Topic : He/She Won't Commit!

I've been dating this man for 5 months..............he is the same type of man that my husband of 25 years was who passed away 15 years ago...........I wish to move back to Arizona where I lived for 3 years and he said he wishes to go also and told his ex.........she told him why wait, go now...........anyway, this man cannot get an erection for whatever reason and I told him, at my age (will be 61 at the end of the month), it doesn't matter to me.........there are other ways of satisfying a woman and that is not number 1 on my list.........

I feel a man and woman must be friends first, have friends of their own (as you can't be together 24/7) and also have friends together...........has similiar interests and also your own interests.  You should be able to tell each other anything without the fear of him//her laughing at you...........have a sense of humor.......be happy going to Burger King or Morgans.............money isn't everything, does not buy your health and without that you have nothing.....then sex is the icing on the cake!!

Now he says, he just wants a friendship, not a relationship?????????   Okay ladies, what would you do? Men, any suggestions???

Thank you all........

He called 2 days after I told him I can't see him anymore. Small talk then right to the topic on our minds. I think he may come around. But then again, the next day was Friday and he wanted to see me. Friday morning I was out when he called. I knew I was not going to see him that night. I have to stick to my guns. My whole body aches for him but I need more. So after a hair cut and color, time with the kids and grandma, I went to bed early. He called when he got in from work, and I reminded him why I would not go to see him. We talked on the phone a long time and it is very clear where I stand, i told him I would give him some time to make things right. He is not being fair to himself, his kids or me. He told me all the right things, we will see what happens. I keep praying for everyone involved, even his ex. I know God is greater than any problem I may have on this earth.  I know that only God can change people and change things, none of this is in my control. So I have started thanking God for the end result. Whatever that may be, everything is in His hands. All I have to do is trust and stay strong.