How stupid and manipulative these modern women can be?!!! I have not dated much, and now I know why, and I do not feel so sorry for myself as I used to, considering if this is what I end up with. I am not so concerned about the Tasha/Todd story, although I will say she came across as very vindictive and manipulative, and could care less about the results of the postings she allows on her website, as they affect men. The sad thing is she will probably win her case, since this seems to be a free speech case, rather than a libel case. Maybe if that was the case, Todd's chances may be better served.
I am more concerned about the Corey/Ashley situation, since this seems to be more typical of everyday dating situations, I guess. First of all, she should at least have been brought before a judge for the illegal breaking and entering (b & e) she admitted to at Corey's residence. Then she admits to striking Corey; that would sound to me like assault. Couple that with b & e, and this would not look pretty in the judge's eyes, or even the jurors, if it had come to that.
Which brings me to my main point, finally. Of course, Ashley will never see the inside of a courtroom and be stared at by a judge with perplexing eyes, why??? Because she is blonde!!!!
Did you read that, BLONDE, and maybe 18!!! (do the math, this equals gorgeous and untouchable, in more ways than one!!!!!)
I am not condoning Corey's lifestyle, but this proves how naive young women (girls) can be. In a sense, she also admitted she was hoping Corey "would change." What she was really saying is that she was hoping to change Corey. I have read that why women are attracted to the "bad boy" image is because they hope that they can change the behavior of that type of guy. This proposes a challenge to women, therefore this is how their "mothering" instincts surface. This is also why "nice guys" have no chance in the dating world, because there is no "challenge" to overcome, for women. The women see these types of men (boys?) as mother's boys, and the game ends right then and there. The female guests on your show proved this point very clearly.
One more point. Women who act in this extremely immature manner act so because they have been manipulated for decades by the magazine "Cosmopolitan" (Cosmo) and others like it. They tend to believe the sex advice, which is largely unfounded, and not medically proven, although Cosmo claims to have "interviewed" such and such doctor, when this is patently untrue. What they do is get out their trusty Rolodex, and then enter any doctor's name(s) they choose, without having interviewed them for the specific topic they are writing about . Why does Cosmo not sue? This would probably have an adverse affect on newsstand sales, which is every magazine company's bread and butter, so nothing, apparently, happens.
The Corey/Ashley story also suggests how naive women can be; although Corey does share much of the blame for leading her on to believe all that she did. Women may or may not want
to really "get married"; but what they do want, above all else, is the "fantasy wedding." Combine this fantasy, with the "mothering" and "fixing" of the "bad boy" and you have one dangerous concoction; I doubt any bartender could create a more potent combination, except for, say maybe, absinthe!!!!!
Women, and of course, men, need to be more realistic out there, and stop playing such stupid, manipulative games with each other. The "dating scene", as it stands, has replaced the playground from elementary school. The ony thing missing are the adult teachers who were the
playground "proctors", if you will, whom you could turn to when you were being bullied. There are no proctors; just bullies manipulating each other, and making up the rules as they go along.
(Original Air Date: 09/20/06) Have you ever wanted revenge on an ex-lover? How far would you go? First, look inside a legal battle that has been brewing all summer. Tasha, creator of the Web site DontDateHimGirl.com, says her site is a public forum for women to share their dating experiences and tell the "truth" about their exes. Todd says false information about him was posted on Tasha's site, and he thinks she should be liable for the negative posts. He has filed a lawsuit against her and two of the women who posted. When they face off for the first time, who does Dr. Phil think is right? Then, Ashley found out her boyfriend, Corey, had cheated on her three times during their 10-month relationship. Now, she says she wants to get revenge by exposing him to the world. So why did she recently call Corey and beg for sex? And, Corey comes clean with Ashley and tells her how he really feels. Talk about the show here. 
