, says her site is a public forum for women to share their dating experiences and tell the "truth" about their exes. Todd says false information about him was posted on Tasha's site, and he thinks she should be liable for the negative posts. He has filed a lawsuit against her and two of the women who posted. When they face off for the first time, who does Dr. Phil think is right? Then, Ashley found out her boyfriend, Corey, had cheated on her three times during their 10-month relationship. Now, she says she wants to get revenge by exposing him to the world. So why did she recently call Corey and beg for sex? And, Corey comes clean with Ashley and tells her how he really feels. Talk about the show here.

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September 22, 2006, 11:28 am PDT

ha

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I cannot believe Tasha won't just take off the false accusations against Todd. She didn't argue her case well, she made herself look extremely rude and uncaring. So what if the website is a forum. Be human and understand someone else's point of view.
this ofcourse coming from a man no doubt..
 

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September 22, 2006, 11:30 am PDT

yeah right

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OMG are you kidding me! Regardless of whatever this guy has or has not done, what these women are doing is no different that what youth are doing online - only we call it CYBER BULLYING! This is the excatly one of the points I make in my thesis which is on the topic of cyber bullying. If a youth says something negative, hurtful or hateful against a peer it is labled as bullying, but yet were does this behaviour become acceptable ? Is it just because they are adults that they seem to think it is ok? I know Dr. Phil will set them straight on this. If we want our young people to treat others with respect online than we as adults need to set that example and not engage in and model the same behaviour we are telling them is not ok!

 

Dr. Phil I know you have my back on this don't you!

if doctor phil has your back on this.. i give up on this tv program.
 

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September 22, 2006, 11:32 am PDT

Come On!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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this is so true. todd is only bringing more attention to the dontdatehimgirl.com site. because just like you i have never heard about this site until wednesday when i saw dr phil. and of course people are going to want to know what the site is all about. and yes i read all about mr todd. i feel tasha should be happy for the simple fact he is only bringing her "MORE" business to the site, and giving her more customers to make her money. and there has to be some truth to these accusations because why would he be suing? and why would he be so mad? todd needs to het over himself. and little does he know that every time someone logs on to that site "SHE GETS PAID".

he know that every time someone logs on to that site "SHE GETS PAID".

 

 Ofcourse he knows, he wants the monies.. give me a break people!!!!

 

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September 22, 2006, 11:36 am PDT

09/20 Revenge of the Exes

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to the point that nobody is held accountable anymore.  We can anomalously post information about people, true or false, and get away with it.  We can in one State accuse anybody  of molestation of a child without proof  and the accused can not have his name removed or defent.

Where are we going with that?  There is more misuse on the Internet then good.  It's pretty sad that a incredible tool like that is used for all the wrong reasons. If it is not Porn it is false accusations.

If you make false statement about a person, regardless where, you should be held accountable.

If you make false statement about a person, regardless where, you should be held accountable.

 

 KEYWORD: IF YOU.. Tasha did nothing more but create a forum like Dr. Phil did this one!!! I feel as if I am sitting here reading postings from teenagers.

 

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September 22, 2006, 11:38 am PDT

Are you crazy?

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I am appaled at how a lot of people are viewing this subjecy.  We have jessconn on here who is ranting and raving about womens; power.  This isn't at all about womens' power.  She women posting these things about him couldn't voiced their opinion to him in a different manner.  Would you want your ex, or even your man to be putting personal things about you in the paper or the radio or on the internet?  You're looking at things like these women are having power taken away from them.  No, they're not.  What's happening is these things are being published, by Tasha, anda re out there for the world to see.  I'm sorry, but if that woman had two connective brain cells and hald of a heart she would take those postings down immediately.  He is right, if an employer or something googled him and those things came up that would make or break him getting a job or an important case.  So what, he may be a cheater, and yes I agree that's wrong....but is it bad anough to ruin the mans life over?  I don't think so.  Tascha is purely out to make money and that's it.  I don't know if she sees it, but she comes off as a right, snobby goody-two-shoes bitch!  That sounds harsh, but man...she even interrupted Dr. Phil numerous times.  She clearly doesn't have any respect for anyone at all.  She needs to grow up and do the right thing.  Maybe I should go on her site and say she's my ex-girlfriend and expose how she has AIDS and orgies every night.  Gee...I bet she'd take that one off!  Selfish and cruel is all the situation is and I hope she is completely embarassed once she loses the case, cause she will lose the case.
 Tasha was making monies long before poor Todd came along, if anyone is looking for a payoff it is TODD.. She may come off as a snobby whatever you want to say, but he comes off as a person who is upset that his secrets got out and now he wants paid.. Typical..
 
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September 22, 2006, 11:51 am PDT

Everyone has some

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 Tasha was making monies long before poor Todd came along, if anyone is looking for a payoff it is TODD.. She may come off as a snobby whatever you want to say, but he comes off as a person who is upset that his secrets got out and now he wants paid.. Typical..
Of course Todd would be mad that he secrects got out, if they're true, that is.  Wouldn't you be?  Everyone has secrets.  The reason they are secrets is because they are personal and they don't want them to be public knowledge.  Todd didn't want to file the suit, he got a lawyer and tried to get her to just remove the comments from the site.  She refused and wanted the publicity out of it...which is exactly what she got.  Hopefully the judge in the case makes it so that real first and last names aren't allowed to be on there, whether it be the womens or the mens.  This way it wouldn't matter what was said, it could not be a considered a libel or slander case, which is what it's turning into.  If it was just his first name on there and not his last, then an employer wouldn't be able to google him, and he wouldn't have to be worried about his reputation.  I wonder what Tasha's husband thinks of all this?  I know my boyfriend is totally against her just by the way she's acting about the whole thing.  If she would've just taken the postings off it would've solved the problem and she wouldn't have lost any money at all over it.  That would've been the responsible, adult thing to do.
 
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September 22, 2006, 11:59 am PDT

09/20 Revenge of the Exes

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well, genius, gossip IS illegal if it's false which is exactly what he said (he is claiming that this posting about him has false statements)if you were paying attention.  You cannot say or write anything that is false about anyone- its called slander and libel.  He should sue and you would do the same thing if someone wrote untrue tales about yourself.  Don't be stupid.
My point is that he should be upset with the women that wrote this.  How can the website prove it false?
 
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September 22, 2006, 12:17 pm PDT

articulate

as long as they (todd and tasha?) were articulate, whew.

 
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September 22, 2006, 12:20 pm PDT

Where's your ethics ,morals and standards? We need to be adults here!!

I don't feel as if it is ok for people to go online and bash other people.  We are the adults here!!  Here in Michigan we have what is called H.I.P.P.A which says you can't talk about any medical problems that someone has, however, apparently you can do what you want on this web site don't date him girl . com.  Yes we was given the right for free speech, that does not give us the right to be slanderous.  I was raised with the "you kill my dog i will kill your cat" theory.  But you do have to have some morals, standards and most of all ETHICS.  This web site we are discussing has none of the above.  I don't feel as if this is fair to anyone.. Do we all have to worry about past relationships?  Do we all have to make sure we are not the prodigy of someones anger management?  If we want to raise our kids in a somewhat normal world, why would we allow this ignorant bashing to happen?  What are we teaching our kids?  Ignorance is okay,  I DON'T THINK SO!!!!  I hope the guy wins in this case..
 

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September 22, 2006, 12:22 pm PDT

Ofcourse

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Of course Todd would be mad that he secrects got out, if they're true, that is.  Wouldn't you be?  Everyone has secrets.  The reason they are secrets is because they are personal and they don't want them to be public knowledge.  Todd didn't want to file the suit, he got a lawyer and tried to get her to just remove the comments from the site.  She refused and wanted the publicity out of it...which is exactly what she got.  Hopefully the judge in the case makes it so that real first and last names aren't allowed to be on there, whether it be the womens or the mens.  This way it wouldn't matter what was said, it could not be a considered a libel or slander case, which is what it's turning into.  If it was just his first name on there and not his last, then an employer wouldn't be able to google him, and he wouldn't have to be worried about his reputation.  I wonder what Tasha's husband thinks of all this?  I know my boyfriend is totally against her just by the way she's acting about the whole thing.  If she would've just taken the postings off it would've solved the problem and she wouldn't have lost any money at all over it.  That would've been the responsible, adult thing to do.

 I know my boyfriend is totally against her just by the way she's acting about the whole thing.  If she would've just taken the postings off it would've solved the problem and she wouldn't have lost any money at all over it.  That would've been the responsible, adult thing to do.

 

  By the way she is acting? Give me a break here, answer me this please. Should Dr. Phil be sued if I  said something about someone here on this message board that could affect his or her life in a negative manner and he refused to be told what he should allow someone to post and not to post within his forum on his website?

 
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