Topic : Infidelity

Wow! We're back. Can't believe I'm the first one to post. Hope all is well with everyone. Welcome back.

  I hope the forum works well because it was good how it was.

   Does the message on differeing sex drive look all jumbled to you also?

Yeah, it's all screwed up because i was exploring the tool bar and clicked on the eraser thing. It gets rid of formatting and makes your text big and jumbled. Not sure what the purpose of that is. I miss the outline format.

  There is no reply prompt. It is going to be too hard to follow, this will be shut down again soon.

 

 It is like the author has never really been on a board before, They need to go see the others, like survivingifidelity.com and lifesaviors.com those are easily understood. Oh and there is a new one

 

societysurf.com   they shouldhire her to do this forum!

  and why isn't there an edit prompt? geez....this could be way too much work huh?

I'm anxious to see what this all looks like once more people start posting and replying. I don't see how this is going to make any sense. I really miss the old format. Maybe if we keep complaining, they'll change it back, huh? Anyway, great to see you again, vickie. Hope things are going well.

  daily sometimes I feel great then horrible then great then blah.

  Yesterday was blah. I hate blah. Today, was busy with kids, that was nice.

 

 My marriage is still intact, my H is still very loving, and I am kindof cool right now and don't really know why. I guess part of it is summer is here, the kids are out and HE has the nerve to still go to work! haha! I am really a baby sometimes, I just don't like him working, even before his work affair I didn't- I want us both to be able to be together and DO life together. We were looking into a business we could own and run together. That LOOKING has slowed down now hoever; we did just get an offer on our last rental porperty so we will have a bit more cash to go towards a business.

 

  Maybe, I can solicit here for funds- prob not a good idea huh? Okay, well, I think WE need to start LOOKING a bit again with more earnest. We have been talking about one business idea for most of our 20 year marriage.

 

  Which board do you want to test, this one or diff sex drives?

are you a teacher? can't remember. I'm the say way about summers because I'm a teacher and have my summers off. I don't understand why my husband can't take off three months as well. Ha ha. Busy with kids, yes, me too. My 13-year-old step-daughter moved in with us so things have really changed around here. Suddenly, I am Super Mom, or trying to be anyway. The difference between one kid and two is like the difference between one and two cats: HUGE!

  I have not worked now in 6 years. I am retired. I am 43 with 5 kids at home. Today there were a few extra kids here, that can be so nice. Most of the kids spent 5-6 hours swimming etc...it was great. I grilled and made snacks and sat under the umbrellas to lifeguard. Normally, I will swim also, but today I was just not in the mood. Our patio around the pool is being done -what a mess! But it will be fantastic when it is done, truly great about 1000 sqft of patio. NO more lawn mowing around the pool.

 

  Mhy first two children btw were so easy, they were really easy babies. My having kids isn't hard at all really. There were times when I felt like I would pull my own hair out however; I have just not felt like that at all since the affair. Priorities change drastically after that type of trauma, it also is great that we go out more often so that I feel like I have had adult time which helps with my attitude so much.