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May 25, 2007, 4:56 pm PDT
white women and black men
I'll be honest -- I am attracted to Black men. I haven't dated a white man for YEARS. By the same token, I prefer Black culture. I lived in the caribbean for years, now in the states I attend a Black church, most of my friends are eith AFrican, Caribbean or African American. I find Black culture more passionate, dynamic, open, musical, and has a stronger sense of community than White culture. I am attracted to the way Black men look, the way they walk, the way they make jokes and how they relate to each other. I love the way Black women tease each other, how supportive they are when they really care about you, how strong and loud they are, and I love the way they can hold a family together. My husband is, of course, a Black man (Caribbean) and I ADORE him. He adores me as well. Its not about the sex or the size of... Its about the CONTRAST. Probably if I were Black I'd date white men (I love black skin against white). :)
Since I am attracted to Black men, I naturally have talked to a lot of Black men who are with White women and many of them have told me that they seem to end up with white women because they are generally less harsh than Black women. They say that, on the whole, most white women tend to be a little more compassionate, more gentle, kind, loving.. that sort of thing. Many of them say they don't like the combativeness and unforgiveness of so many Black women.
I know these are generalizations and they certainly aren't meant to assume all Blacks or all Whites are the same. I am just telling you what Black men have told me and I am being honest about my feelings because I think you are really just trying to understand.
Respect Always,
Caroline
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