Topic : 01/01 Revenge of the Exes

she has the freedom of speech which allows her to say anything  on her website  but it cant be discriminating people i think that tthe creator of the website  and the lawyer go over to that person who wrote those things about him and press charges against them stop suing people over the problems you have maybe the author could put security setting which will regulate what people can say on the website and what they cant

Ok, I don't agree with what was done to Todd at all - but I do understand how one can become angry enough to 'want' to do something like that.  I was recently put in a position where the now ex boyfriend really did me wrong.  And it was even worse because it affected my kids.  And for as hurt and mad as I was, and for all of the awful thoughts that I had, I don't think that I could have put not only him out there like that, but I don't want to use up that energy and waste it on him.  In the end, it really won't make you feel better, because the hurt won't be gone after the slashing.  I can't say how I would have handled it if I were a teen or in my earlier twenties, but I am 30something year old woman with a family and I believe in prayer.  But again, I do understand how someone can feel driven enough to do something like that, but it doesn't mean that I condone those actions.  And on the lawsuit against Tasha, I think that Todd should seek suits against the woman or women who actually put him on the website and not necessarily Tasha. Kinda the old saying of: "don't shoot the messenger".  If the postman brings you bad news in the mail, you can't shoot him for delivering the message - he just delivered it - he didn't write it.

I personally enjoy the website.  I believe it could be an outstanding research tool for single females.  When dating, people should come with a warning from the surgeon general.  Meaning the ex should inform the new person of certain aspects that could be encountered.  I have dated a guy that I thought was an outstanding catch.  One day while at work, I got a call from his wife.  When confronted with this information, he told me that he didn't think I need to know about her because they were separated.  Needless to say, the trust was completely gone and so was the relationship.  If you could call it that.  Now I enter all encounters with eyes wider open, expecting what is not be expected.  Like calls from wives.   

When the lady in the audience admitted that she posted explicit derogatory information about her boyfriend,   she also put his picture and last name for all to see and said that she accepted responsibility as well. for her actions.  I wish she had been asked this question:  Would you have done it if you had to identify yourself by signing your name and posting your own picture?

I think that the lady who created this would not appreciate it if her name was all over the web site with what she did or did not do or her medical issues and they were lies.  I don't think it is up to each person to take vengence on anyone.  It will come back to bite them for sure.  As the Bible states "vengence is mine", the Lord said.  It should be left up to God to take care of the situation and the ladies need to move on and grow up.

When you are dating,seeing,or sleeping with someone,as in anything outside marriage,you take your chances.If we all were so 'moral',we would all be married and never having sex outside of it,in a utopian world.Whatever happens between you and that person is as personal as that relationship.It would be equally wrong to publish and broadcast your spouses' pics or personal information about them,even IF the relationship was totally monogamous.Even IF people are totally honest and upfront,that does NOT mean the other person agrees with any choices,conditions,or decisions.I have been on both ends of negative situations,and personally,I would NEVER slander anyone puclibly,because it is possible and likely,that they will have a totally positive and healthy experience with another person.The strength of our character is NOT measured by how many battles we win,how much we THINK we are perfect,or our ability to try and judge others.We ALL have something dark about us,so let's be real,live and let live.Revenge brings it's own evil,right on the head of the person doing it....Like Dr.Phil said,the best revenge is success and moving ahead with your life.